I'm a 22F and go to college. I broke up right before I left for school, so I ended up having a lot of sex. I met a lot of guys at tinder and at bars. I'd say probably over 60 now that it's senior year. I also had fun doing things like showing my booty on snapchat. I thought I would just hook up until I graduated, but I recently met a really sweet guy. I thought it was just going to be a tinder hookup, but we spent the whole night cuddling and talking after. And when we woke up in the morning, he bought me breakfast. I'm still texting him, and it looks like we might have lunch this week. He's a 27 year old med student about to graduate. Right now he's doing a semester working at the hospital with oncologists where he basically takes care of old people all day. He seems so nice and caring. He says he normally doesn't hook up but went for it when I asked him because his girlfriend broke up with him. He's really hot in a nerdy way and is like the first hoo...

We're both 18 [M and F, M here] , we've talked about it and will be trying it for the first time. We do not have lube, so I was wondering if I could use a condom to finger her ass? Submitted January 25, 2020 at 11:40PM We're both 18 [M and F, M here] , we've talked about it and will be trying it for the first time. We do not have lube, so I was wondering if I could use a condom to finger her ass?

My partner of 1 year is a very gentle loving guy, we also have great sex. But I'm into rougher sex and like being dominated and while I have communicated this when he will try something (like tying me up, spanking ect) the dominance/authority is not there. It may be because he has never done it before but also because he is always so sweet its hard to to see him as bossy/I'm control. I was hoping that somebody might have some tips that could help us with this. Submitted January 25, 2020 at 11:40PM My partner of 1 year is a very gentle loving guy, we also have great sex. But I'm into rougher sex and like being dominated and while I have communicated this when he will try something (like tying me up, spanking ect) the dominance/authority is not there. It may be because he has never done it before but also because he is always so sweet its hard to to see him as bossy/I'm control.I was hoping that somebody might have some tips that could help us with this.

First off, let me start by saying that my boyfriend is 6 years younger than me. I'm almost 25; you do the math. I am a very sexually expressive person, and I always have been. From exploring this stuff at a young age, to being a tantric masseuse, and having worked in the adult industry since I turned 18, I'm around it all the time. It is a VERY normalized part of my life. I wouldn't have it any other way. You hear all this stuff all the time about men not knowing where the clitoris is to save their lives. Women turn to vibrators and self-pleasure to satisfy themselves all the time. Very few women reach orgasm during intercourse on a regular basis. I've been one of those women for most of my adult life. Cue my boyfriend. I do not understand it. Not just because he's so young, but because fully grown men aren't capable of half the stuff he does in bed. He is a VERY passionate lover, and I'm definitely all about that. His emotional intelligence when it comes...

Hello everyone, so I was a novice in terms of sexual experience before coming into an FWB relationship with this man earlier this month. Anyhow, we arrange that we go out to eat and then go to his home, catch a movie, and we twice now engaged in oral sex, fingering, and kissing. He says whenever I'm ready to move into sex full-blown sex, I may tell him, but until then, this is our arrangement. Anyhow, I have noticed that during these two occasions, he enjoys making out extensively, sucking my boobs and squeezing my ass. Furthermore, in terms of oral sex, he kisses my entire leg. He moves slowly into fingering and all. 2 days ago, during our second encounter as we were spooning, he began kissing my neck, alongside the fingering, dirty talk him cumming during that session. He also enjoys kissing my forehead and cheeks. ​ Is this a reasonable level of affection for an FWB relationship model? I have never truly experienced this heightened level of actions. I mean, we do text thro...

Mine has to be when my partner wraps her legs around my waist, I feel its body language to say, ‘this feels so right, I want to to finish in me!’ It’s her way of saying it without saying it if you get me drift. Alternatively it’s looking at different positions and seeing what’s works and what doesn’t. Submitted January 25, 2020 at 11:52PM Mine has to be when my partner wraps her legs around my waist, I feel its body language to say, ‘this feels so right, I want to to finish in me!’ It’s her way of saying it without saying it if you get me drift. Alternatively it’s looking at different positions and seeing what’s works and what doesn’t.

