I'm 22. I've known something was different since I was in grade school, and I first heard the term when I was about 13 or 14? But funny enough, even though I knew immediately that the term asexual fit me, at the time I said to myself "well, that's future me's problem" and I didn't really worry about it again until a couple of years ago when I was 20 or so. So I've known for several years, but I just literally didn't think about it because it never really came up. To be perfectly honest, my issues with "not fitting in" extend beyond me and my sexuality, so maybe that's why I feel stronger about it than you do. You have other places to fit in, but I don't (yet?) I'm usually fine on my own, but for some reason it's been bothering me more than usual lately. September 29, 2021 at 12:42AM

It is - literally, unambiguously - both. September 29, 2021 at 12:40AM

rip, sorry for your loss September 29, 2021 at 12:40AM

Hey, I am sex repulsed and also have trauma which lead to a different type of sex repulsion. If you feel like chatting about the difference with someone who has experienced both, hum :) September 29, 2021 at 12:40AM

Don't forget the cake 🎂 September 29, 2021 at 12:39AM

32M. I’m super new to sex. Found someone who trusts me enough to do it NSA. After our last sexual encounter, I feel a bit self conscious about my penis; not its size. I fucked her, no condom. I guess I’m just not used to the sensation on my exposed head but I noticed my foreskin would keep on rolling back every time I thrusted into her. It felt weird. I don’t masturbate with my head exposed. Submitted September 29, 2021 at 12:41AM 32M. I’m super new to sex. Found someone who trusts me enough to do it NSA.After our last sexual encounter, I feel a bit self conscious about my penis; not its size.I fucked her, no condom. I guess I’m just not used to the sensation on my exposed head but I noticed my foreskin would keep on rolling back every time I thrusted into her. It felt weird.I don’t masturbate with my head exposed.

Hi there, I'm posting on here because I'm pretty freakin confused right now and need some help. ​ I recently started dating a guy, and him and I were both virgins when we met. For my "sexual" history, I was assaulted when I was in my teens and was tested for everything to make sure I didn't get anything. I was confirmed to be clean from any STDs/STIs thankfully. A few years after, I got with my only long-term boyfriend for 2 years. We never had P-in-V intercourse but we did do things that were sexual like oral and fingering and whatnot. He never had any partners before me, never kissed anyone, etc etc. My current boyfriend has said that he hasn't dated anyone else or done anything with anyone else, I was his first kiss and we ended up having sex for the first time a couple of weeks ago. Shortly after I noticed the development of symptoms that seemed like a UTI, so I got checked by my gyno. She put me on Solosec because she believed that I may have gotten B...

Hello! Alright y’all we had the big girl comment a few hours ago and that thread got shut down. More power to bb but it made me get to thinking— My libido has taken a fucking free dive due to cancer treatment and medical menopause. I’ve gained over thirty pounds in the last year and lost all sexuality. I don’t even wanna look at myself— I don’t avoid it but a glimpse of picture leaves me shook by the difference. In the six years I’ve been with my man things have been rocky for a plethora of reasons but here we are all those years later. However! One thing I’ve always ‘banked’ on is our chemistry and how we groove. Well shit folks I haven’t wanted to get down for near 18 months. While in the beginning it was shock and understanding it’s beginning to wear me out— will I ever feel like myself again? In our relationship I’ve gone from 175 to 190 to 153 to 160 back to base around 170 and now pushing 200— none of my wardrobe fits so I can’t even flex for myself. I lost all my hair, all...

I’d like to know how it feels to a woman to be groped(consensually) too. I’m curious. Submitted September 29, 2021 at 12:53AM I’d like to know how it feels to a woman to be groped(consensually) too. I’m curious.

Saw a post earlier about dry humping and i read that most of the people who do this are teenagers. It sounds hot and something i'm looking forward when i get a girlfriend. (i'm 20 btw and i'm inexperienced, never did something like that) I just wanted to ask if do you still do this kind of things with your partners as adults or you just go straight up to PIV. Thank you! Submitted September 29, 2021 at 12:59AM Saw a post earlier about dry humping and i read that most of the people who do this are teenagers. It sounds hot and something i'm looking forward when i get a girlfriend. (i'm 20 btw and i'm inexperienced, never did something like that)I just wanted to ask if do you still do this kind of things with your partners as adults or you just go straight up to PIV.Thank you!

