Male, 20 Went on a first date with a girl, we went bowling. I thought we both had a really fun time. A few hours after the date I text her telling her I had a really great time, and asked her if she'd like to have dinner sometime soon. Her response was as follows. "I don’t think I can. You’re really nice and I enjoyed going out and talking to you but I have some other stuff going on in my life right now that’s made me realize I don’t think I can do this sort of relationship right now. I’m sorry :(" Did she not enjoy the date, and is trying to spare my feelings, or is she being for real? Submitted November 03, 2021 at 01:10AM Male, 20Went on a first date with a girl, we went bowling. I thought we both had a really fun time. A few hours after the date I text her telling her I had a really great time, and asked her if she'd like to have dinner sometime soon. Her response was as follows."I don’t think I can. You’re really nice and I enjoyed going out and ta...

Ok, so I (25M) just got out of a loong relationship (10 years approximately). It was a pretty peaceful breakup and I'm healing nicely. My therapist told me that maybe it's time to start to get out and meet new people, and I'm feeling good about this. But, 10 years is a lot of time hahah, I don't have a clue where to start. The girl in question is and old friend, we were kind of a couple when we were younger (like from 8 to 12). The last time we spoke was maybe 11 years ago, but we follow with other at Instagram. I know she's single now and I really wanna try to date her, but I don't how I can start a conversation without looking like a crazy stalker. So my question is, I'm overthinking about it and should just ask her out or I'm right and I need some tatic to not sound crazy? hahah Just a little more information about us: I know we like the same things like music, movies we even have the same style (emo will never die), I know she had a pretty rough B...

I’ve been dating a guy for a couple of weeks. Everything was going great, we started reaching some sort of intimacy. He was sweet, caring, flirty … signs of a guy that’s interested in you. 3 days ago we played a computer game together, then talked a bit, said goodnight. He sent me a text after that to say he enjoyed playing the game with me and that he couldn’t wait til we play again. “Good night, talk to you tomorrow”… and I haven’t heard from him since. I tried to text him, but he leaves on seen. I really don’t understand what’s going on. Is this normal behavior ? Cause it’s the first time this happens to me Submitted November 03, 2021 at 01:11AM I’ve been dating a guy for a couple of weeks. Everything was going great, we started reaching some sort of intimacy. He was sweet, caring, flirty … signs of a guy that’s interested in you. 3 days ago we played a computer game together, then talked a bit, said goodnight. He sent me a text after that to say he enjoyed playing the game w...

I was seeing this guy for a short amount of time. It was very passionate, intimate, and comfortable. We were seeing each other a couple times a week. Most of our time was spent cuddling, watching movies, just talking. It was GREAT. We had both discussed not being ready to dive into something serious in the beginning.. Well he took me out for our first real dinner date! It was such a nice time. Got ice cream afterwards. I slept over at his house that night - for the first time… He ended things with me that following week. [[ Back story: he was in a shit relationship for a while. Then in another one that didn’t end too well either ]] So he ends things with me by telling me he’s in a rough place, and he can feel himself running away and “being a total disaster” - that he doesn’t want to hurt me and all these things.. It’s been a little over a month and I cannot stop thinking about him. Am I insane if I reach out to him? Submitted November 03, 2021 at 01:13AM I was seeing this gu...

I’ve been told by a friend that she found her husband once she stopped looking for a relationship. I’m very eager for a relationship but to also try that strategy as apps aren’t working. What are some good strategy’s I should try? (I already know I should try to keep busier). Submitted November 03, 2021 at 01:15AM I’ve been told by a friend that she found her husband once she stopped looking for a relationship. I’m very eager for a relationship but to also try that strategy as apps aren’t working.What are some good strategy’s I should try? (I already know I should try to keep busier).

I have two: Christian Borle and Sutton Foster. They are both so extremely talented and I absolutely die everytime I see a clip of them. I learned they were divorced/married to each other after the crushes started. November 03, 2021 at 12:41AM

If you can, I brought in my original diagnosis. It helped me a ton and allowed the doctor to speed up a lot of the process. It may not be the same with your doctor, but it helps establish with them that you do have it. November 03, 2021 at 12:40AM

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Every time I tell someone I have a "crush" on Timothée Chalamet I explicitly say I'd like to be roommates with him. (And separate rooms, please). November 03, 2021 at 12:37AM

I’m a virgin poster to Reddit and virgin to sex clubs. Heading to one Saturday (in Toronto) for 🦄 night with my bf, we are both super stoked. Friends of mine have been so I have some tips and tricks but wondered if anyone has ever been and have advice? 🍑 💦🍆😈🦄 Submitted November 03, 2021 at 12:46AM I’m a virgin poster to Reddit and virgin to sex clubs. Heading to one Saturday (in Toronto) for 🦄 night with my bf, we are both super stoked. Friends of mine have been so I have some tips and tricks but wondered if anyone has ever been and have advice? 🍑 💦🍆😈🦄

So, recently (a few months) I've been feeling disinterested in sex eventhough I've never had sex. Absolutely nothing sexual interested me. For a while I thought I was ace, so I thought about it for a while and went with it. But a month or two ago, I felt a little revitalization of my interest, but this time of both girls and guys. I always thought myself of mostly straight, so maybe bi. But I am still trying to understand my interest in guys, is it just feminine guys or not. And even though I am interested in sex again I dont want to have sex, to me that feels contradictory. What do you think that means ? Also, other issue. I am afraid of bothering women by doing anything at all, so I dont do anything. I dont know why that's happening to me. I am not that shy a person. Is this weird ? Or worth talking about ? Submitted November 03, 2021 at 12:51AM So, recently (a few months) I've been feeling disinterested in sex eventhough I've never had sex. Absolutely ...

