He’s set a boundary that I respect in that he’s always been bad at responding on his phone and texting overwhelms him which I respect . However it makes it hard to respect when he’s on his phone a lot when we’re together , even cutting me off when I’m speaking to him to pull out his phone and respond to messages. When he does this I’ll stop talking and he’ll say “ go ahead I’m listening” like he was balancing his attention between two people. His snap score rarely goes up but it has been going up all day after ignoring me for hours now. It also seems he’s only open to text me or hangout when it’s convenient. Am I being insecure or needy? Or should I rid of this person? Sorry it seems like I’m looking for validation to my insecurities but I do have anxious attachment and no one to really talk to. Submitted April 02, 2023 at 01:12AM He’s set a boundary that I respect in that he’s always been bad at responding on his phone and texting overwhelms him which I respect . However it mak...

During my lifetime I've had the fortune of meeting and living with all sorts of people. From the richest mf to the poorest; different races; different cities and countries. And people do be wildly different in what their values are, their interests, their way fo thinking. I've not always understood or clicked with everyone, but I did appreciate the differences. They all have their pros and cons. And it always felt unfamiliar from the family and city I grew up in. I don't like the way my family is, nor how the people in my home city are. And as I try to move forward and get for myself the quality of life I want, I can't help but wonder if it's going to be more challenging to date or connect with people from a social environment I wasn't born in. A part of me can't shake the thought I can get out of the hood but I can't get the hood ouside of me (figuratively speaking lol). Any advice on dating or trying to form relationships with people different from ...

So glad you figured this out and are proud to come out !!! I'm so proud of you 🫶🏻 April 02, 2023 at 12:24AM

(Little background info feel free to skip to end) Don’t know if this sub is meant for my question, but here we go. i’m an 18m finishing up high school and have worked since 15, therefore saved up a lot of money. (talking mid 30ks all self made). I come from middle class in a rather wealthy area. Most kids around me are spoiled with cars and big allowances. I purchased a car myself and pay all gas, insurance, and buy clothes for myself. Not common where i’m from. To get to the point, i only tend to date and are attracted to girls who come from poor backgrounds/ families. For some reason taking them to pricier dinners and treating them to new experiences and seeing them so happy brings a smile to my face, something that a girl who comes from parents who give handouts doesn’t care about. these days, when a girl tells me all the places they’ve been, or the car they’re dad bought them, i just move on. is this normal? Submitted April 02, 2023 at 12:16AM (Little background info feel ...

I'm from the US, but I learned it from it being repeated on this or one of the other asexuality subreddits. April 01, 2023 at 11:14PM

where are you from @steropeshu? i had never heard that and now i got furious too April 01, 2023 at 11:13PM