Pardon? July 27, 2021 at 11:47PM

I think you can. I’m ace, and I find lots of different people attractive in different ways, including hot. I too don’t want to have sex with them upon looking at them. Based on what you said, I think you’re right and demi might be a good descriptor for you. July 27, 2021 at 11:47PM

Yay I'm the same way sorry but that's doesn't work on me person I'm just to powerful for you July 27, 2021 at 11:46PM

Could possibly be aesthetic attraction to them? Like the same way you'd appreciate the beauty in a fine work of art July 27, 2021 at 11:43PM

If someone truly loves you they will respect you for who you are. And try to find a way to make both of you happy and comfortable. July 27, 2021 at 11:42PM

You can be feeling aesthetic attraction. I am definitely ace but the artist side of me definitely diggs some good representations of human anatomy 😁 July 27, 2021 at 11:42PM

I know it’s called pegging when a female performs it on their male partner but is there a specific term for it when it’s F/F anal? I’m genuinely curious and if I’ve phrased this question in an ignorant way, I apologize in advance. Thank you! Submitted July 27, 2021 at 10:58PM I know it’s called pegging when a female performs it on their male partner but is there a specific term for it when it’s F/F anal? I’m genuinely curious and if I’ve phrased this question in an ignorant way, I apologize in advance. Thank you!

so my girlfriend and i have had sex quite often and we always stick to one position cause we are first timers and we just stick to what works best but we wanted to try other positions and i tries going in deep for once because i usually dont put everything in. Some positions for her usually hurt her and when i try to go deeper it hurts her too. After that she starts to cramp really bad from it for a couple of days. what should i do next time? Submitted July 27, 2021 at 10:59PM so my girlfriend and i have had sex quite often and we always stick to one position cause we are first timers and we just stick to what works best but we wanted to try other positions and i tries going in deep for once because i usually dont put everything in. Some positions for her usually hurt her and when i try to go deeper it hurts her too. After that she starts to cramp really bad from it for a couple of days. what should i do next time?

Is it just my experience, or a lot of guys act in sex like when they finish, your mission in sex is over? If you don't ask for an orgasm or doesn't say anything, very likely not going to get it. Show is over. Are you ok with a sex even if you don't finish?What kind of thinks annoys you most in sex behaviour of the partner, and when you feel most fulfiled and happy? How would you like to be treated to feel that it was a damn good sex? Hugs Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:05PM Is it just my experience, or a lot of guys act in sex like when they finish, your mission in sex is over? If you don't ask for an orgasm or doesn't say anything, very likely not going to get it. Show is over. Are you ok with a sex even if you don't finish?What kind of thinks annoys you most in sex behaviour of the partner, and when you feel most fulfiled and happy? How would you like to be treated to feel that it was a damn good sex? Hugs

Hey everyone. Back in Dec 2020, I said something without even thinking and it has wrecked my boyfriends self esteem. Particularly in the bedroom. I have tried everything I can think of. Worshipping, reassuring that I like what he has, telling him I was wrong (because I was), giving up my mental health so he could have a bit of happiness, and just constant apology. I’m the asshole here, I know. He broke up with me this past weekend because primarily this. He wants to reconcile, but not sure if that is actually possible. Please help. I love him more than anything. I fucked up. I know that. Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:06PM Hey everyone. Back in Dec 2020, I said something without even thinking and it has wrecked my boyfriends self esteem. Particularly in the bedroom. I have tried everything I can think of. Worshipping, reassuring that I like what he has, telling him I was wrong (because I was), giving up my mental health so he could have a bit of happiness, and just constant apol...

He’s coming back from a 3 month long trip next month! And soooo excited to see him.. also super horny haha. I want to make our first time having sex again amazing!! What are some things I can do? .. candles, new sex tricks?, roleplay ideas?, bdsm shit… let me hear it all!! Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:06PM He’s coming back from a 3 month long trip next month! And soooo excited to see him.. also super horny haha.I want to make our first time having sex again amazing!! What are some things I can do?.. candles, new sex tricks?, roleplay ideas?, bdsm shit… let me hear it all!!