My girlfriend and I have sex when we see each other once a week and a session is usually 25 minutes total with foreplay and everything. I just don’t know if I’m doing a good job. What I mean is I give oral first when she’s sitting on me and she seems to enjoy and can only orgasm from that. I have no idea if she actually is orgasming or faking. I don’t know if she’s telling the truth either. She says I’m an “animal” and her clit does swell up after oral. But often she says to stop when she is overstimulated and tells me she likes that. The big thing is the actual sex. I think it ranges from 3 minutes to 7 minutes. We do different positions but I don’t know if that’s long or good enough. Again she says she enjoys it but I don’t know. I use handcuffs too sometimes since that’s her kink and she really enjoys that. I’m just insecure. What do I do? Submitted November 03, 2021 at 12:53AM My girlfriend and I have sex when we see each other once a week and a session is usually 25 minut...

I’m really curious about this I’m not sure but I’ve gotten mixed thing’s my boyfriend told me slow but I’ve heard also heard fast too much for some people. Submitted November 03, 2021 at 12:56AM I’m really curious about this I’m not sure but I’ve gotten mixed thing’s my boyfriend told me slow but I’ve heard also heard fast too much for some people.

It seems like a silly question even to me but I wanted to see what others had to say. Does the dildo in the guy make it somehow gay? Or is the fact that it’s with woman make it heterosexual? Am I just getting wayyy to caught up on the labels of it all? Submitted November 03, 2021 at 12:57AM It seems like a silly question even to me but I wanted to see what others had to say. Does the dildo in the guy make it somehow gay? Or is the fact that it’s with woman make it heterosexual? Am I just getting wayyy to caught up on the labels of it all?

So my ex broke up with me a few weeks ago. She said it’s because she wants us to grow individually and work on ourselves so we can get back together later on. But she’s said this after she got a new job, started her masters (new year not with the same people), and got new friends. She started speaking to me less and not wanting to ft as much. She knows I have anxiety and when she lied to me about being too busy to text me all day and she hasn’t been on her phone, I had seen her posts on social media throughout the day- so obviously she was lying, I had said to her it’s okay if you don’t message I just want to make sure you’re okay because this is the longest you hadn’t messaged me. When I bought this up to her she broke up with me stating the previous reason of us needing to grow. Since then she’s changed how she looks and is constantly posting on social media (where she follows all her new friends) her captions are a little flirtatious. She also said her friend was happier when she b...

In her own words: “Not ugly… In my view”. What does this actually mean? Should I take this as a compliment? Am I attractive or not? Lol Submitted November 03, 2021 at 12:03AM In her own words:“Not ugly… In my view”.What does this actually mean? Should I take this as a compliment?Am I attractive or not? Lol

I [17m] have been talking to girls at my school since about September and I’ve had no luck in find a girlfriend. Sure I’ve talked to some and got some numbers and I’d text them and such but it never really went far after that. I don’t know if it’s my game or I’m just boring. I’m tryna get a girlfriend right know before basketball season starts cause I know they’ll be all over because I’m good at basketball (I’ve already got a lot of college offers) it’s frustrating. Is there something I’m not doing right? Submitted November 03, 2021 at 12:09AM I [17m] have been talking to girls at my school since about September and I’ve had no luck in find a girlfriend. Sure I’ve talked to some and got some numbers and I’d text them and such but it never really went far after that. I don’t know if it’s my game or I’m just boring. I’m tryna get a girlfriend right know before basketball season starts cause I know they’ll be all over because I’m good at basketball (I’ve already got a lot of colleg...

Firstly, let me contextualize the situation. Me and my now ex-boyfriend (officially) dated for almost 7 months. It was quite healthy, as all of our 'arguments' stemmed from our dire need for trust, communication and affection. We had helped each other flourish quite a lot, as we overcame a plethora of problems together (such as my childhood sexual assault trauma, his lack of trust and security, ect.) This had caused us to grow extremely attached to each other, even though we were aware of the fact that we will most likely be forced to split apart due to our young age and incompatible families. Yet, he broke up with me a week ago, without any prior warning whatsoever. I asked him to explain his reasoning behind it and he blamed his depleting mental health. A month prior to our breakup, I had noticed his change in mood and encouraged him to book a therapy session. He refused to do so and tried to convince me that he would be alright. During the same time period, we had almost b...

I fucking hate my life I flirted with his girl who works somewhere that I frequent and now every time I go to the store and she's there she visibly tenses up and is uncomfortable and it's honestly killing me inside I wish I didn't even flirt with her I just wish I could go back to when she was nice to me and used to smile and talk to me and now because I was an idiot she doesn't even want to look at me Submitted November 03, 2021 at 12:11AM I fucking hate my lifeI flirted with his girl who works somewhere that I frequent and now every time I go to the store and she's there she visibly tenses up and is uncomfortable and it's honestly killing me insideI wish I didn't even flirt with her I just wish I could go back to when she was nice to me and used to smile and talk to me and now because I was an idiot she doesn't even want to look at me