So, I (21F) am in an open relationship (22F). We recently just opened our relationship, as I wanted to just try it out. I've never been in an open or poly relationship before and my partner has. So, I went to Tinder to meet some new friends and was very clear in my bio about it. Here's where I meet this married couple (26MF) on Tinder. They're super sweet, and actually attractive young people. I get to talking with them and get the wife's snapchat, and let me know that this would be the first time they had a threesome in their marriage, and eventually asked me out to dinner. Naturally I say yes. They only live in the next town over and treated me like a human being instead of someone to have sex with. When I finally do get to meet them, they're just like their pictures, both were very friendly and we all shared very similar interests. After dinner, I get invited back to their place. And again, I say yes. And before I go on rambling too much, I was comfortable the...

Before I realised I was trans, I set my flair on r/AskMen (it's usually a gender flair) to just "plant." January 11, 2022 at 12:39AM

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That's the approach I took last year but eventually I realized that after years of people asking, I was just completely done with feeling I have to come up with some kind of excuse as to why I'm not in a relationship. So starting last month I just decided to tell people I'm asexual if they ask about it. Sure, may lead to some questions at first but my hope is that in the long term it will stop people asking about my relationship status. If I find a girl, they'll find out eventually. If not, than they should just leave me alone. January 11, 2022 at 12:34AM

This girl that I date mainly has guys as friends and only a small number of girl friends. Is this a good thing or bad thing? Submitted January 11, 2022 at 01:15AM This girl that I date mainly has guys as friends and only a small number of girl friends. Is this a good thing or bad thing?

Love has nothing to do with whether you're ace. January 11, 2022 at 12:34AM

Well technically he has all the colors of the nonbinary flag, but still I agree with him being an ace icon. January 11, 2022 at 12:34AM

So I (22M) have this girl (22F) in my lab (same lab, but different groups), which I have a big crush on. She seems very shy, and I am also a bit, nonetheless, I tried to approach her with small talk, but the conversations were all short and (at least to me) it seemed to exist some awkwardness in the air. When we pass each other in the hall, sometimes we smile at each other, we already "locked" eyes on each other several times and so on. Most of the times, she even greets me, although for instance, today she walked right past me without looking, but five minutes later smile in the hall again. Am a bit confused if she is just being nice or if there is something... I thought of sliding a note to her in the library asking her out, what you all think? ​ P.S. I am leaving for a small insternship in the end of February for three months... Submitted January 10, 2022 at 10:42PM So I (22M) have this girl (22F) in my lab (same lab, but different groups), which I have a big crus...

So met up with this guy last week and we got along well, video called a couple of times during the week, then we met up in person again and hooked up. A few days later, he said that he doesn't feel like we're compatible and should stop seeing each other sooner than later because we both seem to be looking for long-term relationships. I asked him what makes him think that we're incompatible, and he said he doesn't feel like we're sexually compatible, but it's not something that could improve with time. I asked him again what exactly he's talking about because I still have no idea, but he said he doesn't feel comfortable explaining it. I don't have much experience with relationship or sex (have dated and hooked up quite a bit, but never had any luck with long-term stuff) so it bothers me that I don't know what he's talking about and he doesn't want to explain what it is. I don't want to stay up all night Googling what that could possi...

So I've been in a relationship for over a year and he jerks off alot and I feel gross and weird after I always want to please him but I feel like I'm not good enough. Please help me Submitted January 11, 2022 at 12:13AM So I've been in a relationship for over a year and he jerks off alot and I feel gross and weird after I always want to please him but I feel like I'm not good enough. Please help me

i’ve been snapping this guy for almost 3 weeks and we even facetimed for almost 4 hours. we’ve said stuff that’s indicated that we should hang out but we haven’t made a plan or actually said something about it. it’s the first week back at classes so maybe we just gotta concentrate on that but like i wanna hang. i would ask him first but i’ve been flaked on before and im kinda over making the first move and have it never be reciprocated back. i want him to do it first. Submitted January 11, 2022 at 12:15AM i’ve been snapping this guy for almost 3 weeks and we even facetimed for almost 4 hours. we’ve said stuff that’s indicated that we should hang out but we haven’t made a plan or actually said something about it. it’s the first week back at classes so maybe we just gotta concentrate on that but like i wanna hang. i would ask him first but i’ve been flaked on before and im kinda over making the first move and have it never be reciprocated back. i want him to do it first.

I need advice. F (26) I met a guy (26) and he’s great, we’ve been talking for a month to date and he’s told me he wants me to have a baby with him and move to GA with him ( we’re in CA now).. we’re both Military but he gets out in 3 months. He has a degree and is very gentle and consistent. I am newly divorced. He’s asking me to get out the military and start a new family with him. He hasn’t pressured me about it and he’s definitely sparked my interest… what if I go through with it and it doesn’t work ? Or if I don’t , and I regret it? We’re both fit and educated…he has options. Would I be crazy to end my career early to start a new life with him? Submitted January 11, 2022 at 12:15AM I need advice. F (26) I met a guy (26) and he’s great, we’ve been talking for a month to date and he’s told me he wants me to have a baby with him and move to GA with him ( we’re in CA now).. we’re both Military but he gets out in 3 months. He has a degree and is very gentle and consistent. I am ne...