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Dating while schizophrenic

I (F22) deal with a multitude of serious mental disorders. I'm both bipolar and schizophrenic, both of which are highly stigmatized and misunderstood. Despite it all, I attend a top-ranking university, take care of myself enough to be considered "attractive", and have done a lot of work on my personality to the point where I can easily make and keep friends. I also take my medications daily, and I'm finally a functioning human being because of all these changes. This was not always the case and I'm proud of myself for not giving up when I couldn't go outside or make friends because my delusions felt too real. So, what now? I met a guy online (M21) and I really like him. We've been talking for a few weeks and I think things are going well. However, I feel like I'm becoming obsessive to the point where I can't do anything except worry about if he likes me. This is not like me at all, I'm usually incredibly driven and I thought I was past the p...

My (F56) daughters (F23) ex boyfriend (M23) reached out to me and I can’t stop thinking about it ..

So will try to keep this somewhat brief , as I retrying this as my laptop froze lol. Will call my daughter A and her ex B. They met when they were about 15, and dated from 16-19 the typical high school sweethearts story. Just stopped dating due to being evidently very different people and lives moving in different directions - the usual. Over the years with my older daughter , I have had the experience of meeting the boyfriend before, they were always the same kettle of fish; very polite , courteous young men - which was great as they treated my daughter well. None of them ever really stood out in that sense and almost merged into one figure in my mind, nothing too crazy but not a surprise she is not dating any of them now. Then B came along like a breath of fresh air. He was still very polite and courteous, but extremely confident (not cocky), unbelievably charismatic and incredibly driven. So he was the topic of conversation between myself and my husband a few nights after a dri...

After 9 years of relationships with various angry men, I [F28] am starting to feel like the common denominator

I honestly dont even know if the title of this is correct. Over the past nine years I have been in relationships with three men who I have always considered to be angry. One got so mad at me for not doing the dishes he shattered my iPhone. Another got drunk and called me a bitch and accused me of trying to sleep with people at the bar and ripped my blouse trying to grab me before some men tackled him. The third and my current bf called me a fucking psycho bitch for not knowing he wanted me to clean the apartment while he did dishes. I feel like it’s been nine years of being told I’m a bitch, untrustworthy, and occasionally unattractive. I’m starting to really wonder if the problem is me or the men that I’m with? My friends say I’m losing touch with the reality of what’s going on but I feel like I’m the common denominator in all of these situations. I’m getting old and want to take a hard look at myself and improve. So I guess I want to know- how did you realize that you were the ...

Ex (F 22] texted me a video of her being intimate with another man

Our relationship lasted 2 years and was pretty toxic. We spent everyday with each other basically, travelled together, and bonded with each other more than we have with anyone before. I still have love for this woman, and have been working on myself over the past year to grow from the bad parts of the relationship. So I decided to reach out after a year of being apart. She told me she was starting to get serious with another man (who I know) and I wasn’t really happy about that. So we went back and forth, argued, and she decided to text a video. Stupidly I clicked on it, saw a bit, then immediately blocked her and deleted the convo. Now this has been stuck in my head for the last week or so, a woman I became so close and intimate with doing it with someone else. I feel betrayed, because this is not characteristic of her at all. I was so hurt that I messaged the dude she’s with and cursed him out. Didn’t know what to do with myself. Any advice to ease my mind from this? It’s taking...

I (22m) was thinking I might have to go separate ways with my girlfriend (22f)

Hey everyone, I’ve never posted to this subreddit before but I’ve been really conflicted about my relationship for the past month and a half. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship that has been amazing since the start. But recently with the whole Covid thing we’ve been separated for about 2 months now (we both went home to wait it out.) Everything’s been fine but she just recently graduated from college and I’m still a senior in a college with 2 semesters left. She is leaning more towards staying at home rather than coming back to the city we’re in. She only lives 2 hours away. I was also considering moving down south for the summer for an internship opportunity which we’ll make it even harder to see. I would say no to it if it meant that it would save our relationship. I really want to make this work but I just think it’ll be hard this summer and fall since I’ll be at school full time and working on the weekends. I don’t want to end the relationship because we have a really...

Do I [22M] have to be close with my parents [50's M/F] or family [20's, 30's M/F]?

I just don't feel close with my immediate family. I'm like the black sheep. Every time I'm with my father and brother, I feel like the third wheel. They have a lot in common like sports, etc. I don't share their same interests. They also have similar personalities, and my personality is pretty different from their's. My oldest sister and I aren't close also because of personality differences. The only two people in my immediate family I am closest with are my mom and youngest sister. I feel guilty for not wanting to have much of a relationship with my Dad, brother, and sister, but I just feel like I don't click with them. If they weren't apart of my family, I don't think I would associate with them. Am I wrong to feel this way? tl;dr: I don't feel close with my immediate family with the exception of my mom and younger sister. I just don't click with them. I feel bad that I feel this way because they are my family. Is this wrong? Sub...

When is it too much?

