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Dating Advice Needed

I 36[F] have been on several dates with a 39[M] and they have gone extremely well! We’ve had great chemistry, phenomenal conversation, and from my perspective, the connection was there. We have both been single for a while and have had our fair share of bad relationships in the past, so our meeting each other was really a breath of fresh air. I know he is physically attracted to me (he’s told me as much), and I’m also physically attracted to him. It feels so natural for us to be around each other and we are both looking forward to our next date (which hasn’t been planned just yet since our last date was a couple of days ago). We have been dating for a couple of months and when we first started dating, he would check in on me every day just to say good morning, ask how my day went, or even to say goodnight (and vice versa, I would take the initiative to do the same). However, now I’m noticing that communication from him is slowing down and it makes me sad because I can really see a fut...

First date tomorrow. Is it alright not to text as much the night before?

So I (24M) am going on my first date tomorrow with someone I met. Now we’ve been texting quite a bit but it slowed down during New Year’s Eve and day (and that’s fine as it’s new years and we had family over lol) now we’re still meeting tomorrow she confirmed with me, and I said “great I can’t wait.”’and decided to leave it at that until tomorrow. Is that alright to have a bit of off time texting the night before the big day? Submitted January 02, 2023 at 01:14AM So I (24M) am going on my first date tomorrow with someone I met. Now we’ve been texting quite a bit but it slowed down during New Year’s Eve and day (and that’s fine as it’s new years and we had family over lol) now we’re still meeting tomorrow she confirmed with me, and I said “great I can’t wait.”’and decided to leave it at that until tomorrow. Is that alright to have a bit of off time texting the night before the big day?

/u/postalked on "DAD! THAT'S CALLED GROOMING!"

So everyone who started a relationship at that age engaged in grooming? January 02, 2023 at 12:27AM

Shooting shot with someone relatively famous?

There's this semi-influencer's profile I ran into when looking at posts tagged to a city in Europe (she lives there, I do not and was just visiting). Her pics constantly show up on my explore page (thanks to IG algorithm and me opening her profile everytime in shock) Based on her profile, she is hands down one of the most stunning women I have ever seen in my life. Not traditionally / conventionally hot but there's something I find extremely attractive. She also seems cool and has a lot of cool hobbies. I've seen her talk on some of her stories answering questions about her life, and there' something that makes me feel that we'd connect and have chemistry and also be friends. Obviously this is all based on what I see on IG, and for all I know she could be boring and vain. I do not usually care for influencers or normally have this level of desire with them, but I really want to shoot my shot with this one girl. It sounds stupid but been having a lot of luck i...

need help with loneliness in my relationship:"

why am i so scared to be alone? Well, im 24 y.o and I've never had a real reletionship. I actually spent most of my life looking for someone to entertain me and make me feel "important" as a special friend. I manage to do so, until I learned that I was easily bored by this kind of "friendship". And so for almost a year I've wholly stopped (i started when I was 11 I think,i would just be obsessed with one person and make this person the main topic of my thoughts) But in August i met a boy, with i was totally infatuated because I really like the way he lives and how much efforts he puts into his life. I fell for him and his sexy brain. Well anyway, of course he's not like all of that "friendship " I've been used to for years.. so now after three months of us being in a reletionship I feel lonely as fuck. I mean i know i am not. I know for sure he likes me, even though sometimes he really sucks. But still, i think that im looking for in him...