I wouldn't recommend that because the more you do it, they more they will want it... But, anywya, quoting Courage The Cowardly Dog: "oh, the things I do for love". November 25, 2021 at 12:39AM

proving once again that dumbass exclusionists never stop at shitting on just one group at a time November 25, 2021 at 12:38AM

So, how’d it go? November 25, 2021 at 12:37AM

If it's coerced, I would agree that that would be rape, but in the case where you don't have to, I disagree. That would be analogous to saying that going to work when you're reluctant to do so is slavery November 25, 2021 at 12:36AM

Well what I explained was one aspect of what we mock. That post specifically caught on because claiming to be someone who doesn’t feel sexual attraction but has sex is ridiculous. As the top comment says, ‘I’m a vegetarian but I eat meat’ I respect someone who knows they don’t feel sexual attraction and chooses not to have sex. That’s a claim backed up by evidence. That poster clearly isn’t that person though. They’re using their ‘asexuality’ for pointless internet pandering points. It’s pathetic and worthy of TiA November 25, 2021 at 12:35AM

Just ended it with my fuck buddie because I was having feelings for him... Knowing he is going elsewhere, that's why he ignores me. But how can some men keep having sex with someone and not feel anything or does he? Submitted November 25, 2021 at 12:27AM Just ended it with my fuck buddie because I was having feelings for him... Knowing he is going elsewhere, that's why he ignores me. But how can some men keep having sex with someone and not feel anything or does he?

So I’ve voiced my want to my wife that I’d like to give pegging a go, but I want her to get something out of it as well. So for those of you lovely ladies out there that have done this for your partners, can you give me suggestions of a great strap on that is likely to get her off as well? Thanks for any advice and/or links! Submitted November 25, 2021 at 12:27AM So I’ve voiced my want to my wife that I’d like to give pegging a go, but I want her to get something out of it as well.So for those of you lovely ladies out there that have done this for your partners, can you give me suggestions of a great strap on that is likely to get her off as well?Thanks for any advice and/or links!

A few days ago I had a wet dream in which I sucked myself, came in my mouth and swallowed the load and it made me cum while asleep. I can't get that out of my head now. Last night I finally said fuck it and did the thing but quickly spit out the cum. Didn't even taste it or anything. I'm straight and I had never even thought of doing that before I had that dream. I'm confused right now. Do you think I should try it again or go further and taste it more or maybe even swallow? Please let me know if you have any suggestions/advice. Submitted November 25, 2021 at 12:31AM A few days ago I had a wet dream in which I sucked myself, came in my mouth and swallowed the load and it made me cum while asleep. I can't get that out of my head now. Last night I finally said fuck it and did the thing but quickly spit out the cum. Didn't even taste it or anything. I'm straight and I had never even thought of doing that before I had that dream. I'm confused right n...

My girlfriend (22F) and I (21M) have been together for a year. A few months into our relationship, she was able to acknowledge, through therapy, that an experience from her past (before we started dating) was, in fact, sexual assault. At that point, she withdrew physical affection, which I obviously totally understand, and I think I have been good at respecting her boundaries. I care a lot about her and I want to be there for her and as supportive as I can. We've had ups and downs — there are times where we feel very connected emotionally and physically and are even able to have sex, but there are also times where I feel that she is very distant from me. She recently moved to a different city because the one we lived in was a bad place for her, so we are now doing long distance. I love her a lot and want to be there for her, but I am starting to really miss the physical and emotional affection. I am new to sex (she was my first partner) and I obviously miss it a lot but I don'...

22f I just made this account for nudes but a lot of subs i like don’t accept my post because of low karma/new user I also want to post videos - any suggestions? Submitted November 25, 2021 at 12:49AM 22f I just made this account for nudes but a lot of subs i like don’t accept my post because of low karma/new userI also want to post videos - any suggestions?

So I was chatting with my friend one day (21F) and other guy friend (22M). The guy friend is in a long term relationship with another girl. I’m really great friends with both of these people. The guy friend gets really drunk and starts talking about sexual topics/kinks and whatnot. We’re all just chillin talking about sex stuff and then the girl talks about how she went to some crazy sex club once and got spanked in public and there was a funny video recorded of it. The drunk guy asks to see it and she sends it to him. I say I don’t think I’ve ever seen it and all of the sudden her voice stutters and she really quickly says “oh I think I’ve sent it to you before”. (she had never sent me the video). I decide to leave it there and we move on. Now I’m not sure if I’m reading this wrong but could it be that she didn’t want me to see her getting spanked because it would be embarrassing due to an unsaid attraction she has towards me? She usually has ZERO restraint when talking about sexual...