If I'm being honest I just don't have what it takes to find a women, but I don't really want to die a virgin. I'm planning a trip to visit the sequoias in the future and I'm thinking about making a stop in Nevada to go to a brothel on the way to just get it over with. I'm not really expecting it to change much in my life as sex really isn't a huge deal to me but I would at least like to experience it in my life. Has anyone decided to go this route, and did you find it to be a positive experience or no? Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:18PM If I'm being honest I just don't have what it takes to find a women, but I don't really want to die a virgin. I'm planning a trip to visit the sequoias in the future and I'm thinking about making a stop in Nevada to go to a brothel on the way to just get it over with. I'm not really expecting it to change much in my life as sex really isn't a huge deal to me but I would at least like to expe...

In all honesty ive said numerous times in the moment "I want a baby with you" during sex. Particulaly during very pationate times. Why is this a heat of the moment outburst? Am i alone in saying this? Are women turned on by this? (my partner seems to agree but i dont know if its playful or similarly aroused by it or something). I love my partner to the ends of the earth but it just makes no sense. I mustn't have kids yet, im low income, low maturity, still living with my parents. Anyone able to explain this other than biological urges? Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:25PM In all honesty ive said numerous times in the moment "I want a baby with you" during sex. Particulaly during very pationate times.Why is this a heat of the moment outburst? Am i alone in saying this? Are women turned on by this? (my partner seems to agree but i dont know if its playful or similarly aroused by it or something).I love my partner to the ends of the earth but it just makes ...

Hey guys, ​ So basically, as it says in the title, my girlfriend complains because I last too long when we have sex, it usually last about 30 mins to 1 hour, or more. Sometimes (rarely) I finish under 15mins, which is good to her. But this is something that I can't control, I haven't done a check up, but I can't cum unless I use my hands, I do feel like I'm about to finish inside of her sometimes, but my penis just doesn't want to. This is where it gets even more complicated, my girlfriend decided to tell me that 1 year in our relationship, that she's annoyed I have stamina, we've had sex countless of times but tells me only now. I keep wondering, has she faked that she felt good before? She keeps saying that it makes her insecure that she can't make me finish under 15mins, or 5mins, she wants to boost her own ego, but this is making me insecure, I thought girls like stamina, but my girlfriend apparently doesn't. She makes herself a victim, say...

hey, i’m dennis, it’s soon to come me and my girlfriends 9 month anniversary, i am a gentleman, i look after her, i care for her, the whole job lot, and all of my mates are talking about “oh yeah, i finished but she just kept on going” and stuff like “she says she wants to try a new position tomorrow” whilst my girlfriend has 0 intrest in sex, like we still have it, but my mates have it like 3 times a week, i’ll be lucky if i get it 2-3 times a month, and there’s nothing wrong down there, i last for like 30-40 min, it’s a good size, it’s clean and i know how to use it, but she just doesn’t want sex, she wants me to do things like play in tue garden, walk the dogs, go out with her, but no sex, and i’m not trying to sound bad, but when i don’t get it, it makes me sad. Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:26PM hey, i’m dennis, it’s soon to come me and my girlfriends 9 month anniversary, i am a gentleman, i look after her, i care for her, the whole job lot, and all of my mates are talking ...

My sub has recently expressed interest in introducing wax play. The biggest concern I have is that he’s a pretty hairy guy. Any advice? Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:35PM My sub has recently expressed interest in introducing wax play. The biggest concern I have is that he’s a pretty hairy guy. Any advice?

Just curious because my husband does this SO much, and he says I’m immature that I get annoyed by it. I have a wayyy higher body count than he does and I almost never refer to anyone else I’ve slept with, it just seems weird to me. I’m not a super sensitive person but it’s like to the point I want to tell him to fuck off when he talks about these other girls. Our bedroom is in the throes of death a little bit (he has low sex drive because of work stress), but he loves to reminisce. 🙄 Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:37PM Just curious because my husband does this SO much, and he says I’m immature that I get annoyed by it. I have a wayyy higher body count than he does and I almost never refer to anyone else I’ve slept with, it just seems weird to me. I’m not a super sensitive person but it’s like to the point I want to tell him to fuck off when he talks about these other girls. Our bedroom is in the throes of death a little bit (he has low sex drive because of work stress), but he ...

