I genuinely curious. So I love sucking on balls, playing w them, and rimming, but hubs isn’t into it. We do have an open marriage, so I get some of that from others, but want to know other guys opinions. Submitted September 19, 2019 at 11:47PM I genuinely curious. So I love sucking on balls, playing w them, and rimming, but hubs isn’t into it. We do have an open marriage, so I get some of that from others, but want to know other guys opinions.

TSIA really, not meant to circle jerk. I've just noticed that (while in a committed relationship) women have extremely negative attitudes towards female condoms and complain about how "horrible" they are. So much that they're never really used. But women adore male condoms though. I don't understand why? Please don't say it's because "women are expected to take birth control" while I understand that no-one is forcing you. That sounds like a discussion 'ender' rather than the real answer. The vagina isn't very sensitive at all compared to the penis. It's main purpose is as a birth canal so it shouldn't be by design. So it makes sense to put the barrier there rather than on the more sensitive organ (penis) and societies have done that throughout history. However women love male condoms. Pretty much all women would prefer it if their partner used condoms all the time so they didn't have to use bc (pretty much all women ...

Hey all, so I've had this problem for a while now. I am unsatisfied with my orgasm. I was unsatisfied before I had sex for the first time, and I am still unsatisfied now that I'm having regular sex. I tried fixing this problem a while ago by doing anal play, and maybe it made orgasms feel a little more intense.. sometimes. It's difficult to do by myself and hard to stay aroused/be into it with my girlfriend. We used to do anal play almost every time before having sex, but now we dont bother because it seems pointless. Recently, I saw something about flexing pelvic muscles to get multiple orgasms and I've been practicing every day for a month to no avail. If I squeeze really hard I can get a pretty good orgasm, but it's nothing special. As a result, or maybe on top of this, I am jealous of my girlfriend/women in general for their orgasm. Idk, I enjoy pleasuring my partner, but at the same time I feel like I'm being jipped. Sex for me is essentially fucking and t...

Ok, so I have only had 1 previous partner in a long term relationship. Current FB is big for me. Definitely above average and it is more than I'm used to. It's amazing sex but sometimes painful. Noticed that my previous go-to positions for G-spot stimulation don't work the same. Previously reverse cowgirl or pronebone hit the spot perfectly. Think he may be too long to hit that spot since it's not far in. Tried pronebone and it was the first time I had my cervix hit. Any tips on positions for getting G-spot stimulation from a larger guy? Submitted September 20, 2019 at 12:00AM Ok, so I have only had 1 previous partner in a long term relationship. Current FB is big for me. Definitely above average and it is more than I'm used to. It's amazing sex but sometimes painful. Noticed that my previous go-to positions for G-spot stimulation don't work the same.Previously reverse cowgirl or pronebone hit the spot perfectly. Think he may be too long to hit that...

Using a throwaway for the usual reasons. Sorry that this is a bit on the longer side. Earlier this week it came out in my social circle that someone I thought was a really good friend of mine is actually trash. A lying, mentally and emotionally abusive narcissist who has cheated on and damaged more girls than I even know. It’s a long story that if I gave too many details would probably make me at least identifiable as a name on a long list of girls and would out him by name. The short of it is, he gave a LOT of girls chlamydia on top of cheating, lying, and emotionally manipulating them. It’s possible that I have chlamydia and I do have an appointment next Tuesday to get checked out and get the issue taken care of. The main problem I’m having right now is just mentally dealing with the possibility of infection being reality. I know it’s treatable and ultimately not the biggest problem I’ve had to deal with, but it would be the first STD I’ve gotten. I guess my biggest thing right...