I swear, I get the ick so much when I first begin messaging people on dating apps. I totally understand that this is a me problem and that people are different in person, but I can’t help but to find something that seems incompatible with me. It gives me the ick hardcore. Anyone else have this? Submitted November 25, 2021 at 12:06AM I swear, I get the ick so much when I first begin messaging people on dating apps. I totally understand that this is a me problem and that people are different in person, but I can’t help but to find something that seems incompatible with me. It gives me the ick hardcore.Anyone else have this?

Sorry this is long, details are kinda necessary (tldr at bottom tho). We're both 16, and I have two classes with her. I start to think I have a crush on her, so I start paying attention to her. I notice she stares back a lot too. There were times where she would glance over after laughing with her friends, her eyes would linger when she turned her head, and she looked over her shoulder when I was working in the hall and she passed by. I only looked at her out the corner of my eye, we would make occasional eye contact but I only looked if she was looking first. She sat at a table with a few of my friends in the other class, and we could move around for worksheets so whenever we had a worksheet I'd go over to my friends. Usually, we have to present how to do part of the worksheet to the class. The first day I'm over there, I ask if I should stay there to present with them, or go back to my group and she is the first one that tells me to stay. There is another girl at that...

So I’ve decided to give online dating (Hinge) a try and matched with a few cute guys. And this makes me a bit insecure about meeting then in real life. This one guy asked me out for a date, and he looks like he works out since he seems pretty muscular. My first problem is that I’ve gained 30lbs over the past year. And my profile has some of my older pics on it. I also posted newer picture from the past few months, but in my opinion these pictures were just good angles and didn’t show my full body, only my face. Right now I’m not happy with how my body looks. My second problem is that I’ve never been in a relationship. I’ve been asked out on dates before but I said no since I wasn’t interested in them. I had an unrealistic view of how I wanted my relationship to start. Open to any advice. Submitted November 25, 2021 at 12:10AM So I’ve decided to give online dating (Hinge) a try and matched with a few cute guys. And this makes me a bit insecure about meeting then in real life....

I am approaching my 4th year in a major city (NYC) and dating here is incredibly rough. I’m not getting any younger 28F and I have many stunning friends here who are also struggling with the dating scene. When we have traveled to other places, we get approached, complimented, etc while in my current city, it’s tumbleweeds or just incredibly creepy men on the street. It really upsets me because I would love to find a partner but even men 35+ who I am speaking with seem to fall off even after messaging back and forth multiple times. It is a constant issue with my friends and I yet my friends in other locations are all snatched up. When I lived in another state, there were serious suitors who could have been great matches but I was not ready to date seriously at the time. Men from my past who don’t live in my city are constantly reaching out to me wanting to connect but we live 2+ hours away. What I’m saying is that I don’t believe it is a “me” problem. After all, don’t they say NYC is...

The irony of calling yourself asexual and someone else an incel is just too good honestly November 24, 2021 at 11:38PM

This bothers me that there was no genuine answer with logical explanation besides that it sounds cooler. There has to be more to this. November 24, 2021 at 11:38PM

Not only does the creator not understand what sexual attraction really is (their definition: seeking to have sex with someone, for any reason apparently means sexual attraction, instead of the real definition) but they're also truscum. Huge red flag here. November 24, 2021 at 11:37PM

And again, deciding aka partaking. There are other reasons to have sex than to satisfy an attraction. For example, one can decide to look for a partner who would be good to raise a family with, and end up partaking to procreate. That person is still seeking out a partner to have sex with, but it is about the family, not about an internal unconscious desire. November 24, 2021 at 11:35PM

Ding ding ding; and the folks posting over there are in fact transmed truscums >.> One of them over there even insisted that lesbians are exclusively attracted to people without penises and used the word transexuals and insisted that nonbinary people arent trans; all in a single comment. November 24, 2021 at 11:32PM