I grew up in a very conservative household where premarital sex was treated like a crime. Now that I’m in college, I have been able to explore my sexuality on my own (watching porn and masturbating) a bit more since I have more privacy. Some of my friends have told me that maybe I just need to wait until I’m in a relationship to have sex but I genuinely just want to fool around casually. I’ve downloaded dating apps and even posted random sexy pics to work up the courage, but I still get this overwhelming feeling of anxiety when I picture myself actually having sex. For people who have a similar family background as me and have had similar feelings regarding sex, how did you overcome the feelings of shame? Submitted November 17, 2021 at 12:52AM I grew up in a very conservative household where premarital sex was treated like a crime. Now that I’m in college, I have been able to explore my sexuality on my own (watching porn and masturbating) a bit more since I have more privacy. So...

Whats underrated part of the body that you find sexually amazing when a girl touches it ( if this don't make sense sorry) Submitted November 17, 2021 at 12:57AM Whats underrated part of the body that you find sexually amazing when a girl touches it ( if this don't make sense sorry)

Well I know this guy who basically told me he will try to kiss me next time we meet. He knows I've never kissed anyone before and feels proud he is gonna give me my first kiss. He also said that he doesn't actually know how to do it, even though he's kissed other people before. And, in his words, we're meant to learn together. I actually don't want him to kiss me because I know it's gonna be akward and shitty, just like any other first kiss. Any advice? At least a good movie to watch when I get home to forget the terrible and embarrasing moment I'm going to live? Submitted November 17, 2021 at 12:01AM Well I know this guy who basically told me he will try to kiss me next time we meet. He knows I've never kissed anyone before and feels proud he is gonna give me my first kiss. He also said that he doesn't actually know how to do it, even though he's kissed other people before. And, in his words, we're meant to learn together. I actually...

I'm(33M) at a restaurant chain bar. First time with this bar tender. No idea how old she is, but she keeps working at me. Very attractive. Just not sure if it's something she does to everyone or if it's me. ETA: I'm not great with women but I've gotten more bar tender phone numbers than I have bar patron numbers if that makes a difference. Submitted November 17, 2021 at 12:02AM I'm(33M) at a restaurant chain bar. First time with this bar tender. No idea how old she is, but she keeps working at me. Very attractive. Just not sure if it's something she does to everyone or if it's me.ETA: I'm not great with women but I've gotten more bar tender phone numbers than I have bar patron numbers if that makes a difference.

I (18F) recently started seeing this guy (20M) that I met on tinder. Our first date was really random and straightforward. He asked if I was free one night and we went to a concert. He took me straight home afterwards and that was it. I had a pretty decent time. We were consistently texting for days after when I asked if he wanted to see each other again. He said yeah and we went to movie. It was pretty early in the day when the movie finished and we ended up going back to his place and spending the rest of the day there. We mainly just talked and hung out, very wholesome. I didn’t end up leaving until midnight. Ever since then we’ve been consistently seeing each other and basically spending our entire days together. It feels like we’ve known each other for so long but in actuality we’ve only hung out about 5 times. 4 of those times we spent at least 8 hours together. We get along really well, he’s super sweet. This is the first time I’ve consistently seen someone. I’m not sure how lo...

Im a 20 yr old straight male. Every time i match with a girl higher than a 7/10 i get really nervous and dont feel comfortable talking to them. But when i match with an average or as I see a "in my league girl" i talk fine and dont feel anxious. Some of my buddies only go for top girls and i just cant. Anyone else? Submitted November 17, 2021 at 12:10AM Im a 20 yr old straight male. Every time i match with a girl higher than a 7/10 i get really nervous and dont feel comfortable talking to them. But when i match with an average or as I see a "in my league girl" i talk fine and dont feel anxious. Some of my buddies only go for top girls and i just cant. Anyone else?

I heard about this and I never thought that someone would use someone for sex so they could have a ego boost. My ex was in a bad relationship and she was the one to ask me out on a date and told me how much she loved me. I thought it was going perfect because she always loved to talk to me and always look at me, I mean she was always the one talking and I just listened. We dated very quickly like just 3 days and 3 weeks later she had plans to have sex with me. So I got a condom and so we did it. It was the first time I did it and I really enjoyed it but I heard from one of her friends that she thought it was awkward and really regretted doing it. I didn't really believe it because after the sex she was still very glue on me. But over time she started to push me away and started to be less and less lovely. Over time she told me that she needed time for herself and eventually she broke up with me. Now I do believe what her friend told me and I think she is embarrassed by it to the ...