I ask because this is a quote from Jen Gunter’s The Vagina Bible: “No matter how gentle you are with a finger, toy, tongue, or penis, friction will rub off the top layer of cells.” What do people mean by friction when they refer to vaginal intercourse? She goes on to say,”If heterosexual sex led to prolonged internal injury, that would dramatically affect our ability to procreate.” Is she implying that intercourse leads to transient internal injury? Does it lead to transient internal injury? Submitted September 20, 2019 at 12:15AM I ask because this is a quote from Jen Gunter’s The Vagina Bible: “No matter how gentle you are with a finger, toy, tongue, or penis, friction will rub off the top layer of cells.”What do people mean by friction when they refer to vaginal intercourse?She goes on to say,”If heterosexual sex led to prolonged internal injury, that would dramatically affect our ability to procreate.”Is she implying that intercourse leads to transient internal injury? Do...

If I have a second ejaculation relatively soon after my first one (within say an hour, not ages later), I nearly always get this very uncomfortable feeling in and around my hips, inside thighs, top of my legs etc. It's like an ache that's not painful but makes me need to move my legs. The ache can precede the 2nd orgasm. If I have more than 2 orgasms the ache reoccurs. Any idea what this means? It's quite annoying. Submitted September 20, 2019 at 12:16AM If I have a second ejaculation relatively soon after my first one (within say an hour, not ages later), I nearly always get this very uncomfortable feeling in and around my hips, inside thighs, top of my legs etc. It's like an ache that's not painful but makes me need to move my legs. The ache can precede the 2nd orgasm. If I have more than 2 orgasms the ache reoccurs. Any idea what this means? It's quite annoying.

*throwaway account bc my friends know my real username* Title pretty much says it all. My girlfriend recently broke up with me, not due to anything that happened, but we are currently doing long-distance just due to college and other factors, so we are still on good terms with one another; however, I really do believe that she is the one for me. She makes me happier than anyone else ever has, and even though we’re technically not together anymore I still think of her as motivation and inspiration to accomplish what I need to and to be the best version of myself. She has even said to me that she still loves me, but does not think its a great idea for us to be in a relationship at this current state in time. To be honest with you all, I don’t blame her for a thing. I had thought previously that if we had ever broken up, whether or not it would be a good idea for me to do this, but that I would just convince myself in my head that it's better that we are broken up and that she is o...

TLDR: She brought up snooping on my messages while I was rushing work, expecting me to talk about the matter. I refused, and she kept pulling my elbow but I pulled back. She said the force of my withdrawal hurt her and gave her so much trauma that she refuses to see me any longer. Did I abuse her? Do we still have a future? Event description I have autism (bluntly meaning I can have communication issues) and she has anxiety depression disorder, and we are both in mid-20s. So I was doing work late at night with her by my side, and while I was searching through emails sent by my manager, she suddenly brought up that she'd looked through my messages on both WhatsApp and Telegram a few months back. Then she said that she saw my message about me having a crush on my manager, but being glad that I could overcome the attraction especially now that I had a girlfriend. I was in turmoil over how she had seen such an ugly side of me. How could she hold on to those words of mine, taken out...

Apologies for any formatting oddities, on mobile. My(F23) boyfriend(M27) and I have been together for 4 years, 2 of those were spent doing long distance. We’ve lived together for a year at this point. When he moved to my city so we could move in together he immediately became isolated and struggled to make friends. He wasn’t leaving the apartment (working remote) and was lonely. He tried some activities, but the one he found that he enjoys is Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. He found BJJ a month ago and initially I was really happy for him. I thought it would be a great way for him to socialize and make friends. However, since then he went from going one or two times a week to, now less than two months later, going five times a week. When he’s at BJJ he is leaves our apartment before I get home from work and doesn’t get back until 9:30, or 10:00 pm. Starting this week he will have only spent one weeknight in our home with us together. Additionally, he spends one weekend morning at his gym for ...

