Me and my on and off bf of 9 years, (who i lost my virginity to) started off having sex in a very intimate, passionate, loving, kind of way... it turned me on, i was happy, i felt pleased, he took his time, we held hands, we kind of basically taught each other this type of sex, we both enjoyed it, he was gentle, and we switched being dominate, it felt like we both had a part and say in our sex life, and it was great. I ended up getting pregnant pretty quickly afterwords, we met when i was 14 got pregnant at 16. (had only one other partner before hand and we split up during pregnancy and i had sex with someone else while pregnant and eventually i told him after the baby was born.) During pregnancy, we had sex, and it turned very different....he was aggressive, dominant all the time, just started slowly being opposite then what it was before hand. We were young, and weren't being faithful, but continued to come back to each other always because we enjoyed it with each other th...