I thought you meant this sub and I was about to argue, but yes that is a good point. December 21, 2020 at 12:01AM

hey idk, i’m not a mod, just explaining why i think that happened. and no problem. December 21, 2020 at 12:00AM

Anyway, thank you. I guess I care just too much about how asexuals are seen. It's my problem, thank you for confirming what happened. December 21, 2020 at 12:00AM

Hmmm, but men are allowed to call women "people who don't have sexualities because they can't feel pleasure" and then proceed to discriminate a whole sexuality? That's dumb December 20, 2020 at 11:55PM

That is great! I haven't listened to it yet either, but its already on my list December 20, 2020 at 11:53PM

no, you can’t advocate for asexuality in r/sex because that breaks rule 4. December 20, 2020 at 11:53PM

It's not? I can't go off about people who discriminate others? (Especially women) December 20, 2020 at 11:52PM

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It's only been two days. Actually I got to know that I was a cupioromantic too, which explained a lot for me. And thank you. December 20, 2020 at 11:44PM

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When/why did you finally realize? I'm glad you found out who you are :) December 20, 2020 at 11:42PM

It means they rarely experience romantic attraction December 20, 2020 at 11:41PM

you broke rule 4. all posts should be sex positive because its a sex positive sub. December 20, 2020 at 11:40PM

this is low-key scummy. don’t manipulate him by “planting the seeds”. just tell him exactly how you feel and don’t hide your true feelings from him. if he is sexual and you are asexual, then you will part ways and that’s how it has to be. you shouldn’t want to change such a huge part of his personality. just think of how shit it would be if he started planting the seeds of being sexual with him and he started grooming you towards the idea of it. December 20, 2020 at 11:37PM

there is a song called ace of hearts December 20, 2020 at 11:36PM

See, I was thinking caution and.i was confused 'cause I was like "how can someone fuck up spelling that badly?" December 20, 2020 at 11:32PM

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Yeah I had experiences with partners with trauma too and I was also afraid to approach those topics, the best thing is to take things slowly and try to create more and more intimacy, maybe sometimes hint at it but do not insist and in the end it is often them who will talk about it, however I find a great idea regarding understanding how you feel without having to ask you directly, to suggest them to look / write in this subreddit where other asexuals can help them understand without make them having paranoids on how to talk about that without hurting you or making you uncomfortable December 20, 2020 at 11:31PM

Thanks! I don't know how much help I can actually offer, but I want to try December 20, 2020 at 11:26PM

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