New account for weird questions. My wife says that sometimes when she’s really horny she wants to bite me as hard as she can. Obviously that’s not possible, but we were wondering if we could find some kind of “chew toy” that would satisfy the urge. Does anyone else have this urge? Is there something she could bite really hard that would have some give, but not break, and not damage her teeth? Submitted January 25, 2020 at 11:54PM New account for weird questions. My wife says that sometimes when she’s really horny she wants to bite me as hard as she can. Obviously that’s not possible, but we were wondering if we could find some kind of “chew toy” that would satisfy the urge.Does anyone else have this urge? Is there something she could bite really hard that would have some give, but not break, and not damage her teeth?

Hey all, I figured I would finally come to reddit after looking up shit online and youtube. To preface, I am (20)M and my S/O is the same age. My problem is getting up fully, and staying up. I quickly racked up a body count that's a little too high for my liking (over 25). The last time I have had sex before engaging in this relationship was a few months ago, like in October. As far as I can remember, I was able to perform then. I really can't think of any reason why my dick isn't getting up. I can't even maintain to stay up/get hard when I beat it. So, I'm thinking it isn't a physical attraction thing. I have narrowed it down to: 1.) I'm temporarily burnt out 2.) My sleeping schedule 3.) STD of some sort I have been a lot more active recently (gym and bike riding) so I don't think I need to exercise more anymore than I do now. I can answer any question to help you guys get a better understanding of the situation. Sorry for the messy format, thank...

You are gathered in family and an armed team invades your grandmothers house and obliges you to have sex with one relative, otherwise everyone will be tortured and murdered. Who would you choose and what would you do? Choose wisely. Suicide isn't an option. [Johnny Sins photo rubbing his hands] Submitted January 26, 2020 at 12:15AM You are gathered in family and an armed team invades your grandmothers house and obliges you to have sex with one relative, otherwise everyone will be tortured and murdered. Who would you choose and what would you do? Choose wisely. Suicide isn't an option.[Johnny Sins photo rubbing his hands]

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My girlfriend and I were fucking last week and she liked how dominant and rough I was being with her. We barely face fucked but it felt really good and turned me on a lot. I want to try it again but more aggressively this time. Does anyone have any tips? Should I shave my dick so it feels better for her? Submitted January 26, 2020 at 12:29AM My girlfriend and I were fucking last week and she liked how dominant and rough I was being with her. We barely face fucked but it felt really good and turned me on a lot. I want to try it again but more aggressively this time. Does anyone have any tips? Should I shave my dick so it feels better for her?

A bit overwhelmed I (28m) met a wonderful woman (26f) on OKCupid a week ago. Her profile was perfect. She expressed many of the same values as me and seemed to be looking for the same things. She messaged me first expressing the same reaction to what she had a read in my profile. We started messaging back and forth until our messages were turning into essay-length responses, which I knew we wouldn’t be able to keep up, so I suggested we start exchanging voice notes instead. Those soon became quite lengthy too. It was all very exciting because we were both making an effort and we seemed to be on the same page about many things. We even discovered that we had both been taking notes from one another’s voice notes to make sure we could respond to everything with intention. After a couple of days of doing this, we agreed to a phone call. The first call lasted just over two hours. It went really well. We then spoke to each other over the phone for a couple of hours each night for the nex...

I haven’t been in the dating game for long because I was a late bloomer in all sorts of ways. I was the ugly fat awkward kid that took no care of herself whatsoever for most of my teenage years. Now I’m in a much better place physically and mentally, dropped the weight and look decent. But that image of myself is alive and well. I wasn’t really intendeng on casual dating but it naturally happened in college and after becoming more social and having a wider group of friends. I’ve been having fun and meeting people, the thing is the guys I’ve dated and talked to/been approached by have all been very attractive both physically and personality wise, to the point I’d get comments from everyone around me about how attractive snd nice whomever I’m seeing is at the time. And as much as I like it I can’t help but to feel inadequate about myself and how much they might be out of my league and like they’re deigning themselves by even being seen near me, even though no one has ever insinuated su...

