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/u/DaddyDuncDunc on I Guess Being Panromantic Gives Interesting Ace Results.

Link to the test plz March 27, 2020 at 12:01AM

/u/TipiTapi on Why have sex when you can have character development?

You will find a best friend and he will never even consider living with you because you dont fuck him. Than he will go get a flat together with some random girl he knows for three months because she fucks him so obviously it is a better choice to live with her. Allos and their logic makes me confused and sad. March 26, 2020 at 11:58PM

/u/PiranhaPlantFan on Why have sex when you can have character development?

Yeah some day we are cool and all thr others tired of broken relationships! 😎 Just imagine relationship as worse than it ia easier to handle to have none ^ March 26, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/ArrayToGo on Why have sex when you can have character development?

I'm looking at YOU and how characterization changes between when Geralt and Yennefer are in the same scene, Netflix's The Witcher March 26, 2020 at 11:41PM

Let Him love you already!!!

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Yo wtf?

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Not mine but shared with permission. Note how the apology only comes when he realizes he's been blasted

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Stay home stay safe

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Local rapper

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Just found out my girlfriend of over 3 years cheated on me.

I've been in a great relationship with my gf for over three years with the last year being long distance. Our plan was for her to finish grad school and then come out and meet me in LA. Everything was going really well up until I noticed some pressure/tension within the last month or two. Last Sunday I get a call from her and she explains that she cheated on me with one of my friends from back home, AND she wants to break up. Her reasoning for the break up was essentially that she wasn't as interested in moving to LA anymore (which is strange because shes always wanted to come out here) and that she was beginning to have crushes on other guys. ​ NEED ADVICE I really need advice as to whether or not I should still hold onto this, how to mend this relationship if so, and any other tips or advice from anyone whose experienced something like this. ​ This is definitely the worst break-up I've experienced and she was my best friend these past years so ending with a cheati...

New to dating — what do I do?

Recently ended a long-term relationship. I have heard horror stories about using dating apps like Tinder and Bumble. Also, with the pandemic going on it’s much harder to meet people (which I totally understand). My question here is: what is the best way to meet people? What dating apps have you found to be the most useful? Side note: I am a 23-year-old newly graduated nurse. Submitted March 27, 2020 at 12:03AM Recently ended a long-term relationship. I have heard horror stories about using dating apps like Tinder and Bumble. Also, with the pandemic going on it’s much harder to meet people (which I totally understand).My question here is: what is the best way to meet people? What dating apps have you found to be the most useful?Side note: I am a 23-year-old newly graduated nurse.

Dating what? Who?

Just an observation. Do people nowadays just date/be in a relationship just for heck of being in one? Submitted March 27, 2020 at 12:12AM Just an observation. Do people nowadays just date/be in a relationship just for heck of being in one?

Boys who still kiss your hand or your forehead out of nowhere are ANGELS

must be protected at all costs🥺🥺🥺 (Not a vent but had to say it) Submitted March 27, 2020 at 12:16AM must be protected at all costs🥺🥺🥺(Not a vent but had to say it)

Why most women don't want to be friends after showing/letting them know that you don't like them.

This happens to like maybe 95% of girls when I tell or show them that I have no romantic interest in them. They secretly unfollow me, ghost me or don't want to hang with me. But before I told or show them that I have no romantic interest, they were so friendly. If women rejects me and I'm still interested, I'd still want to be friends with them but when i reject women, why they can't be friends with me? Is this just me or is this normal for everyone? Submitted March 27, 2020 at 12:16AM This happens to like maybe 95% of girls when I tell or show them that I have no romantic interest in them. They secretly unfollow me, ghost me or don't want to hang with me. But before I told or show them that I have no romantic interest, they were so friendly.If women rejects me and I'm still interested, I'd still want to be friends with them but when i reject women, why they can't be friends with me? Is this just me or is this normal for everyone?

Asked to chill during quarantine

A guy that previously ghosted me messaged me recently and asked to come over and chill with him. Is he implying Netflix and Chill, and is it safe to go under the certain restrictions concerning social distancing due to COVID-19? Submitted March 27, 2020 at 12:16AM A guy that previously ghosted me messaged me recently and asked to come over and chill with him. Is he implying Netflix and Chill, and is it safe to go under the certain restrictions concerning social distancing due to COVID-19?

Do noticeably unattractive people on dating apps have success too?

Beauty is subjective but we all can agree that there are some people who we find impossible to be attracted with only their looks. I'm asking because I'm one of those people. Submitted March 27, 2020 at 12:25AM Beauty is subjective but we all can agree that there are some people who we find impossible to be attracted with only their looks. I'm asking because I'm one of those people.

Should I tell the guy I like that I have feelings for him?

What should I do? Please help. I (28F) have feelings for this guy named David (38M) that I met at work and can’t seem to get him off of my mind. I am a caregiver and I took care of his grandma over the weekends for a while. David lives with his grandma and this is how we met. He is a few years older than me, single and without any kids. From my encounters with David, he has always been really nice to me. We would talk for a bit and once talked about why he was single. I liked how he was really honest with me and how he was really sweet towards me. Sometimes early in the morning he would even make me breakfast, and that was something that I should be doing as a caretaker. He said he wanted to do that to show his appreciation for me taking care of his grandma. Unfortunately, I had to leave a few weeks ago because my mom was hospitalized and needed me to be with her at home. I never got to say bye to him or anything, I was only able to communicate with the caregiving agency. This made...

