Well. I'd say, just identify as gray ace until you see something that definitely indicates you need to change. Labels won't capture anything. August 20, 2022 at 12:25AM

I just feel like there’s so many labels that i’m not even sure which one i fit in. Aegosexual always felt the closest but i feel like aegosexual isn’t the exact definition of what i feel. That’s why sometimes i feel like i could be gray ace since that’s quite a wide spectrum that’s easier to identify as but still. I feel like i don’t feel enough sexual attraction to be a gray ace :/ August 20, 2022 at 12:12AM

That's the real one. August 20, 2022 at 12:09AM

Hi everyone. I'm a bit new to dating so I feel like I'm more prone to overthinking things, I could really use some advice though. Last Thursday (8/11) I went on a fourth date this this guy I met from Tinder. I really like him a lot and I thought it had went well, we even scheduled a fifth date for the following weekend and he seemed really into it. When I got home, I thanked him for a great time. While he's not big on texting, we had texted each other after all our dates, so this wasn't out of the ordinary. He didn't respond for five days though. I honestly thought he was ghosting me but he finally texted me back on Tuesday night - he apologized, cancelled our plans for Sunday because he said he'll be traveling, and instead proposed a new time for next Wednesday, which I agreed to. I was happy and decided to look at his Tinder profile because ngl, sometimes I like to look at his photos lol. But I noticed he had added a new one. We've had no talks about ex...

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I agree with all the others. If you do use something like tinder, put asexual in your bio and have that conversation as soon as you feel ready or like the relationship is heading in that direction. Personally, I have a base conversation about it over text because it’s easier for me to say no and not get tongue tied when I’m not on the spot. Dating other aces can be a good option like knightfenris said although I haven’t dated any so I can’t give you specifics on that. I feel you though it sucks but keep trying it’s just like finding a match for you and other ways you’ll find someone it might just take a bit. August 19, 2022 at 11:36PM