This year, age 24. After years of being in a relationship with my partner. I decided on bisexual for many years but then I came to the conclusion after questioning myself for a while July 12, 2021 at 11:50PM

What's a demi cat? July 12, 2021 at 11:48PM

Oh my lord I'm about to bust July 12, 2021 at 11:44PM

There are hundreds of different religions, each with hundreds of interpretations. Every day I wonder how there’s so many different rules with something that’s supposedly the unchangeable word of God. July 12, 2021 at 11:35PM

Fudge, just finished eating ang I feel hungry again. This looks so good. July 12, 2021 at 11:17PM

tf?? what words do you think you were “defining”??? July 12, 2021 at 11:13PM

Same I genuinely thought it was just for movies/tv for the longest time. It still baffles me! July 12, 2021 at 11:10PM

Your family probably just doesn't understand. Good teaching opportunity. Many allos, regardless of where they are on that spectrum still don't understand that there's a huge umbrella for aces too. I know I want a partner too. We just have to teach when we can. Say, "hey, just because sex isn't my thing, doesn't mean I want to sit in a dark room by myself for the next hundred years." Because they chuckled about it, approaching it that way, jokingly may help the situation. July 12, 2021 at 11:01PM

they do come i dark grey, I own several. check "bricks and pieces" on the lego website, you can order them there. July 12, 2021 at 10:56PM

Reading this I laughed because the thought “Ah yes, kissing, the gateway drug to sin and ruin” popped into my head 😂 thank you for sharing! July 12, 2021 at 10:55PM

r/okbuddyallo July 12, 2021 at 10:54PM

Of course there’s hope, just because their world is the size of a thimble doesn’t mean it actually is. Wanting a partner is in no way an unreasonable desire, and we’re rooting for you! July 12, 2021 at 10:51PM

I'd been unsure about it throughout my life (and still am a little) but what pushed me over the edge was having sex with a guy I met on tinder about a month ago (age 20). I had never liked sex with my high school boyfriend, and never missed it after we broke up, but everyone told me one teenage boy is not the end-all-be-all of sexual experiences so I figured things might be different with a new partner. So I went on a tinder date with a guy I quite liked, and I was having a great time basically right up to the moment we started having sex, and then my whole brain noped the fuck out. I absolutely hated it, to the point where I felt awful for several days afterward and didn't want to see him again even though we'd mostly had fun. So yeah, I'm still not 100% sure, but that made me realize it was more than a "you just had the wrong partner" issue. July 12, 2021 at 10:46PM

you ACEd the drawing all jokes aside it's a pretty drawing July 12, 2021 at 10:44PM

Wow, that was incredibly rude of them. There's nothing wrong with wanting a partner! July 12, 2021 at 10:44PM

:D July 12, 2021 at 10:36PM

I imagine the sexual attraction itself would be a big part of the experience too July 12, 2021 at 10:35PM

That's what we were told too! I never understood it and tbh still don't lol. Like no?? Kissing does not automatically lead to sex. It's like some people don't seem to understand that you can just. Stop kissing. Like it's so simple. July 12, 2021 at 10:34PM

It sounds like you most likely are ace. Get turned on by sex scenes in movies or reading something erotic doesn't mean that you're sexually attracted to any particular person. It seems like you only think about having sex with people because it's what other people. Not because you have an innate desire to have a sexual relationship with anybody. That sounds pretty asexual. July 12, 2021 at 10:26PM

Beautiful! 🖤🤍💜 Looks like a happy dragon, doing cartwheels in the sky! Is this done with pastels? Who else would adopt this dragon as a pet in a heartbeat? Kinda looks like it might like a belly rub (but I would ask first!). July 12, 2021 at 10:25PM

You're valid no one should force you into something you don't want July 12, 2021 at 10:00PM

That sucks. You should just ignore them. July 12, 2021 at 09:59PM

I started thinking about it in highschool but recently I'm thinking about it more. Still questioning because I've never tried a relationship and just don't know. Then again I don't have the desire to try a relationship either so ?? July 12, 2021 at 09:59PM