Rookie Numbers! ;) August 17, 2021 at 11:49PM

Haha thats a really good way of putting it August 17, 2021 at 11:46PM

I found out about it on bojack Horseman, but it didn't resonate with me until I researched more about it online August 17, 2021 at 11:46PM

I was describing my view on human bodies while discussing art. (It could be summed up as “oddly shaped meatbags of varying proportions”) She looked baffled for a bit and asked if I was asexual. I immediately laughed it off, then stopped just as suddenly, thought for a few seconds, realized it made a lot of my life’s choices make sense, then told her I had to think on it. A few days later, I told her that she was right. Difficulty level: Raised in a conservative family, it was never presented as an option, and I was in the military before DADT. Sooooo, it took awhile to figure it out, and I wish I knew sooner because I destroyed several mens’ hearts along the way. August 17, 2021 at 11:46PM

Ace in your Face Syndrome August 17, 2021 at 11:45PM

Evolution and biology that show many asexual reproductive creatures be proving these people wrong. August 17, 2021 at 11:45PM

I'm heading to Pluto. Seems chill, and far away August 17, 2021 at 11:44PM

YES August 17, 2021 at 11:43PM

maybe for trans men. thats like the only reason i can think of August 17, 2021 at 11:42PM

This was probably 13-14 years ago. I had told my aunt that I wanted a platonic relationship (turns out I’m sex positive under very specific circumstances but I didn’t know that at the time). She made me feel all weird about it and told me I was going against “God’s plan.” So I started searching the internet and came across asexualitic.com (I don’t think it exists anymore). But yeah that’s how I learned about it. August 17, 2021 at 11:42PM

Thank you so much. All of this is scary and new for me, as I’m certain it is for her. I don’t want my sex drive to control my relationship and I’m really hoping to find ways to prevent that. We haven’t talked too deeply about it, which we will soon, but it helps to know others are making it work being happy with their partner. Once we figure out more about where she fits along the spectrum, what she’s open to and what she’s not, I think we’ll have a better idea of what things will look like. I’m hoping she’ll be open to some type of sexual intimacy, but even if she isn’t I think I will be okay with physical intimacy. If I can get the emotional reassurance in the relationship from cuddling, kissing, then I know that will makes things much easier for me. August 17, 2021 at 11:41PM

Love conquers all, friends. That’s what I learned from the Catechism August 17, 2021 at 11:38PM

Reddit isn't a dating site. That could be why you didn't find a nice boyfriend. August 17, 2021 at 11:38PM

I just knew. Figured it out probably before puberty. August 17, 2021 at 11:38PM

So ill preface by saying that ive always been able to last a good amount of time. But in february i got out of a 4 year relationship. The last year was virtually sexless it was maybe once a month or so. We argued all the time so obviously there wasnt alot of sex The few times we had sex toward the end id cum within 10 mins or so. Due to not having any for awhile in between sessions id cum really quick. But thats another story. Now that im out of that relationship the few girls ive been having sex with on a pretty regular basis as in a few times a week. Im lasting 30-45 mins again minimum. For example last night me and this girl fucked for over an hour and it was amazing. Has anyone else had this happen? Get out of a relationship and then next girl theyre with last a long time every single time now? Im not complaining. Its actually boosted my confidence a ton and i feel like a badass in bed hahaha. Just curious if this is normal. Submitted August 17, 2021 at 11:00PM So ill pre...

So when i finish while masterbaiting i don't feel anything like the build up is normal but when i climax i don't feel anything just a feeling of empty what should I do ? please help I'm so stressed out . ( I'm male ) Submitted August 17, 2021 at 11:16PM So when i finish while masterbaiting i don't feel anything like the build up is normal but when i climax i don't feel anything just a feeling of empty what should I do ? please help I'm so stressed out . ( I'm male )

Serious question. My gf has an IUD so we have unprotected sex, but I still always pull out before cumming. She's said a couple of times in the heat of the moment that she wants me to cum in her, but I'm too worried about pregnancy scares so I never have. It just seems to be too high risk. But when I read on this forum, it sounds like half of y'all are doing this on a regular basis and it's fine. What am I missing? Am I just being too paranoid? Submitted August 17, 2021 at 11:17PM Serious question.My gf has an IUD so we have unprotected sex, but I still always pull out before cumming. She's said a couple of times in the heat of the moment that she wants me to cum in her, but I'm too worried about pregnancy scares so I never have. It just seems to be too high risk.But when I read on this forum, it sounds like half of y'all are doing this on a regular basis and it's fine. What am I missing? Am I just being too paranoid?