Bf(m36) mad cause I(f29) was sent a pic of a dudes cock in an anonymous chat room. But he watches porn on the regular. Also he sees nude chicks scrolling on reddit so... why he mad at me again? Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:40PM Bf(m36) mad cause I(f29) was sent a pic of a dudes cock in an anonymous chat room. But he watches porn on the regular. Also he sees nude chicks scrolling on reddit so... why he mad at me again?

I bought a vaginal douche at cvs with the intention of emptying it, refilling with water and using it as anal douche to have anal sex with my boyfriend. Upon realizing these types of douches are clearly not the same, I tried it out of curiosity. I looked it up later and realized that they are not healthy. Is there anything I can do to prevent it from causing my vagina an issue? I already washed the douche out thoroughly, refilled it with water, and then rinsed out my vagina to try and remove the soap. Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:44PM I bought a vaginal douche at cvs with the intention of emptying it, refilling with water and using it as anal douche to have anal sex with my boyfriend. Upon realizing these types of douches are clearly not the same, I tried it out of curiosity. I looked it up later and realized that they are not healthy. Is there anything I can do to prevent it from causing my vagina an issue? I already washed the douche out thoroughly, refilled it with water, an...

It's a fetish for him and well...I think I get it. Is it normal to feel like I'm cheating because I've used this to my advantage and I openly sleep with whoever I want. Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:47PM It's a fetish for him and well...I think I get it. Is it normal to feel like I'm cheating because I've used this to my advantage and I openly sleep with whoever I want.

I have been with my partner now for many years. I was his first and he has gotten very good at most things. Except oral. He has always been eager to go down on me but because I was his first I felt like he wasn’t great and I didn’t enjoy receiving it when he was still trying to figure out what to do. I also have always felt weird on what to do when someone is going down on me. It has now been YEARS since he has gone down on me (my choice not his) but I am wanting to know what it would be like to receive good oral. But I don’t know what to tell him to do so it’s good and I also don’t know what to do with myself when receiving it. I just want to be brought to an orgasm while being eaten out but I hate feeling like he is constantly trying to test things out to see if what he is doing works because then I get too much in my own head. Note: my husband and I are great at communicating but I frankly don’t know what to tell him I want in regards to oral and online articles don’t help Sub...

I'm male and 38. Not that matters but figure I would say that to avoid any weirdness. I'm just looking for suggestions that are not downright dangerous but also not generic. Having sex in a car for example as generic. Would prefer it if you have an example of something you have done. Examples of things that didn't work out are appreciated as well.. (Hopefully didn't work out only means nearly caught) Submitted July 27, 2021 at 11:51PM I'm male and 38. Not that matters but figure I would say that to avoid any weirdness.I'm just looking for suggestions that are not downright dangerous but also not generic. Having sex in a car for example as generic. Would prefer it if you have an example of something you have done. Examples of things that didn't work out are appreciated as well.. (Hopefully didn't work out only means nearly caught)

Hello all, I've been having sexual problems for the better part of a year and I've posted about it here some times before, but this isn't really about that, it's about a strange experience I've had using my vibrator To give some background, my problems are that I can't orgasm and more recently, can't really get aroused. I thought buying a vibrator would help, and it actually has and I'm really glad I spent the money on it, but it hasn't really helped by much, though now I'm able to get a little aroused by using it It's more like my body moves on its own. No matter how much I think about sex or consume porn, I can't get aroused at all but my vulva still lubricates when I use my vibrator on it, even though I'm still not psychologically or even really physically aroused, though it still feels good When I press it against my clit, my body reacts. It feels like a winding sensation, like winding up a wind-up toy and my heart speeds up a...