When is it finally time to stop loving someone? When do you decided that you have emotionally taken enough, put lots of effort into a relationship? When you feel physical pain in your stomach? When you can’t sleep at night? At what point do you give up on love??? Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:59PM When is it finally time to stop loving someone? When do you decided that you have emotionally taken enough, put lots of effort into a relationship? When you feel physical pain in your stomach? When you can’t sleep at night? At what point do you give up on love???

What is a good age for marriage?

So I am a 25 y/o, I am an Asian guy and currently I am aiming to finish my Master, my school and work life are taking over my life. I currently am an electrical engineer for one of an automation company so my life is super busy :( on top of that, I hand to study for my professional engineer license and trying to finish my MS degree, well no need to get into much details. With the current situation of COVID-19, I will have to be in quarantine, I mean I've always been in quarantine most part of my life lol. I feel like once everything is done, I am gonna be like an old man. Thinking about this is making me sad. Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:59PM So I am a 25 y/o, I am an Asian guy and currently I am aiming to finish my Master, my school and work life are taking over my life. I currently am an electrical engineer for one of an automation company so my life is super busy :( on top of that, I hand to study for my professional engineer license and trying to finish my MS degree, we...

Blowing up guys phones

How do I stop scaring away good men? I have this anxiety that plays out in texting and I get compulsive about feeling like I’m “not enough for the guy or he’s gonna leave me and to mange my anxiety I send way too many texts. It’s counterproductive Cause he does end up leaving and never coming back, what can I do. Submitted May 04, 2020 at 12:02AM How do I stop scaring away good men? I have this anxiety that plays out in texting and I get compulsive about feeling like I’m “not enough for the guy or he’s gonna leave me and to mange my anxiety I send way too many texts. It’s counterproductive Cause he does end up leaving and never coming back, what can I do.

Please provide advice on going on top.

Sex life advice So me (female ) and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now and I have never gone on top during sex. I’ve never done it before and although he isn’t forcing me to do it , I can tell it’s getting on his nerves that I’m not going on top and it’s getting boring for him. I need advice on how to do it, what to do and how to not feel scared doing it. I don’t want my boyfriend to get bored of me but I’m so scared to do it. I do really want to do it but I just can’t build up the courage as I’m scared I won’t know what to do and will get embarrassed. Has anyone else been in this situation? ( he doesn’t know that I’ve never been on top he just thinks I don’t like it ) Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:45PM Sex life adviceSo me (female ) and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now and I have never gone on top during sex. I’ve never done it before and although he isn’t forcing me to do it , I can tell it’s getting on his nerves that I’m not going on top and it’...

Dublin 25M Looking for someone F !

Hi guys, I am 25 M living in Ireland. Is there any girl/woman out there who would like to meet ? NOT SEX! Just friendship for the starters! Thanks irespectallhumans Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:47PM Hi guys,I am 25 M living in Ireland. Is there any girl/woman out there who would like to meet ?NOT SEX! Just friendship for the starters!Thanksirespectallhumans

Scared to be vulnerable and intimate with someone

I have never been in a relationship or been sexual intimate with a man. I have fooled around a little bit but it never lead to penetration. I generally view relationships as something negative, l tend to think of them as a trap or a burden...something for people who are just scared to be alone. I have never actually wanted a boyfriend. I have been deeply attracted to a few guys and I really liked and desired them. Although, I still did not want a relationship or anything from them. I’m a very independent women and I like my own space. The idea of being in a relationship terrifies me. Just the idea of it makes me feel suffocated. To be vulnerable and to share myself with someone...it just seems so difficult...relationship have always been something for other people. I don’t even act like I am datable or try to put out that energy that I am interested. For most of my life, I was just the nerdy girl that focused on her studies and career. I’m 33 years old now and I still haven’t changed...

I don’t know if I’m having an orgasm or not ?

So, during sex I’ve never actually felt myself cum ( female ) , whenever my boyfriend finishes he will finish me off. Most of the time I’ll get an amazing feeling and feel like I need to scream and my body will shake because it feels so good. However no liquid actually comes out of me. Is this normal?? Like I feel like I’m having an orgasm because of how amazing it feels but I’m worried that nothing is coming out. Please provide any advice. Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:48PM So, during sex I’ve never actually felt myself cum ( female ) , whenever my boyfriend finishes he will finish me off. Most of the time I’ll get an amazing feeling and feel like I need to scream and my body will shake because it feels so good. However no liquid actually comes out of me. Is this normal?? Like I feel like I’m having an orgasm because of how amazing it feels but I’m worried that nothing is coming out. Please provide any advice.

Does anal feel good or bad or?

It's something I'm open to trying at some point but it seems a lot of girls I know are afraid to try it and I'm thinking like, is it that bad? Does it feel good? Will it hurt? What's the best way to like, prepare for anal too? Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:50PM It's something I'm open to trying at some point but it seems a lot of girls I know are afraid to try it and I'm thinking like, is it that bad? Does it feel good? Will it hurt?What's the best way to like, prepare for anal too?