So I’m gonna tell this story from my friends POV. So basically I had a high sex drive at an early age. When I was 12 years old this girl that I thought was attractive would playfully touch each other. This continued for a few months. I was almost always horny. One time on the bus we were on top of each other and I slid my hands down her pants. I think she might of thought it was by mistake. I feel horrible for doing that and everytime the word sexual assault comes up I think of this moment. I have been feeling guilty and horrible. What do you think of my friends situation here? Is this the same as sexual assault? Would you date someone who did this when he was a kid and didn’t know better? Submitted September 28, 2021 at 11:55PM So I’m gonna tell this story from my friends POV.So basically I had a high sex drive at an early age. When I was 12 years old this girl that I thought was attractive would playfully touch each other. This continued for a few months. I was almost always...

I’ve known her for about 6 months now, we talked a lot and hung out several times for the first couple months. Idk if i moved too slow but she eventually became distant and i found out she started dating someone else, and i got friendzoned. We did have sex so it’s not as if we were only friends to begin with (fwb at the least) anyhow we’ve been on good terms the whole time, not talking a lot but here and there. I found out she got a new job nearby so i asked her to lunch, she said she couldn’t and admitted to me that she just broke up with her bf literally today and thought it would be wrong to get lunch with another guy so soon. So i’m kinda unsure where to go. I don’t want to come off as if i’ve been waiting for her this whole time, i am currently single but have seen a few people during the time apart. The last thing I want to do is get friend zoned a second time, but if she didn’t have feelings and only thought of me as a friend i’m not sure why she would have thought getting lu...

Hi reddit, so I've been chatting with this guy that I met online for about 5 months. He's really funny, nice, good-looking (judging by his pics) and sweet. We've been getting along well with each other and he seems to be interested in me too. The problem is we live too faraway in 2 different countries, so dating is a problem. For this reason, I've been contemplating on traveling abroad to visit the guy, as he recently invited me to visit him to his homeplace. I really don't know what to do. What if this doesn't work out? I fear of spending a fortune on airplane tickets and hotels, just to be rejected and left stranded in a foreign country. Rejection is a part of life and you can know if there's chemistry with someone before hand, unless you meet in person. But imagine if you travel a thousand miles just to be rejected. Also, this guy seems to have a darker side on him, despite being very sweet. He sometimes gets angry, when I don't reply immediately an...

I (19M) have gone on three dates with a girl (18), and we get along pretty well. After our last date I went to her house for dessert and actually met her parents, who were pretty cool, she told me they really liked me. We have plans to go to the D-Backs game this Friday. I think it is fair to say we like each other. I enjoy her company, whatever else you wanna say probably fits. I'm almost positive she's not seeing anyone else, and I'm certainly not either. My only question is- is it okay to not feel like texting all the time? Sometimes I just have nothing to say. We have better conversation in person than over text. Maybe the talking stage is over? I have never gotten to four dates with any girl before, that is why I'm curious. Maybe I just need to think less? I have read other places that texting should be only used for making plans- but what if those plans are a few days away? Anyway, sorry for all the questions. Just inexperienced. Help a brother out haha Subm...

For the past 2-3 weeks my boyfriend keeps bringing up what would happen if we break up. He knows I’m not cheating and that I’ve left behind everyone who has hurt me including my family. Even though I reassure him multiple times a day….he still bring it up. What can I do to ease his mind? Submitted September 29, 2021 at 12:08AM For the past 2-3 weeks my boyfriend keeps bringing up what would happen if we break up. He knows I’m not cheating and that I’ve left behind everyone who has hurt me including my family. Even though I reassure him multiple times a day….he still bring it up. What can I do to ease his mind?

Its not really an issue for me, but I think it would help a lot if there were extra content filters for others to use September 28, 2021 at 11:38PM

Yeah your fine dude even if you’d still be accepted here don’t sweat it September 28, 2021 at 11:35PM

Transfem would be more accurate since the judgment is so ridiculous, but aroace may be a better chance at creating dialogue surrounding queerness in general. September 28, 2021 at 11:35PM

A variety of perspective is healthy... Which is why it might be good to distinguish posts so people know it doesn't represent the entire community. The majority of posts are sex repulsed and often mock or make fun of people who like porn or sex. It's easy for the rest of us to feel unrepresented by the sub September 28, 2021 at 11:35PM

I only really like sex scenes in media specifically about sex, like porn. In movies I’ll tolerate it. Prefer it written the most. I am aegosexual/fictosexual tho. September 28, 2021 at 11:35PM