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/u/Ali3nat0r on Any Ace artist out there that can relate?

Sheldon Cooper is definitely asexual. Unfortunately, he's also an incredibly unlikeable person... January 20, 2020 at 12:18AM

/u/EmeraldLight on Was looking for promise rings for me and my boyfriend when I stumbled across these silicone rings in ace colors, thought I'd share!

My coworker and his wife have silicone rings and they ADORE them. Cheap and they flex as your fingers swell/shrink, and are decently durable. He's a lifeguard and his has been in and out of the chlorine for 2 years and is going strong! January 20, 2020 at 12:14AM

/u/DreambusterRainbow on Any Ace artist out there that can relate?

I can relate so hard! I draw NSFW Fanart for myself. (I don't get commissions often. And when I do they're SFW.) While I don't wanna have sex myself at all I very much want my OTP to have sex, because I think it suits those characters. January 20, 2020 at 12:13AM

/u/PrepareTheWarTrains on Sweet little ace-colored birb!

I'll take 30. January 20, 2020 at 12:13AM

/u/userzyx321 on would bringing my rainbow flag + lesbian lanyard to pride be okay even though i’m ace (albeit homoromantic)?

I think even straight cis people would. January 20, 2020 at 12:13AM

/u/EmeraldLight on Hey everybody! Just got my “Ace” dress! So happy!

Are those christmas socks? That's awesome! January 20, 2020 at 12:12AM

/u/TheChronologer1 on would bringing my rainbow flag + lesbian lanyard to pride be okay even though i’m ace (albeit homoromantic)?

Of course you can! I might go and I'm gay, aromantic, and asexual! Show your pride! I am! January 20, 2020 at 12:08AM

/u/blooming_petals on YOU'RE NEVER BROKEN (long post)

Ngl I cried so hard at that scene even tho it was so short January 20, 2020 at 12:01AM

/u/RedditRoxanne on $5 clearance buy became a happy asexual accident.

I love it January 19, 2020 at 11:57PM

I hate to say I dated this guy until I realized... He makes posts like this constantly.

https://ift.tt/36ftTCM Submitted January 20, 2020 at 12:00AM https://ift.tt/36ftTCM

/u/Robini_ on I came out to 3 of my friends and 2 of them were disappointed

I feel you, I came out to 5 of my friends and 1 was supportive. January 19, 2020 at 11:54PM

I need to crop the rest have fun with this for now...

https://ift.tt/3aolbVS Submitted January 20, 2020 at 12:09AM https://ift.tt/3aolbVS

softboi helP !

i’m f (19) and have known a guy “R” (m 20) since my first week of college from an orientation group. we bonded quickly and talked over snapchat for a long time (always sort of flirty) and i quickly became attached. we were both really supportive and interested in one another’s opinions/hobbies/etc. we hung out in large group settings a few times and when i had a guy being creepy and saying he was going to come hangout when i said no, R came to check in. he dropped off with communication after a while, then we talked again over our summer break, then he dropped off again. he has my number saved over snapchat but has never texted, and i offered quite a bit of emotional support at one point. i found out he transferred into my major and we have talked over snapchat infrequently this year (still flirty), but we both aren’t able to talk in person. we have two classes together and his friends are always a little too uninviting looking. i’ve also been told that i’ll get a stare from him here ...

Should I ask him out again?

Over the christmas break I(F17) asked my crush (M17) to the movies and he said yes. We had a really good time, we talked a lot but sadly we didn't grab something to eat after. So I texted him "Next time?" and he replied "Yeahp". But then after the break when we were in school, we sit together in math class and he was very quiet. He is a very shy person but he would be extra awkward around me when he isn't around his guy friends. But still after the bell he would wait for me to walk together. He also doesn't text me. Is this a sign that he is not interested in me? I feel like I have showed him enough that I like him but I have no idea whether he is really dumb or just pretending not knowing because of our friendship. Should I ask him out again or should I wait? If I wait I feel like he is never going to do anything. And my mom keeps telling me not to because then I look desperate and I have to keep my self-esteem. Submitted January 19, 2020 at 11:...

Am I overthinking it or something is not normal

I need advice mostly from man here .I need only the truth please I have been seeing this guy for about a year now knowing him for 4-5 years before . Am 30 he is 40 .He is good man well nothing much I can say .We are from different race . nationality and religion but culture is similar He says he loves me how proud he is to have me how much he appreciates me coz he sees how a good woman am and its hard to find .He wants to marry me . Here is the thing whenever we are outside he will look other woman .Now I know that man cannot help but notice beautiful woman but it's not juts a innocent look it more than that .It can happen everywhere where we are .the last time it happened we were at the airport there was a lady near us he kept looking at her .It's so disrespectful and I feel so bad .I told to him that it bothers me to not do it ,we fighted about it as well .And it keeps happening .he says that am overthinking that he doesn't do that .now I don't know if he not aware o...

What are things a man can do to get likes/dates?

Things I have done: Taken pictures with tripods, used pictures by friends/family, posted profiles online for feedback, changed by bio, let other people who know me write my bio. Worked out to the point of mild ab definition and needing to buy new shirts for work because the old ones don't fit my chest/shoulders anymore. Short hair, long hair, various styles. Casual clothes, dress clothes, everything between (always well coordinated). Reached the top 1% of income. Tried approaching in real life but most women just look uncomfortable or respond "I have a boyfriend" within seconds of talking to them (unless I'm with a tall white friend, then they smile from the first word I say, but I can't always have someone like that with me). Went to meetups where it was all dudes, joined a climbing club where the girls all had boyfriends. Gotten so many compliments on how funny, smart, generous, kind I am IRL it is not even meaningful or memorable for me anymore. Des...

