Not really or maybe I never realize it XD August 21, 2020 at 11:40PM

I just never had much interest in sex or a romantic relationship up through the age of fourteen, and often confidently stated that if asked. At fourteen I had my first close platonic relationship, followed by a (ongoing) romantic relationship, but even after 4 years and some medsing around I still don't see much appeal to the sexual side of things. Age 19 and finally figuring out for sure that I'm some kind of ace :) August 21, 2020 at 11:39PM

Me, a panro ace: all but none August 21, 2020 at 11:38PM

My apologies I assumed that stong emotional connections would be romantic in nature. August 21, 2020 at 11:37PM

Because demibisexual applies to who I'm sexually attracted to, but Aromantic applies to my lack of romantic attraction. I use the split attraction model. August 21, 2020 at 11:36PM

For the most part, I never plan to have children even if my partner wants one. the only exception might be if i met a child in need of a home (adoption) whom i felt very connected to. August 21, 2020 at 11:34PM

Allos will go to a bar to fuck anything that breaths but will haze us demis and grey aces because we prefer to hold off on physical intimacy until there is a strong emotional bond. August 21, 2020 at 11:34PM

Im 16 and I had the exact same issue about whether I was just too young to call my self ace but for me, the label just felt right. Sexuality is fluid so its totally okay to call urself ace and then change later, whats important is feeling comfortable and if a label does that, go ahead and use it. August 21, 2020 at 11:30PM

Thanks! August 21, 2020 at 11:26PM

Sweet sticker August 21, 2020 at 11:24PM

Yeah. Too late for that now August 21, 2020 at 11:24PM

I do. I tried having a relationship once, and I learned that it's not for me, and when it ended, even though I enjoyed sex, I learned that I don't really care about doing it. August 21, 2020 at 11:23PM

I'm a gay aroace, so I check the box August 21, 2020 at 11:22PM

Last year when I was 14, before that at 13 I was kinda eh about sex but didn't know why exactly XD my friends told me I'd "get over it" and that "I'm too young" and it pissed me off 😳 August 21, 2020 at 11:16PM

Dying is good? Are you serious? I guess genocides were all good. I mean if all genocides, famines, war crimes must be really good. They have killed 100s of millions of people across history. I imagine if they all didn't die, they would breed and we would have far more population, far fewer resources, the ecosystem would probably never recover. I guess they were all good by your definition. Even the 796K Covid deaths. Do you see how dumb that sounds. No, death isn't a good thing and doesn't qualify. When I say good, find something that you would wish upon other people and congratulate (them and their loved ones) if they have it. If you friend tells you he wants to die and he does, I don't think you would be stoked about it and congratulate his family. You know why? Because it's not a good thing. And no, this is not just one post. There are many and many of them are filled with toxicity. "Oh, you said have a family and not have a child? How dare you? Why do y...

You can be romantically attracted to people even while being asexual :) I'm personally heteromantic, I find the opposite gender attractive and can catch feelings but not sexually. August 21, 2020 at 11:12PM

I've never wanted kids. It takes a lot of time and money to grow one and you may have to deal with everything they need until you die. And knowing myself as a "very quick to become angry" person it wouldn't be helpful. That being said I also think everyone shouldn't be able to reproduce if they can. Some people are not capable enough to become parents. August 21, 2020 at 11:11PM

Lmfaoo why did I say sex way before looking at the answer 😳 August 21, 2020 at 11:09PM

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