Yes, because kissing itself isn't sexual, it's romantic. November 20, 2021 at 12:33AM

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It depends. I have had two boyfriends (heteroromantic) whom I did kiss often. I didn't really enjoy it though. This was before I knew I was ace so I thought something was wrong with me or everything felt it and just lied. But I did enjoy like a kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips. Something that to me was just affection. What I didn't enjoy was making out, frenching, or a long kiss. It got too handsy and turned sexual. Looking back idk how I never realized I wasn't into anyone. So for me it's a yes and no. Depends on the reason for it. November 20, 2021 at 12:32AM

We need a subreddit dedicated to Omar mateen. He wiped 49 queers off the map...... Too bad it was only 49... November 20, 2021 at 12:29AM

Are you my soulmate? Hahaha kidding aside, I use humans to when referring to people I dont know in general. November 20, 2021 at 12:29AM

So, I'm definitely not Asexual. I've had sex a few times, and while it wasn't great , it was definitely enjoyable. I definitely get horny. I just don't really feel much in the way of physical attraction towards people. Romantic attraction, sure, but hot people are just aesthetically pleasing. I do sometimes fantasise about people, but it's always people I know and like, and it's more about the situation than anything physical about them. Does this seem familiar to any of you? Submitted November 20, 2021 at 12:34AM So, I'm definitely not Asexual. I've had sex a few times, and while it wasn't great, it was definitely enjoyable. I definitely get horny.I just don't really feel much in the way of physical attraction towards people. Romantic attraction, sure, but hot people are just aesthetically pleasing.I do sometimes fantasise about people, but it's always people I know and like, and it's more about the situation than anything phys...

So long story short my wife told me she would rather peg me as she doesn't have much stamina and got tired of waiting for me to orgasm as it takes me a while to let it go. so She bought a realdoe and started pegging me with it. Ever since I saw it all I have wanted is to feel it in my mouth. So today she went shopping and I went in the bedroom and started kissing and just putting it a little bit in my mouth. I ended up dropping my underwear on the floor and masturbating while sucking on it. It took me like 7 minutes to orgasm instead of the 40 when we have sex. ​ I couldn't believe how excited I got from it when I orgasmed I let it go all over it and cleaned it with my tongue and mouth I have never been that way or that into something in my entire life so feel a little weird about it Is this normal would appreciate the help and advice please. ​ Thanks Submitted November 20, 2021 at 12:36AM So long story short my wife told me she would rather peg me as she doesn't...

To be blunt, my partner is jerking off too much for my liking. I know when he does because our bottle of lube will suddenly be somewhere else (usually at his desk)--and honestly, it's a little predictable, too, since it primarily happens when I leave the house by myself or if I have a meeting for work (we both work remotely and have pretty flexible schedules outside of meetings). I wouldn't have an issue with it if it didn't feel like it was cutting into our intimacy. Last year, we were having sex every other day at least and this year it's one day a week, maybe two, with some weeks skipped entirely. He's only able to finish once a day, or at least currently does not want to more than once a day, and 6/7 days a week he chooses to do so by himself. I'm going off birth control tomorrow for the first time in nearly a decade and he joked that my libido will get even higher and he won't be able to keep up--but he already doesn't. I feel like I'm left hi...

This is kind of embarrassing but I am really not sure how a condom is supposed to feel or fit like when you put it on. When I was trying to roll it down to the base it felt pretty tight. I’m assuming it’s good for a condom to fit tight but how tight is too tight? Because when I was trying to roll it down it did kind of take me a while and did feel pretty uncomfortable. Is this because I’m not used to the feeling of a conform? Thanks for any help! Submitted November 20, 2021 at 12:50AM This is kind of embarrassing but I am really not sure how a condom is supposed to feel or fit like when you put it on. When I was trying to roll it down to the base it felt pretty tight. I’m assuming it’s good for a condom to fit tight but how tight is too tight? Because when I was trying to roll it down it did kind of take me a while and did feel pretty uncomfortable. Is this because I’m not used to the feeling of a conform? Thanks for any help!

I have never had any interest at all in anything with the butt. Mine or hers. Just grosses me out. We were out drinking with our gay neighbor (he’s the really flamboyant outspoken one and his husband is quiet and conservative and wasn’t with us) Anyway…..he says the best orgasm I’ll ever have is if I have a vibrator in my ass while I’m fucking my girlfriend and if we both have them in our asses I’ll feel it as I penetrate her. Any thoughts? Advice? Submitted November 20, 2021 at 12:51AM I have never had any interest at all in anything with the butt. Mine or hers. Just grosses me out.We were out drinking with our gay neighbor (he’s the really flamboyant outspoken one and his husband is quiet and conservative and wasn’t with us)Anyway…..he says the best orgasm I’ll ever have is if I have a vibrator in my ass while I’m fucking my girlfriend and if we both have them in our asses I’ll feel it as I penetrate her.Any thoughts? Advice?

