Repost because this got deleted and I wasn’t able to see the comments but I really want some answers! My husband and I have been married for a few months now and my husband has a very high sex drive and so do I, the only difference is that I was a virgin before marriage and he was previously married. I am 22 and he is 33, and I am just curious if this is a common drive for men this age and also is it common for couples do be intimate this often? We are having sex atleast 6 times a day up to 10 but sometimes even more especially on the weekends when he’s off from work. He also lasts forever so in total this is taking 5-7 hours out of my day (not none stop sex but if I add it up) and I’m not complaining at all, I love my husband so much and I love having sex with him he’s an amazing lover and always puts my pleasure first but I feel like it’s so much and we might get bored quickly, I am also worried that having this much sex daily will lead to a steady decline in the future, this true a...

The pain started yesterday and I had sex Friday night, it was a one night stand and I’ve had burning pain ever since. Not when I pee it’s on the vagina. He used a condom but one time his penis touched the outside of my vulva. I wasn’t that into it so I wasn’t that lubricated. Could it be an STI? Do they manifest that quickly? I’ve had this pain before but it was because of the friction and caused a yeast infection but I’m scared it might be and STI. I don’t have any physical symptoms. But is it normal to have symptoms so fast? Why does it hurt inside if I used a condom? Could i get infected just by touching the outside a little bit? Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:27AM The pain started yesterday and I had sex Friday night, it was a one night stand and I’ve had burning pain ever since. Not when I pee it’s on the vagina. He used a condom but one time his penis touched the outside of my vulva. I wasn’t that into it so I wasn’t that lubricated. Could it be an STI? Do they manifest...

Ok so idk if this is the right place but it’s sexual so why not. So the FB (24F) and I(28m) are on vacation and have taken/taking pics that we are considering sharing on Reddit. We don’t think gonewildcouples is the place for us because the pics are more on the mild side and don’t show anything too explicit. We don’t think gonemild works either because thats more for individuals posting there own pics. Does anyone have any good Reddit’s/subreddits for us. And please don’t message/chat saying “you can send them to me” because were not interested. Especially to some creepy dudes haha. Let us know!! Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:36AM Ok so idk if this is the right place but it’s sexual so why not. So the FB (24F) and I(28m) are on vacation and have taken/taking pics that we are considering sharing on Reddit. We don’t think gonewildcouples is the place for us because the pics are more on the mild side and don’t show anything too explicit. We don’t think gonemild works either bec...

My boyfriend (28m) and I (26F) have been together for 2 years and we live together. The relationship has always been very healthy and he treats me extremely well. There’s one thing I feel a little confused about though, and I’d appreciate some feedback on it. It’s a delicate subject and I’m not sure how to handle it. Whenever he uses the shower, he’s in the bathroom for about 45 minutes. One time, he forgot to clear the history from our shared iPad, and I can tell from that what he’s doing in there. He looks at images on NSFW subs and I’m assuming, with a good amount of evidence to support my theory, that he gets turned on and then jerks off in the shower. He does this about 6 times a week and I’m usually home. With that being said, we’re also having sex about 4 times a week, and our sex life is great. I don’t believe that pornography or masturbation are bad. I am surprised by how frequently he’s doing it, but our sex life isn’t suffering, so I’m trying to remind myself that this i...

I’m (49m) have anxiety, am overly emotional, and require a lot of reassurance from who I’m seeing. My ex (42f) was unemotional and aloof but said she loved me, we were together for a year. Our relationship had troubles, mostly due to her being best friends with her ex. I was skeptical of their friendship but I never asked her to stop hanging out. I did ask that they stop sharing a bed and I didn’t like them traveling together but there were provisions made that I could accept. Her ex was manipulative and controlling but she could never see it because of the guilt she felt over how they ended. In the end, she broke our plans a few weeks in a row for her ex, the last time to take her to the hospital. I was sad and not supportive enough though we had just talked about breaking plans being huge to me, she said I wasn’t worth the trouble, and ended our relationship. She decided to break up with me that morning, but continued to use my vehicle, lie to me and lead me on all day. She then ask...

hi reddit, my (24f) ex boyfriend reached out to me a couple days ago and i am having trouble letting it go. he texted me on thanksgiving a photo of us saying he was thinking of me and hoped i had a good day- i responded “you too.” a few days later, he texted me and said he hasn’t been able to stop thinking of me and misses me a lot. we ended up chatting and he told me he’s still in love with me. i called him to which he showed me he kept most of my things: clothes, letters, paintings. he kept and hung up gifts i gave him which was apparent by how his apartment looked. he told me he hasn’t been stable financially and is considering moving out of state. he wants to see me before he goes to see if there’s still that connection. we live four hours apart now. he also told me he’s been considering for a few months to move where i am. he then proceeded to tell me he had sex with a pornstar, and that he’s friends with his ex before me. which is news to me because they weren’t friends whi...