I have such a hard time carrying on conversations. Sometimes I feel like I’m the one carrying the conversation. Submitted January 26, 2020 at 12:18AM I have such a hard time carrying on conversations. Sometimes I feel like I’m the one carrying the conversation.

I honestly don’t know where to post this. I thought r/YouShouldKnow would fit but posts about Reddit are not allowed. So I started looking at the comments of a couple of r/relationship_advice sub and noticed a lot of the accounts of the top comments were days new. Then I looked at those profiles and confirmed a lot of these accounts are created just to tell people to break up or leave their SO. Here is an example - the account was created 14 days ago and all it does is tell guys to leave their wives/ gfs over the most minuscule thing. So everyone, You Should Know ... don’t ask for advice on the internet... especially Reddit. Talk to a friend, a therapist or a family member. Thanks Submitted January 26, 2020 at 12:19AM I honestly don’t know where to post this. I thought r/YouShouldKnow would fit but posts about Reddit are not allowed.So I started looking at the comments of a couple of r/relationship_advice sub and noticed a lot of the accounts of the top comments were days ...

I'm a petite woman and pretty strict with what I eat. Last year around spring 2019 I got a lil fat (due to my careless actions of thinking that I won't gain weight from eating whatever I want) and decided to get my shit together in fall 2019. I eventually lost weight through mindful eating and focus more on working out. I'm still trying to lose weight but I'm trying to be as discreet as possible or else my mom will piss me off. I would describe her as a helicopter parent. I've maintained the schedule of fasting a bit (if anyone knows more about intermittent fasting and wanna help me out a bit about that, please message me. I already researched as much as I can but it's better to have someone experienced help). I say "a bit" because I'm not too strict with fasting. Anyway, so my mom starts telling me to eat more due to how "thin" I got. I'm not stick skinny at all. I believe I'm average but in her eyes I'm too thin and she g...

Hello, I (F just turned 21 Oct 2019) feel like I may have disappointed my boyfriend of 1 yr and a couple of months because I got slightly tipsy one time. Background: As mentioned above, I recently turned 21 and now I’m legally able to drink. Prior to this, I was never really interested in drinking and I didn’t want to have any run ins with the law. I’ve only ever “drank” one time when I was 18-19yrs when sleeping over my friends house and it was only a sip of Jack Daniels. Now, ever since my 21st (no I didn’t trashed on my bday lol), I’ve had about maybe 6 drinks total but they always had at LEAST 75% of the drink still there because i just hate the taste of alcohol and I never had more than just a couple of sips. UNTIL I recently tried moscato with some friends that we both know (he wasn’t able to make it) and I really liked it. Fast forward to a couple of weeks ago, we hung out to eat and I had sangria. This was probably the most alcohol I’ve ever had and I got kind of tipsy and ...

I (30, F) work with a guy (40, M) who I’ve become decent work friends with over the past 5 months. He’s married, I’m single. We work in different departments, so we really don’t work with each other. We bump into each other daily or every other day at most, he will sometimes come to my department during the time we both eat lunch, or we will stop by to visit one another on average once a week. Things started out as totally platonic between us. I actually always thought he was really cute, but i have huge respect for marriage and didn’t think of him romantically. Then over the course of a month or so things changed. He would show interest in my life, remember little details, give compliments, etc., and i started to develop a crush on him. I had just ended things with someone who treated me poorly, so i really appreciated his good qualities. I’d say back in November i started to think maybe he had a thing for me, too. He started lingering around my department more, would check me out ...

