had my first three some and caught feelings???

So, I (21F) am in an open relationship (22F). We recently just opened our relationship, as I wanted to just try it out. I've never been in an open or poly relationship before and my partner has. So, I went to Tinder to meet some new friends and was very clear in my bio about it.

Here's where I meet this married couple (26MF) on Tinder. They're super sweet, and actually attractive young people. I get to talking with them and get the wife's snapchat, and let me know that this would be the first time they had a threesome in their marriage, and eventually asked me out to dinner. Naturally I say yes. They only live in the next town over and treated me like a human being instead of someone to have sex with. When I finally do get to meet them, they're just like their pictures, both were very friendly and we all shared very similar interests. After dinner, I get invited back to their place. And again, I say yes.

And before I go on rambling too much, I was comfortable the whole time. The wife left briefly for about 30 minutes to meet with a friend, while I was left with the husband. I wasn't made to feel uncomfortable, and he and i talked about the nerdy things we liked, like star wars. When the wife came back, we watched a movie and got drunk.

Eventually, we did have sex and I still didn't feel uncomfortable. I slept with them in their bed afterwards, had breakfast with them in the morning. And after some tv, I left in the early afternoon. I let them know how much I enjoyed their company and all three of us agreed how much we got along. And they've still been talking and texting me since I left.

This is the confusing part. I miss them. The married couple I had my first threesome with, and I miss them. I find myself getting excited when I get a text, or I think about my time at their place. I know that this would never go anywhere, as they're married, and I of course love my partner. But I'm still scared that perhaps they'll move on to talking to someone else and then stop talking to me. I just don't know why I feel so attached or what I should even do about it?

Submitted January 11, 2022 at 02:54AM

So, I (21F) am in an open relationship (22F). We recently just opened our relationship, as I wanted to just try it out. I've never been in an open or poly relationship before and my partner has. So, I went to Tinder to meet some new friends and was very clear in my bio about it.Here's where I meet this married couple (26MF) on Tinder. They're super sweet, and actually attractive young people. I get to talking with them and get the wife's snapchat, and let me know that this would be the first time they had a threesome in their marriage, and eventually asked me out to dinner. Naturally I say yes. They only live in the next town over and treated me like a human being instead of someone to have sex with. When I finally do get to meet them, they're just like their pictures, both were very friendly and we all shared very similar interests. After dinner, I get invited back to their place. And again, I say yes.And before I go on rambling too much, I was comfortable the whole time. The wife left briefly for about 30 minutes to meet with a friend, while I was left with the husband. I wasn't made to feel uncomfortable, and he and i talked about the nerdy things we liked, like star wars. When the wife came back, we watched a movie and got drunk.Eventually, we did have sex and I still didn't feel uncomfortable. I slept with them in their bed afterwards, had breakfast with them in the morning. And after some tv, I left in the early afternoon. I let them know how much I enjoyed their company and all three of us agreed how much we got along. And they've still been talking and texting me since I left.This is the confusing part. I miss them. The married couple I had my first threesome with, and I miss them. I find myself getting excited when I get a text, or I think about my time at their place. I know that this would never go anywhere, as they're married, and I of course love my partner. But I'm still scared that perhaps they'll move on to talking to someone else and then stop talking to me. I just don't know why I feel so attached or what I should even do about it?