Hey everyone, I just got out of a long winded, toxic and perhaps emotionally abusive relationship. Basically, I kind of always had a hunch i was being used during the relationship. I never said anything about it though, simply because I chose to ignore it and wasnt really feeling any pain from it (at the time). When we broke up, however, I realized very quickly that that hunch was actually pretty valid, as many of my friends, family and even psychiatrist spoke against the actions of the partner and stated I was indeed being taken advantage of (they were speaking on circumstances post break up, not the circumstances during the relationship). In any case, I notice now, only in hindsight I was often very caring of my partner's emotions but gave very little regard for my own. I am a very "quick to laugh" kind of person; even if something is hurting me. I try hard not to let things get to me, but the moment they do, they really get to me. My go to response for conflict ...

My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and have lived together for over a year. We started dating 6 months before he started professional schooling. He is a full time student, and I work nearly full time and go to school at night. Currently he is studying for a major test that's two weeks away. Household chores were building up, and I've asked if he can do things I don't have time for, such as asking him to find time in the day to do the dishes or brush our dog. At first he would attempt to do the things I asked, but lately he says he doesn't have the time. The responsibilities of food, cleaning, and caring for our dog fell on me. Last night, after working all day and going to my night class, I come home and immediately start the dishes piled up in the sink, trying to work quickly so I can do the other light house keeping, eat, and study. I either do this at night or wake up early before work to do light picking up in an attempt to not let it get so bad...

My roommate and I have lived together for 3 years now and it’s been a good arrangement thus far. We have a real one-in-a-million flat that’s super cheap, but also really nice and in a great area. The only problem with the place is its size, it’s almost like one of those university dormitory rooms - meaning there isn’t much in the way of privacy. This hasn’t been a problem though, as my roommate is often at his girlfriend’s place. So while I don’t get as much privacy as I’d otherwise like, he’s not home enough for it to be an issue, meaning my girlfriend can come stay with me all we’d like, and I can have the place to myself most evenings should I desire some alone time. This may come to an end soon, however, as I fear my roommate’s girlfriend may dump him. As of the last 6 months or so, he’s really been treating her like shit, to put it frankly. Constantly bailing on her to play video games, and the odd time she’s at our place, he ignores her basically the whole time. I’ve known both...

I was raised in a really strict religious family, about 2 years ago I “escaped” and started living my own life. This is also when I met my boyfriend. Everything was new to me and really exciting. I didn’t want to let anything hold me back so when my boyfriend introduced me to MDMA and LSD I did it a couple of times with him and some other friends. The first time was really amazing and I didn’t think about the risks or consequences at all. My boyfriend told me he had done it multiple times so I just trusted him. Then about a few months ago we had two pretty bad experiences with it, it was actually my boyfriend who started feeling sick, he took about 1,5 pill that had a pretty high dosage (I never took more than 1) and by the end of the night he started seeing hallucinations and almost passed out while we were walking home, then once we got home he kept throwing up and eventually fell asleep. That whole time I was really scared because I didn’t know what to do and he kept telling me to ...

I came home from work today and our locking trash was thrown halfway across the kitchen, the two recycling bags were ripped apart with the contents strewn across the floor, and a pan with its lid was pulled down from the stove. Admittedly I got frustrated and got into an argument with my girlfriend when she got home because I'm so beyond frustrated with the dogs behavior issues. We've dealt with this ever since the dog came into our possession. It's at least a biweekly occurrence for us. A month ago I forgot to latch the trash before I left, so I came home to salsa, guac, and other pieces of slimy garbage stuck to the kitchen floor. If the gf is on her period and we forget to close the bathroom door the dog fills herself with bloody tampons. We've had to jerry rig our fence to be 3 feet higher because it would jump out when we leave. It has dug at least 3, 2 ft wide holes in the back yard since we've moved into our new living arrangement. Now it's starting to b...