M25 I've been with a few girls, long term and short term over the past 3 years and I've done everything from lasting 30 seconds to having to stop from not finishing after a real long time, and from having no problems getting it up to not being able to, despite being able to 10 minutes before. I don't really have something i can point to that'd explain it all, i do have semi weak feeling, i can get sort of anxious but I'm pretty comfortable with my partners. I'm not really sure what my issue is, and i was wondering if anyone has any ideas or solutions, or something. Mental wise the only thing i might have is ADHD, I'm not diagnosed but im in the process of being seen for it. Submitted August 17, 2021 at 11:33PM M25I've been with a few girls, long term and short term over the past 3 years and I've done everything from lasting 30 seconds to having to stop from not finishing after a real long time, and from having no problems getting it up to ...

I (20m) struggle to cum during sex it’s only happened once (was using tingly lube) , I rarely watch porn however do masturbate daily or every couple of days, it really puts me off and the longer it goes on the more issue I think I have because I think about it more Is there any suggestions to help this Submitted August 17, 2021 at 11:36PM I (20m) struggle to cum during sex it’s only happened once (was using tingly lube) , I rarely watch porn however do masturbate daily or every couple of days, it really puts me off and the longer it goes on the more issue I think I have because I think about it more Is there any suggestions to help this

My (28) wife (27) and I have been going through a little bit of a dry spell. Our relationship was still great, but our lives were so busy and stressful between our careers and school. I believe our dry spell broke the day before yesterday. We had sex that morning and then we went another round later that night. She was riding me cowgirl and I came - and I have always been a one and done kinda guy, at least for a couple hours (knowing that I'm not worth a damn afterwards is such a thing that I always make sure to make my wife cum first or finish her off with oral) - but she kept going and I busted again. I've never in my ENTIRE life been able to shoot em off one after another, so I was pleasantly surprised, but I thought it might just be a one off kind of thing. The next morning when we woke up, we did it again. She was riding me again and I came, but she kept riding me for a minute, I started going at her from behind, and then I busted so quickly that I couldn't even pul...

Only did this twice both girls claimed they didn't mind it, but wanted to do it for the first time. But do girls get any pleasure from this? I as a man don't even like doing it, I feel like I'm completely tearing up her behind lmaoo. Isn't this insanely painful??? Submitted August 17, 2021 at 11:57PM Only did this twice both girls claimed they didn't mind it, but wanted to do it for the first time. But do girls get any pleasure from this? I as a man don't even like doing it, I feel like I'm completely tearing up her behind lmaoo. Isn't this insanely painful???

Hey there! Looking for some advice on an uncomfortable situation. My boyfriend (25 cis-M) and I (25 cis-F) have been together since high school, living together for 3+ years. We have fantastically passionate sex, at least a few times a week. Though I'm noticing as we get older and busier, it gets less frequent and less passionate. (But we're not even old! We're only in our 20s! SOS!) But I'm definitely aware that the decline frequency is due to mostly me and not him. It's not for lack of me wanting to or for him trying to. During sex, everything feels great. If it doesn't, I tell him. I feel our communication about it is fairly open. But lately, I haven't been able to finish before him, which is whatever, but he also doesn't finish me off after he does. He's made me orgasm countless times before, but it feels like it's been months since the last time. It's my understanding and experience that it takes more effort and time to make women or...

I had an ex who knew I didn’t like receiving oral sex. One night, he said, “I know you’re not going to like this,” and then moved my legs apart and got down and started then said, “so can I do it?’ He’d been pushing me to do it for months until I said fine, whatever. “Ok,” he said, “you asked for it” Now I know this guy knew I didn’t want to receive oral sex but he did it anyway after moving me into the position. Would you ever do something you knew a girl didn’t want to do because you wanted to do it? Submitted August 17, 2021 at 11:58PM I had an ex who knew I didn’t like receiving oral sex.One night, he said, “I know you’re not going to like this,” and then moved my legs apart and got down and started then said, “so can I do it?’ He’d been pushing me to do it for months until I said fine, whatever. “Ok,” he said, “you asked for it”Now I know this guy knew I didn’t want to receive oral sex but he did it anyway after moving me into the position.Would you ever do something you...