I don’t no what to do

I dated a girl last year who was my friend. She goes to university so we didn’t date for about 3 months. The dates didn’t seem that good to be fair, she got out of a 5 year relationship 5 months prior to us dating. I asked her how she felt about me before she went back and she said she wasn’t in the right mind set for a relationship and that her been at university wasn’t fair. So we agreed to stay friends and I moved on. I dated around a bit but nothing got serious. We agreed to go out at Christmas, I was going out completely as her friend. But she seemed different like she was a lot happier than when we dated. This felt a lot better than our dates. We started flirting and had so much chemistry. I’m 26 yet I’ve never felt like I’ve got on with a girl as much, we just seem like the same. I then saw her phone with a message from her friend saying “go and get him girl” which I’m guessing was referring to me. I no she likes me it’s so obvious. I let her go back to university without say...

Should I go to this coffee “date”?

I’m 23 and he’s 30, and doesn’t seem that thrilled about it even though he’s the one who asked. I’m afraid I might get it bad since I may really like him whereas he might only be interested in going out with a younger girl to forget about “grown up world” for a while. (I’m writing so since he texted about his Saturday night where he talked about work and friends’ children) (I’m Italian, sorry if my English is kinda broken) Submitted January 19, 2020 at 11:56PM I’m 23 and he’s 30, and doesn’t seem that thrilled about it even though he’s the one who asked. I’m afraid I might get it bad since I may really like him whereas he might only be interested in going out with a younger girl to forget about “grown up world” for a while. (I’m writing so since he texted about his Saturday night where he talked about work and friends’ children)(I’m Italian, sorry if my English is kinda broken)

Got super nervous, couldn’t get it up.

Hello Reddit, This is my first post ever but I made a throwaway for anonymity. I’d appreciate your honest answers, thank you very much! So myself(M24) and someone I’m dating(F25) have been talking for a bit over a month now with a couple of dates thrown in and tonight we spontaneously started getting friskier than usual. Everything was fine on the couch albeit a little nerve wracking but things were going well, some time passed and we decided to move into her bedroom upstairs. That’s when things went downhill. I got extremely nervous and a bit awkward, but still very excited. We were ready to go, lights turned down....and that’s when it happened...I went completely flaccid. This has happened to me before with a previous girlfriend of mine. Im not sure if it’s my nerves getting the best of me, or if I’m trying TOO hard not to cum. After the second time I’m always much more confident and perform better in bed. We then proceeded to sort of give up and stick to oral, which was pretty...

Models by Mark Manson changed my life forever

This book is amazing and I honestly can’t recommend it enough. It’s not going to be what you think it is, a magic pill to date and have sex with every attractive girl in the world but you’ll get something much better than that - self improvement in your lifestyle, allowing yourself to be vulnerable with the right people and building relationships that matter. There is a lot of useless and unhealthy advice out there (the red pill, real social dynamics, the pick up artist industry as a whole and so called dating coaches) that tell you to do everything except be yourself. I honestly believe that if every man read this book, the world would be a much better place Submitted January 20, 2020 at 12:00AM This book is amazing and I honestly can’t recommend it enough. It’s not going to be what you think it is, a magic pill to date and have sex with every attractive girl in the world but you’ll get something much better than that - self improvement in your lifestyle, allowing yourself to b...

Dating girl who has lots of friends vs me with little/no friends

Her IG is filled with her and her friends at different events/parties,I usually go to events by myself and celebrate my birthday alone/with family. We are both in our early 20's so how do I be upfront if I never bring friends along or never hang out with friends? I am more introverted but I kinda messed up college because I had bad depression and never really went out, trying to find close friends now is a little late as most people have their own matured friend group. Like I'm worried when its time to celebrate my birthday, no one comes but her and shes confused, or I only hang out with her or if she wants to meet my friends, etc... Submitted January 20, 2020 at 12:07AM Her IG is filled with her and her friends at different events/parties,I usually go to events by myself and celebrate my birthday alone/with family. We are both in our early 20's so how do I be upfront if I never bring friends along or never hang out with friends?I am more introverted but I kinda me...

What should I do about my impatience?

I am 21 and feel like a 15yo when I think about this one girl I know since October 2019. It took me months to ask her out properly. A few weeks ago we went out and it was entirely beautiful. We huged and kissed each other for the first time and I never felt this way before. To know that she kinda kissed me first still makes me smile like an idiot. Problem is she is an student a few hours away and I would drive there but I don't know how to ask her out again without appearing desperate. Also don't want to wat another month... Submitted January 19, 2020 at 11:59PM I am 21 and feel like a 15yo when I think about this one girl I know since October 2019. It took me months to ask her out properly. A few weeks ago we went out and it was entirely beautiful. We huged and kissed each other for the first time and I never felt this way before. To know that she kinda kissed me first still makes me smile like an idiot. Problem is she is an student a few hours away and I would drive th...

i'm in love love!!!!

I've never met somebody that I've had so many similarities and so many differences with at the same time. It's the best, actually! We can tell each other about our interests/ideas/dreams and have lengthy conversations telling each other about things the other doesn't know about, while still being able to bond and enjoy the same things we both like. I have a place where I can be entirely myself without judgment, and I always have somebody to give hugs whenever I want. I can be so open and gush to him about him as much as I want... it's great. I'm so happy and so in love. He is so adorable, yet so hot at the same time!! I truly don't know how I got so lucky. We also have the same yet different music tastes, so we can always get into new music together and show another new music. I can say I've never been so happy for such an extended period in my whole life. (if you're seeing this for some reason: hey, I love you♡) I don't know where the road we...