Yesterday I got into a pretty bad argument with my roommate (let's call him Alex) of 6 months' after he told me he was suspended from school 7 years ago for punching a younger kid who was annoying him. I said he should have been suspended, and that I felt sorry for the kid. And he started to say things that I think were aimed at hurting me. (E.g. he said he attended an all-boys school. Punch-ups happened all the time. He still had a better schooling experience than I did at my mixed gender school because the majority of women are crazy and bitchy). He's vaguely told me in the past that he's also been violent with his abusive mother several times during stressful periods in his life after she's pushed him far enough. One time was fairly recent. I thought his actions were understandable, but not justified. He thought his actions were understandable and justified. Basically the long and short of our argument was that I think he's a bit of a jerk and he thinks I...

We were dating for 3.5 years and I initiated the breakup for many reasons but none of them related to not loving him. They mostly revolve around us being young and too dependant on each other. I felt really guilty as I was his first girlfriend and took his virginity and had some underlying feeling that I wasn't "the one". Also I thought he had no idea what he wanted because he hadn't actually experienced a relationship. (we talked about getting a place together/ potentially getting married in the future). I have a really unhealthy look at relationships from my own parents/family's relationships. I told him all the time to let me know if he wanted to sleep/date other people during the relationship and he would have my permission. He always said no, never brought it up and always told me I was "the one" for him. I just wanted to make sure I was someone he really wanted me at the end of the day because it seems crazy to me when people marry their first lov...

I (F15) don't know how to feel about this. She just spent a ton of money on college and she needs more funds. I'm honestly kind of scared? We just had our 3rd anniversary together and now she is talking about selling foot pictures for money. Is this cheating or okay? I don't understand it at all, but I feel really scared. Will this affect me in any way? I know she can do this legally because she is an adult, but how would this affect my relationship? I am just really confused and scared. I don't want people to think I'm joking because I'm not, I honestly just want someone (outside of my life) to hear me on out. ​ TL;DR 18 year old gf wants to sell foot pics and i dont know if this is cheating or even for a good cause. Submitted September 19, 2019 at 11:53PM I (F15) don't know how to feel about this. She just spent a ton of money on college and she needs more funds. I'm honestly kind of scared? We just had our 3rd anniversary together and now she...

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half (year and 4 months) and it hasn’t been entirely smooth but no relationship is. We have a distant relationship in a sort, because we go to separate schools and only see each other one day or two days a week on weekends. We have made this work for this long, but sometimes it gets hard. As of recently I’ve begun feeling toward one of my classmates, who I see almost every day. I do not want to have feelings toward him as I really love my current boyfriend but this feeling toward my classmate won’t go away. I know I shouldn’t throw away a relationship for this other guy, but it just feels natural being able to see him everyday. I would never want to cheat on my boyfriend so I would definitely end things before ever pursuing them. Tl:Dr unsure on if I should test waters with new guy while in relationship, and wondering if anyone has been in situations simular. Submitted September 20, 2019 at 12:02AM I have b...

Hi r/relationships ! I seem to come to you a fair amount, specifically for advice regarding roommates. To preface this, I will start by saying I have had major issues with roommates not training their dogs in the past, so I would have never agreed to this if I had been given the option. I'm also not a dog person in general. I don't hate dogs, I've just found that 99% of people I've met don't train their dogs properly and as a result I find most dogs fairly irritating. I moved in with B [27M] and D [27F] in May of this year. We havent had many major issues and generally things have been amicable. I will note that I am renting directly from them as they own the house I currently live in. When I moved in, they had 2 cats, and I had 1. This is still the case. However, a couple of months ago, while i was at work, I got a text from B that said "Hey just so you know we're bringing a dog home today, just a heads up." I wasn't asked for my opinion on the...

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I'm aro ace! Seems like the typical life roadmap is friendship in childhood -> partner/family building in adulthood -> friendship in old age. Since I'm in that middle section right now I find most of my time being occupied with people who share similar interests whether that be chosen career or simply things I'm a fan of like Star Wars. Meanwhile all my coupled-off friends are off working on that. We still talk but our lives are so different right now it's just small, casual conversations from time to time. September 20, 2019 at 12:00AM