I (24F) don't know if I want to or when to breakup with my(25M) boyfriend that I live with

We have been together almost 3 years and have recently signed a 15 month lease in our first apartment together. I feel like I shouldn't have. For a little over a year now I've been unsure of how I've felt about him. We got into a fight back then and its changed how I think he views love and relationships and fidelity. It comes in waves. Some days I can push it down and I can see myself marrying him. Then other days it's a crushing weight and all I want to do is be free again. We also have a dog together ( who's in my name) and I'm concerned on whether breaking would be cruel to the dog and who would take the dog. Legally he's mine but he loves my boyfriend. I love him but I don't believe I'm in love with him anymore. I know it's not fair for me to be unsure of my feelings towards him. It's not fair to him. Especially because I think he knows something is up. I'm too scared to talk to him. If I say something now then what happens if we ...

My gf wants me to hate her enemy. What should I do ?

Hello community, This is about a problem I ( M:22 ) have with my gf ( F:21) regarding one of her enemies( girl ). So there is this old classmate of hers that she hates and this girl would reply to my Instagram stories sometimes and I would answer like I would do if it was anybody else who replied to my stories. One day my gf freaked out when she found out from other people that the girl was trying to talk to me just to annoy her and she started yelling and said that it's either her or the girl and that I have to unfollow the girl on Instagram. I said that I do not have to choose and that her enemy is not necessarily my enemy too. I also said that I would be there to give her advice or listen to her about any conflict she has with that girl but I cannot just unfollow the girl or stop replying to messages because that's just not who I am I cannot do that to someone and feel comfortable about myself. She got very angry and she wanted a break up saying that I could not choose h...

Does my (F23) friend (F23) want more?

So a couple weeks ago my husband and I went to a party with his friends and I brought along a girl friend of mine cause she was talking to one of his friends and he invited her. Anyway we're drinking, smoking ECT just hanging out and she makes a comment saying she can tell she's drunk cause she wanted to kiss me which I just kinda laughed off at the time. But later in the evening I don't remember what led up to it but we did kiss, three separate times. And I don't like regret it or anything but I kinda feel like she's wanting this to turn into something?? She's been very flirty, talking about sex way more than we ever have and sent me a link to YouTube for the song My Girls got a Girlfriend. And my husband keeps half joking saying he's fine if Ido stuff with her as long as he gets to watch. But I honestly can't tell if I'm reading into things or if she maybe thinks something is gonna happen?? Oh and we are both each other's first girl if that ma...

My (29F) Fiance (30M) answered his mother’s phone call during sexy time.

In his defense (I guess?) we weren’t full on fucking yet (still in the foreplay stage) AND I did leave the room for 30 seconds to grab one of our toys. However, it isn’t like he answered and said he would call her back in 20 minutes, they had a full on (5-8 minutes) conversation about absolutely nothing. Needless to say my vag became a desert really quickly. [Note that they talk on the phone EVERY SINGLE DAY at least once, so it isn’t like he hasn’t heard from her in months or something]. I’ve had issues with how much he bends over backwards for his mother from the beginning. Most of the time I just find it kind of ridiculous or annoying, but not harmful. However, today and another incident this week have made me reconsider if I’m really the most important woman in his life, or if I’m going to spend the next 20-30 years coming in second place while he caters to her “needs”. So.. I’m not really sure what to do or how to feel. We are set to get married next week. I’m not sure I’ll ever...

My Ex Is Best Friends With My Father & I Don’t Know How To Handle It

I (F24) meet my now ex-boyfriend (M34) via mutual friends, both of us are from the same country/culture although we now live in a different country. Originally I didn’t know this but he ended up becoming close friends with my father before we started seeing each other. My ex sees my father as the father he always wanted (even joking that he’ll adopt himself into the family) and I guess my father sees my ex as a younger version of himself/the son he never had. my father wasn’t aware of our relationship (we both decided to keep it that way & would reveal it if we made a year) although I think he was suspicious. Our relationship ended after a few months, due primarily to his immaturity & issues from his past that he wouldn’t resolve. The age difference wasn’t as big a factor. It’s a bit awkward now at BBQs & social gatherings where their both there as my ex now tries to engage in obvious physical contact where before he wouldn’t come near me as if I was infectious. What anno...

My (20M) girlfriend (18F) never wants to talk when she gets upset with me and completely shuts down

I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now and I love her very much but one common problem I always have with her is that whenever she gets upset with me she never wants to talk about it, tell me how she feels, etc. She snapchatted me today telling me she wanted me to ask someone something for her but she accidentally typed “I”, so I thought she was telling me she was going to ask this person her question. Later today I found out I misunderstood her and she got very upset. I told her that I wanted to talk to her and know why she was upset and that it was just a miscommunication, she just kept saying “Ok cool”, and “whatever”. She does this very often when she gets upset over little things and never wants to talk about it. I love her very much but it’s very draining. I did what she wanted and asked the person her question but it wasn’t a very timed ordeal so I don’t know why she got so upset. I would like some advice. TLDR: when girlfriend gets upset over small thin...