TL;DR: Matched with guy on dating app, went on date and liked him, but stalked his FB and saw that he’s married and just started the divorce process. Feeling conflicted. We matched on a dating app two weeks ago, but only messaged about superficial things. Well, he seemed nice and interesting to talk to, so I asked him if he’d like to meetup. Anyway, fast forward to this week, we went out to eat and things went great. The conversation flowed, seemed like we both found each other attractive, and most importantly, I found him to be very easy to talk to and felt pretty comfortable around him (important to me given my last boyfriend was hypercritical and made me feel anxious). Since I liked him a lot, I went ahead and looked him up on facebook to see if there were any red flags that I didn’t catch on the date. Well, I found a post he made two days before our date announcing that “[wife] and I have split ties and are currently going through a divorce, but I wish her well.” And then he ment...

Yes he still doesn’t talk to me , I feel shity and want to end this relationship even though I still love him , we work together and that’s will be so hard for me to look at him again.. do i start to chat with him or do I leave him to think for a while.. coz god knows that he will not talk to me first .. sorry if I wrote something wrong ( reddit my imaginary friend, I’m writing to you coz you know I don’t have any friends ) Tl;dr : want to breakup with my bf only coz I so impressed that I asked to have sex twice and he reversed Submitted January 26, 2020 at 12:07AM Yes he still doesn’t talk to me , I feel shity and want to end this relationship even though I still love him , we work together and that’s will be so hard for me to look at him again.. do i start to chat with him or do I leave him to think for a while.. coz god knows that he will not talk to me first .. sorry if I wrote something wrong ( reddit my imaginary friend, I’m writing to you coz you know I don’t have any fr...

My boyfriend and I have quite recently got together after being quite close friends since the beginning of the school year. I’d noticed that he seemed a bit quiet, and I’ve tried to ask him gently a few times if everything was alright but he kind of just brushed it off until today. We were having a conversation and he mentioned that he’s been quite confused as of late, and I obviously got a little nervous as I didn’t know what he was referring to. Then he told me he’d been questioning his sexuality, before telling me that he thought he was bisexual. I support him fully, obviously, and I tried to let him know that. The problem is that I’m straight (at least as far as I’ve figured out) and I can only imagine how tough it would be to come out as bi as a sixteen year old boy. He expressed some concerns about coming out to a few of our friends, who can seem a bit ignorant at times. I tried to reassure him and told him that there was no pressure and that he didn’t have to tell anyone anyt...

Let me start by saying my girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and I love her very much. We are pretty much inseparable and spend all day together if we can. Without a doubt she is my best friend and partner in life. Plain and simply, my girlfriend is the person I like to do life with. This feeling is mutual and we frequently express our excitement to move in together and take things to the next level. That being said, I struggle with being able to fully commit my heart and soul to her. When I was 17 I dated this other girl (for the sake of anonymity let's call her Jess). Jess was the first person I ever really fell in love with. Jess and I dated for about 5 or 6 months in our senior year of high school. I never fully understood why our relationship ended but in hindsight, she likely had anxiety and commitment issues that she kept hidden from me at the time. Add me being young and horny and always wanting to spend time with her and crowding her space, I think I mostly...

To begin; I’m notorious for being pretty cold and sharp, but only when confronted or treated poorly. Also, this happened over a year ago. I just keep thinking about it. My boyfriend at the time had been with me for three years. He’s a writer who has applied to more MFA programs than anyone can count, but I always supported his dreams and ambitions the best I could. I really had faith that one day he’d land a spot. While trying to get into these programs, he worked as a fry cook at a local diner. He absolutely hated his job and every day talked about quitting and how he felt like he was wasting his time / talent. One night we got wine drunk together on my back deck and we were just listening to music when he started crying. I asked what was up and he tearfully confessed that several months prior, he’d fucked my sister. Three times. He apologized and said over and over what a huge mistake he’d made, but I was stunned into absolute silence. When I found my voice all I could think to...