She should have had more kids then if this was so important to her. January 11, 2021 at 12:01AM

Ah it’s so pretty!! Good work!! I love how you’ve done your lineart and fur. This is absolutely gorgeous January 11, 2021 at 12:00AM

Voidpunk be like: I am a robot January 11, 2021 at 12:00AM

Here’s the thing with labels, they’re not set in stone! You can change it if/ when you need to :) For now if identifying as asexual helps you to feel like you understand yourself a bit more and makes you feel more comfortable in your own skin then go for it!! You’re welcome here :) January 10, 2021 at 11:54PM

Take your time. Being human is complicated and figuring yourself out is hard. We don't have any "allo detectors" here that sniff people out and boot them. Ask questions, read what other people's experiences have been, and give yourself a chance to see what fits you best. January 10, 2021 at 11:54PM

Should post this on r/piercing ! January 10, 2021 at 11:52PM

I always wondered how does it feel to think "oh yeah, this person definitely wants to do the secs with me". I was always such a weird concept to me that I just find it odd that people would think that January 10, 2021 at 11:52PM

I first heard of asexuality as an orientation in the early 2000s, when I would have been in my early to mid 40s. Now, I knew since about age 12 that I was different than the people around me, so in that sense I’ve known for over 50 years. But I didn’t know there was anyone else like me anywhere in the world. Then asexuality gained visibility, and I knew immediately without any doubt or hesitation that this orientation described me and that I wasn’t the only one and I wasn’t broken !!! So in in the sense of being able to give my orientation a name , it’s been around 18 years. And that, folks, is why we need ace visibility. January 10, 2021 at 11:49PM

Ayyy ye tru that January 10, 2021 at 11:48PM

“If we want free pants, we need to start a revolution, Jane.” Sent me. January 10, 2021 at 11:43PM

If you're not ready to leave the closet, don't. If it's not safe to leave the closet, don't. Leaving the closet should be a choice you make when you're ready and safe, and not a moment before. January 10, 2021 at 11:41PM

It doesn’t make sense. It never does. January 10, 2021 at 11:38PM

How discriminatory. What if I'm AroAce and a robot? How does me being a robot not validate my sexuality? Humans are being discriminatory against robots. I call for Robot Rights! January 10, 2021 at 11:38PM

That subreddit is corrupt January 10, 2021 at 11:34PM

That subreddit is corrupt. January 10, 2021 at 11:34PM

Omg feels me too.... Then a friend was like lol no and I'm like why.... Why would they abuse the word chill like this lol January 10, 2021 at 11:33PM

Thank you, if she doubles down on trying to 'fix' me after I've explained this to her, I don't know how our friendship will fare. Hopefully she'll be understanding though January 10, 2021 at 11:31PM

Could someone who identifies as gray(bi/gay)sexual and doesn’t mind sharing feelings/experiences with me please dm me. I’m just trying to figure this out 😅 January 10, 2021 at 11:27PM

I’ve always just done it because it’s fun and can feel good if the other person knows what they’re doing January 10, 2021 at 11:25PM

Thanks for your responses, everybody- they make me feel better,, January 10, 2021 at 11:25PM

When did you figure out you were ace? I'm curious since iirc the term is quite new. It's nice to see older folk here as well! January 10, 2021 at 11:20PM

Thank you, I think telling her that I can't be cured of my sexuality is a good move, although I don't think her ignorance can't be cured. Hopefully, explaining this to her will help dispel it. She really has been a really good friend and a great ally til now January 10, 2021 at 11:16PM

Exactly. Her friend was coming from a good place and might have lacked some understanding and said something she didn't realize was harmful. We've all done that I'm sure. January 10, 2021 at 11:15PM