(Excuse my lonely late night ramblings) I am 24(F), straight, quite tall (5'9"/175cm), average body shape (a few extra pounds here and there) and objectively good-looking. I would be described as sociable, chill, very thoughtful and an overtly friendly person. I have a large amount of both M and F friends (majority female, but some close male friends also). I have not had a relationship in 5 years, only 2-3 dates that didn't go anywhere. I've not been approached by any guys at all who have shown an interest and never been asked on a date (the 2-3 dates were from dating apps in which I initiated meeting). Obviously it can be difficult to know as the reasoning can be very personal, but in general what reasons have you found for just not attracting any attention from potential daters? TIA Submitted November 29, 2021 at 11:54PM (Excuse my lonely late night ramblings)I am 24(F), straight, quite tall (5'9"/175cm), average body shape (a few extra pounds he...

Hi, 23M here. I found a girl (20F) on Instagram in a totally random way, I liked the way she looks so I followed her. Then she followed me back so maybe that's a sign. 😂 The big problem now is how do I actually start a conversation with a girl without being creepy or something? The easiest method is to react with something at a selfie that's posted on the Instagram stories (when she will post this) and then I can write something like hi, how are you/wyd/how was your but Idk if it's a good thing because I may seem boring from the first message. Any better ideas? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 11:55PM Hi, 23M here. I found a girl (20F) on Instagram in a totally random way, I liked the way she looks so I followed her. Then she followed me back so maybe that's a sign. 😂 The big problem now is how do I actually start a conversation with a girl without being creepy or something? The easiest method is to react with something at a selfie that's posted on the Instag...

There's a girl at work I like so I wanna introduce myself. But shit, I see her few times during shift and we're at different positions, so idk how to initiate conversation. I said I'm gonna do it today (Monday) but choked. I need to act now. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 11:56PM There's a girl at work I like so I wanna introduce myself. But shit, I see her few times during shift and we're at different positions, so idk how to initiate conversation.I said I'm gonna do it today (Monday) but choked. I need to act now.

Ok so i have been kind of freaking out over this since last night bc i would have never expected this shit to happen. I (20M) have a personal Instagram account with less than 20 followers consisting of close friends/cool people and i have been posting my gym progress on there. Like me doing heavy squats and deadlifts looking strong af and this girl (19F) replies to one of my posts saying "i want to be strong like you". Immediately i was like wtf. Bc this girl is actually really hot and i never thought i would have a chance. So we keep texting back and forth and im testing the waters to see if she wants me as a personal trainer or if she is interested in a little more lol. Keep in mind she texted me at like 1am which is why i was more surprised. Eventually i tell her "lets workout together" and she replies very enthusiastically telling me she's down af. So now im FREAKING OUT BC WTF. This just doesnt happen to me and now im anxious af lmao. I guess girls notice ...

I done fucked up my dudes and i dont know what to do. So a girl i have been FWB for a couple weeks now is supportive of my theatre shows i’m in and will come to the plays. But before i could put the dots together and realise they will see each other im now seeing one of the girls that i do the show with and have been for like 2 weeks….however my relationship is better with the first girl.😂 I feel like i should tell the girl i do shows with but i dont want her to hate me or to make it hella awkward. They both know im not looking for a relationship because i just came out of 2 serious ones so im just doing my thing😅 HELP!😫 Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:07AM I done fucked up my dudes and i dont know what to do. So a girl i have been FWB for a couple weeks now is supportive of my theatre shows i’m in and will come to the plays. But before i could put the dots together and realise they will see each other im now seeing one of the girls that i do the show with and have been for...