Finding Girls To Have Sex

1) I live in London in the UK where prostitution is legal. I am wondering let’s say I pay Girl A for sex and she has pretty friends Girl B and C that I want to hook up with also. Is it legal for me to pay her to find me girls or is that seen as pimping even though she’s not forcing them. 2) If Girl A goes to Girls B and C and is like do you want to have sex with someone he’ll pay you a lot of money if you do and I contact them and they agree is that legal if she referred them to me? Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:51PM 1) I live in London in the UK where prostitution is legal. I am wondering let’s say I pay Girl A for sex and she has pretty friends Girl B and C that I want to hook up with also. Is it legal for me to pay her to find me girls or is that seen as pimping even though she’s not forcing them.2) If Girl A goes to Girls B and C and is like do you want to have sex with someone he’ll pay you a lot of money if you do and I contact them and they agree is that legal if she refe...

how can i get birthday sex?

i was watching a sitcom today and one of the characters mentioned how having "birthday sex" is way better then normal sex. and it just dawned on me that ive never had "birthday sex" before. my birthday is coming up later this year and i was wondering what can i do in order to get birthday sex this year? Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:54PM i was watching a sitcom today and one of the characters mentioned how having "birthday sex" is way better then normal sex. and it just dawned on me that ive never had "birthday sex" before. my birthday is coming up later this year and i was wondering what can i do in order to get birthday sex this year?

What's a good beginner friendly clit vibrator?

I'm looking for something that has amazing reviews and isn't too expensive! I personally struggle to orgasm in bed from penetrative or oral sex with my bf, and I've never came from masturbation either. Basically I'm a complete newbie to all of this. I'm assuming I may be more of a clit girl and would like to try a clit vibrator. What is something guaranteed to give amazing orgasms? Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:54PM I'm looking for something that has amazing reviews and isn't too expensive! I personally struggle to orgasm in bed from penetrative or oral sex with my bf, and I've never came from masturbation either. Basically I'm a complete newbie to all of this. I'm assuming I may be more of a clit girl and would like to try a clit vibrator.What is something guaranteed to give amazing orgasms?

Will having sex once fix my sexual frustration?

I mean it’s obvious: masturbate. But this doesn’t work! It barely gives me pleasure and it’s just boring and sad. I crave a real girl, skin, smells, hair, her eyes looking at me, talking, flirting, getting undressed... UHHH I want it so badly! I have sexual experiences in the past, but I’m still a virgin. Will having sex, even just once, get rid of my sexual frustration? Sometimes I actually feel agitated because I wanna get with a girl so bad! Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:57PM I mean it’s obvious: masturbate.But this doesn’t work! It barely gives me pleasure and it’s just boring and sad. I crave a real girl, skin, smells, hair, her eyes looking at me, talking, flirting, getting undressed... UHHH I want it so badly! I have sexual experiences in the past, but I’m still a virgin.Will having sex, even just once, get rid of my sexual frustration? Sometimes I actually feel agitated because I wanna get with a girl so bad!

Just discovered a new kink accidentally and I can’t wait to get the chance to try it.

I (21f) just discovered pussy worshiping. I’m someone that loves to spend free hours in the morning or at night having multiple orgasms. I can have up to 10. The thought of someone worshiping that I do this, doing this for me, and allowing me to dom them drives me insane. And of course they will get no pleasure from me in return because all the pleasure they need comes from pleasing me. Ughhhhhh Submitted May 03, 2020 at 11:57PM I (21f) just discovered pussy worshiping. I’m someone that loves to spend free hours in the morning or at night having multiple orgasms. I can have up to 10. The thought of someone worshiping that I do this, doing this for me, and allowing me to dom them drives me insane. And of course they will get no pleasure from me in return because all the pleasure they need comes from pleasing me. Ughhhhhh

How long does it take to forgive a partner who cheated?

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I struggle with putting condom on

My penis is not circumcised. I tried to put a condom on my penis today. I pulled my foreskin back and rolled condom down but it didn't covered all my foreskin. What can I do? Submitted May 04, 2020 at 12:00AM My penis is not circumcised. I tried to put a condom on my penis today. I pulled my foreskin back and rolled condom down but it didn't covered all my foreskin. What can I do?

Is it really bad if your bf calls you a cunt?

How bad is it and is it abusive? Submitted May 04, 2020 at 12:08AM How bad is it and is it abusive?

Why there is so little consideration to women in the adult industry?

I was playing the role of the large black guy and had two Japanese ladies, both where very sweet and cute I’ve started vaginal sex with one of the ladies and there was a lot of smiles and happiness between the three of us, however, when I switched to the other lady it was pretty clear I’m a bit too large for her and she showed discomfort, I was slow and careful thought I was signed to pick up the pace… leading to more discomfort for her When I pulled out of her and moved the other partner I honestly felt like she is traumatized, her legs where crossed, I did stick to the better coping lady and we had some very rough and enjoyable sex that was fun for both of us Then I was pointed out to switch and give that rough fun to the other lady, that I’ve been going for too long and just wow it as so bad for her and they didn’t care I don’t get why it has to be like this? Submitted May 04, 2020 at 12:12AM I was playing the role of the large black guy and had two Japanese ladies, both ...