‘ello. i am the very wise asexual teen that knows a shit load about asexuality. it sounds like you’re asexual and homoromantic, woo !! or not, it depends. asexual, probably. i experience the same thing as an indifferent and neutral asexual* (more info below) so take that as you will. i am also trans but i dunno if i’ve dealt with depersonalization specifically, despite dealing with some type dissociation before. either way, being trans or dealing with depersonalization does not mean you’re asexual but you probs already knew that. it could contribute to it maybe but i don’t believe that shit does anything to your sexuality. either way, you can get love. there’s plenty of asexuals who have romantic attraction and pursue that kinda cuddly shit but you could also be aro and experience sensual/alterous/platonic/etc attraction** and whatnot. — — *there’s several types of repulsion and general thoughts on sex. repulsion (thoughts on you having sex): sex repulsed - does not want sex s...

The list of ways you can be aegosexual is way too long to copy https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Aegosexual November 16, 2021 at 11:35PM

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My excuse is that i dont follow celebrities. I know Danny Devito, Jonny Depp, Chris Pratt, one of the Kardashians, that Tom Brady guy, and the one who plays Tony Stark. November 16, 2021 at 11:32PM

That's awful I'm sorry you had to experience that and deal with those comments. It's especially awful that she didn't listen when you said no. Why the hell would anyone promote you sleeping with someone who doesn't listen to no. And I don't understand why people would think that would be an appropriate time to suggest or have sex? Being stressed over a medical emergency and drunk, there's nothing sexy about that situation. It really sucks that society has places these types of expectations on men. Sorry you had to go through this. November 16, 2021 at 11:31PM

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Hello, Does anyone Kown what exactly the "intimate" Option is at a erotic massage parol. I know that Happy End is Handjob and that a French Massage is an Blowjob. But what exactly is the intimate option, what can i expect from it? Submitted November 16, 2021 at 11:47PM Hello, Does anyone Kown what exactly the "intimate" Option is at a erotic massage parol.I know that Happy End is Handjob and that a French Massage is an Blowjob.But what exactly is the intimate option, what can i expect from it?

Hey everyone, my wife (24) and I (26) have been together for 6 years including dating. We have always had a decent sex life but it could be better tbh. Anyways, her pleasure has always been my number one priority. I try to make sure she cums every time. I suffer from premature ejaculation and I have for a few years. I actually think it’s a combination of things that cause it for me. I have to go down on her to make her orgasm which I don’t mind at all. I actually enjoy it a lot. My only problem is that I know she can orgasm from PIV because she told me that her past lovers were able to without me asking. I have a slightly above average penis at 6 1/2 inches and pretty decent girth. I just can’t ever last long enough to give her one and it just started recently messing with my self esteem. I just feel like I’m not enough of a man because of it. I’ve tried talking to her about it but she never wants to and says that it doesn’t bother her but I know she wouldn’t tell me if it. The issue ...

My gf of a few months is not very spontaneous when we're hanging out together. It usually requires some build up and a little bit of me setting the mood and getting things started. But there is one BIG exception. And that's when we have social events immediately afterwards. I think it's a secret kink of hers but I don't really know what to say about this. On about 4-5 occasions, she's either had quickie sex or blown me to completion literally before meeting people, especially her friends. She got really turned on when we were hosting and it was about 15 minutes before guests were going to arrive and I was getting dressed and she decided to start blowing me. I told her we can wait till afterwards but she insisted she finish me off. Like she was racing against time or something. It's just a little weird isn't it? I get strange mechanical vibes too. What do I do? Submitted November 16, 2021 at 11:54PM My gf of a few months is not very spontaneous when ...

I'm still a virgin and looking for a nice start to spend some sweet moments together Any patience will have a good result Submitted November 16, 2021 at 11:56PM I'm still a virgin and looking for a nice start to spend some sweet moments togetherAny patience will have a good result

Eye contact makes me feel super uncomfortable while doing anything sexual - oral, being on top, orgasms, etc. I get that people enjoy this because they feel wanted/attractive when you look at them, but I just feel uncomfortable when someone is looking at me. I’m guessing this is some sort of insecurity on my part? I’m not sure why, I think I’m fairly attractive but when it comes to sex I just am so uncomfortable with being watched/using eye contact. Not gonna lie I hate peoples sex faces too, it’s just a turn off so that definitely plays a part. Any tips for working on this? Have had it be an issue more than once. Submitted November 16, 2021 at 11:58PM Eye contact makes me feel super uncomfortable while doing anything sexual - oral, being on top, orgasms, etc. I get that people enjoy this because they feel wanted/attractive when you look at them, but I just feel uncomfortable when someone is looking at me. I’m guessing this is some sort of insecurity on my part? I’m not sure wh...

Obviously there is more than that, sex can be emotional or physical or both. Is there ever true equality in sex? I would imagine the one with more power also holds more decision making capabilities in the relationship, but this may also be true for the one more financially successful, or more experienced, or older. Anyways, is the actual dynamic of sexual relationships about power? Submitted November 17, 2021 at 12:00AM Obviously there is more than that, sex can be emotional or physical or both. Is there ever true equality in sex? I would imagine the one with more power also holds more decision making capabilities in the relationship, but this may also be true for the one more financially successful, or more experienced, or older. Anyways, is the actual dynamic of sexual relationships about power?