Hey everyone so I was dating someone for 9 almost 10 yrs and we called it a quits about 3 months ago. I've been talking to one of my friends and he he told me he had liked me for almost 3 yrs now, and he wants to take me on a date and start talking. I told him we can talk but take it slow. My ex is a narcissist and I'm not sure what he is capable of doing if he was to find out. So how long do u guys think I should wait to go one a date? Remind you I have not talked to my ex it's been 3 months now. So please let me know what you guys think? Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:11AM Hey everyone so I was dating someone for 9 almost 10 yrs and we called it a quits about 3 months ago. I've been talking to one of my friends and he he told me he had liked me for almost 3 yrs now, and he wants to take me on a date and start talking. I told him we can talk but take it slow. My ex is a narcissist and I'm not sure what he is capable of doing if he was to find out. So how ...

I'm 24M who mainly uses online dating, and at the end of a date, I will usually say something like "Whether or not you are interested in going on another date, let me know. I'm just the kind of person who likes people to be honest with me instead of flaking." We may not make plans on the spot at the end of the date, but the idea was that we'll think of an activity for a second date, hence why I bring up that comment. Also, I only say that when I am interested in a second date. If I'm not interested, I never hint at anything like that Am I making girls I'm dating uncomfortable when I say that? How would you feel if someone said that to you? Submitted November 30, 2021 at 12:12AM I'm 24M who mainly uses online dating, and at the end of a date, I will usually say something like "Whether or not you are interested in going on another date, let me know. I'm just the kind of person who likes people to be honest with me instead of flaking....

That's a really interesting POV that I hadn't ever considered. Thank you for sharing with me. November 29, 2021 at 11:25PM

Definitely plan on reaching it! November 29, 2021 at 11:24PM

I don't want to paint with an overly broad brush, but I don't think this is a healthy relationship. The way she's acting around you, especially considering that you established clear boundaries and asked her to stop, really reads like assault to me. I honestly felt uncomfortable reading about what she was doing, and I can't imagine what it must have been like for you. Someone who doesn't respect your identity and who you feel uncomfortable talking to about your identity, is probably not the right person for you. I know it's tough to be an ace person looking for a relationship but please don't settle for less love than you deserve. You deserve someone who respects your boundaries, who listens to you, who is willing to expand their horizons and learn from you. Those people are out there. And finding them, even if the journey is long, will always be better than settling for someone who doesn't deserve you. November 29, 2021 at 11:18PM

Lmao November 29, 2021 at 11:14PM

This looks like a good thing for An ace to give to a fellow ace November 29, 2021 at 11:14PM

So listen, I’m not a 14 year old kid who knows nothing about sex and just asks here. I’m 31 year old and had 8-10 partners in the bed. But I have never ever gotten a BJ from a girl on the toilet/street/wherever before, assuming there’s a party I’m attending ofc. But when I see pictures here of girls giving dudes BJs, it makes me curious about how easy and how willing girls in general are to give BJs to guys? I’m not asking In order to get a BJ in the future, I’m just curious. Edit: Sorry for not being clear. A random girl in a bar or whatever :) I’m just curious because of all the stories and pictures where a girl sucks a guy off. I have no specific intention of pursuing a bj from a random girl, I was just curious. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 09:59PM So listen, I’m not a 14 year old kid who knows nothing about sex and just asks here. I’m 31 year old and had 8-10 partners in the bed. But I have never ever gotten a BJ from a girl on the toilet/street/wherever before, assuming...

Wherever I hear about my coworkers stories about their ex’s or their one-night-stands or my friend’s stories I feel happy for them but insanely insecure about my own inability to form or find any mutual connection with a woman. I’ve never had anyone flirt with me or show signs of interest, dated, had sex, or even held hands and it’s really weighing on me as I get older and approach 30 in the next 5 years. Do I have every right to feel bad for never experiencing a mutual connection or am I just dumb for feeling this way? I’m really scared that there might be something wrong with me. Submitted November 29, 2021 at 10:05PM Wherever I hear about my coworkers stories about their ex’s or their one-night-stands or my friend’s stories I feel happy for them but insanely insecure about my own inability to form or find any mutual connection with a woman. I’ve never had anyone flirt with me or show signs of interest, dated, had sex, or even held hands and it’s really weighing on me as I ge...

So I had a one night stand on Friday and I’ve had burning pain ever since. He used a condom but one time his penis touched the outside of my vulva. I wasn’t that into it so I wasn’t that lubricated. Could it be an STI? Do they manifest that quickly? Submitted November 29, 2021 at 10:59PM So I had a one night stand on Friday and I’ve had burning pain ever since. He used a condom but one time his penis touched the outside of my vulva. I wasn’t that into it so I wasn’t that lubricated. Could it be an STI? Do they manifest that quickly?