So I’ve gone on 5 dates( within 2 weeks, i know we may be going fast) with this girl, the second date we hooked up and have always kissed or made out too. Mainly I usually text her first and she has only initiated once. She is always giggling at what I say and is pretty receptive. Last date we went on (Weds) I tried to set up something up for Sat but she wasn’t sure and didn’t say when she would be free. Our dates always seem to go really well and plenty of touching, she also always texts me after our dates to make sure I got home safe and letting me know she had an awesome time. What I’m wondering is should I wait till she engages/initiates by not texting as I usually always do? Essentially after our date I messaged her the next day “Hope you have a great day!” And she swiftly responded. I have not responded since as 1. I tried to make some plans to setup something this weekend and she didn’t give me a straight answer. 2. Since I always engage if she’s interested she should reach out...

Has happened a few times. Perhaps guys do it too, idk. But it’s just weird how someone may not be interested in you anymore but will continue to watch your stories. Submitted November 20, 2021 at 12:10AM Has happened a few times. Perhaps guys do it too, idk. But it’s just weird how someone may not be interested in you anymore but will continue to watch your stories.

So this might be a long story, but I'm hoping someone else can help me out with this. I've been sort of seeing this Pisces girl for a few months now, and I may have messed things up but I could use help fixing things. LOONG Context: We work together, and I started by driving her home every once in a while where we became really close. Our conversations were amazing and there was definitely a spark. There were multiple times I'd pull up to her house and our conversation would literally go on until the sun came up, 6-7 hours without skipping a beat. The only reason I would have to leave is because I work another job in the morning. (I work 2 jobs, roughly 70 hours a week total and she knows that). She once straight up asked me if I like her and I told her yes I normally wouldn't have been honest about it because I don't want to make things awkward, but I can't lie to her. She told me she valued our friendship and didn't want to lose that but it's all s...

I’ve been talking to this guy for a month, we’ve gone on a couple dates. This week he came over after a date and we made out/dry humping for an hour. The next day, I heard nothing from him.. the next night, I saw him at the gym, he came up to me to say hi and I was visibly bothered. Fast forward, he doesn’t message me for 3 days. Over the past month we talk everyday even if it is just brief, so I wonder why when we finally get intimate he goes ghost. He texted me today (3 days later) what would you think of this? Also, he WFH but always takes hours to text back ( I mean literally I won’t hear from him all day until 8pm sometimes). Is this a red flag? What should I do? Submitted November 20, 2021 at 12:11AM I’ve been talking to this guy for a month, we’ve gone on a couple dates. This week he came over after a date and we made out/dry humping for an hour. The next day, I heard nothing from him.. the next night, I saw him at the gym, he came up to me to say hi and I was visibly bot...

I love my GF very much (she is 29, I'm 26). Backstory: Earlier this year , her cousin who she hasn't seen for over a decade, flew down to visit. In the beginning of our relationship, he flew down and we picked him up from the airport, had dinner, visited Mt. Rainer, etc. They were speaking Vietnamese the entire time, but I've been trying to learn the language since then, and he knows English good so we could talk! Yesterday, my gf asked to hang out with the family (2 brothers, mom, and dad) because her cousin is only over for 3 days. I said yeah that's fine But this time, it seemed like he teased me and her a lot, and made some jokes that just didn't really sit well with me. While at the Viet restaurant, he mentioned jokingly to my gf oh look he's texting another girl (when I went on my phone). My gf kinda looked up and didn't really smile but looked confused / worried, then they started laughing. It felt kinda awkward Then a few moments went by and we...

I feel like sex obsessed people are just yucky to be around. I understand that teens and young adults discuss it more because they are learning and curious. That I totally understand. But people my age (40s) just sound pathetic imo. November 19, 2021 at 11:51PM

This may be a stupid question, but how can you be heteroromantic if you're non-binary? (genuinely asking) November 19, 2021 at 11:47PM

Ugh same November 19, 2021 at 11:43PM

Absolutely! I’ve had sex, it was okay, and now I’m not that fussed. I still want to try different stuff, but like you I’m not actively searching, more like if the opportunity comes up then I might take it. Having or not having sex doesn’t effect asexuality, and neither does being curious or not, repulsed or not, etc. November 19, 2021 at 11:30PM

I recently started doing this thing when a see content I like I say "mmm kisses" as in sending kisses your way. Like a character is having an emotional breakthrough about them being sad or something, "mm kisses" Characters finally getting into a healthy relationship that they both wanted and communicated properly with each other about it, "kisses" Character doing a clean murder, " kisses" I don't want to kiss people, I wanna kiss moments? What does it even mean? November 19, 2021 at 11:20PM