Feeling imposter syndrome about your sexuality is the single most ace thing you can do, so welcome aboard. It feels like the majority of aces feel like frauds from time to time (there may be some visibility bias but wtv) September 05, 2021 at 12:24AM

hey, your just like me. it worsens with my demi-romantic, i just want to feel something but can’t. also there is no definition of normal, you are normal September 05, 2021 at 12:22AM

May seem small to allos*** This is huge for us September 05, 2021 at 12:21AM

Fuck I wish my period disappeared because I was ace. That'd be amazing September 05, 2021 at 12:21AM

Sagittarius ♐ September 05, 2021 at 12:20AM

in my early 20s I started to become curious about men. It was mostly a sexual interest. I had been watching a lot of porn and found myself looking at the cocks in the videos more and more. Eventually I decided that I might like to try giving a man a blowjob so I posted an ad on Craigslist stating that I was new to gay sexuality and I was looking for somebody to experiment with. I got a lot of replies from a lot of men so I sifted through them and Picked one. he sent me a face and cock picture and I thought he wasn't a bad looking guy, he said he had kids and was divorced, he also had a handsome penis. so I agreed to meet him at a plaza at about midnight to give him a blowjob in his car. so I got there and he was already waiting, I walked up to his car and waved at him through the window and I heard the door unlock so I opened it and got in. He was polite and he asked me if it was really my first time doing this and I said "yeah I'm just curious" so he said "okay...

There is just bots everywhere trying to scam you. I just want someone to talk to... not buy pictures or anything like that. Submitted September 05, 2021 at 12:39AM There is just bots everywhere trying to scam you. I just want someone to talk to... not buy pictures or anything like that.

So I’ve been wearing jewelled round based butt plugs for a little bit, but for no longer than 1-2 hours maximum. Over 2 weeks I went from the smallest plug in my set to the largest and now I can take the largest one with no issues. Only recently I wore my large plug to bed, and then for the rest of the day. I noticed that between my cheeks it started hurting. But I still wore the plug all day for the next 3 days. Today red blisters are forming. Will they go away if I just keep wearing them? I remember wearing sandals all summer and during the first few days I got blisters and then they went away later. Will the blister toughen my skin? I really like this plug apart from the blisters, it’s really cute. Submitted September 05, 2021 at 12:41AM So I’ve been wearing jewelled round based butt plugs for a little bit, but for no longer than 1-2 hours maximum. Over 2 weeks I went from the smallest plug in my set to the largest and now I can take the largest one with no issues. Only rece...

myself( M21) and gf (F20) are going to have our first threesome today … not sure if anyone has been in the same boat but my girlfriends my wine and a half a threesome will mainly be with a girl and experience and she thought it would be a good idea to have a threesome … It’s very likely it’s going to happen tonight as she set something up only thing is that I see her worried she said that she doesn’t know if she’s going to like it or enjoy it she’s worried she’s going to get jealous or feel some type away I’ve told her let’s not do it if you’re planning on getting jealous or you feel any other kind away I don’t wanna mess up what we have but she insist on still doing it and stays or if I never tried it I’ll never know I’m just worried that somethings going to happen where she’s going to get jealous and I don’t want before it happened if that’s going to cause problems in my relationship we’ve been together for 9 years I’m not sure what to do in this case should I even tell her to t...

I 16(f) and my boyfriend 18(f) tried to have our first time today. Just about everything went wrong and I’m pretty freaked out. I thought I was ready but obviously I wasn’t due to me having a full blown panic attack within the first few seconds. I’m not 100% sure what happened but Iv got a pretty good idea. Iv had some pretty bad rumors spread about me in school about me being a whore. It sucks but I didn’t want them to get in the way of somethings personal I wanted to share with him. I thought I was ready but obviously wasn’t. How did y’all know u were ready? Submitted September 05, 2021 at 12:58AM I 16(f) and my boyfriend 18(f) tried to have our first time today. Just about everything went wrong and I’m pretty freaked out. I thought I was ready but obviously I wasn’t due to me having a full blown panic attack within the first few seconds. I’m not 100% sure what happened but Iv got a pretty good idea. Iv had some pretty bad rumors spread about me in school about me being a whor...

I really have to put myself out there, being a male and 39, so I have to send out messages to anyone I see with potential. Rarely do I get anything back and only go on a few dates a year, but now I have 2 dates almost one after the other, 1 or 2 days apart. Is it wrong to do that? I see a lot of potential in both, though both are 20 minutes and in the city, while I'm in the suburbs. I might even want to give both 2nd dates to make sure.. but it just seems odd doing this. If the first one goes well, what do I tell the other? I have a 2nd date with someone else? It'll be hard enough driving and parking in the city... in Chicago it's like $20+ to park somewhere. Logistically I'm not sure what to do here. Both are scheduled on the weekdays. On the other hand, my 6 year long (now ex) and I are still hanging out like nothing changed a year ago, and we see each other every weekend and Wednesday until we find someone else right for us, that's our arrangement. She's al...

Something of a rant, something of a question. I went out and grabbed coffee with a nice lady today and had a perfectly fine date. After a few minutes of awkwardness she was perfectly easy to talk to and I enjoyed hanging out. We parted ways and I find myself struggling to find reasons to meet again. Im not sure if its an attraction thing, or an anxiety thing, or what. I've never been good at identifying a spark, or even much of a reason to continue with most dates at all. And here I am after yet another first date and I have no inclination to continue with this person. I want a relationship, and I keep feeling guilty for potentially passing one up. I'm generally asking myself after first dates if I want to see them again, as my primary barometer for progress. Sometimes I think yes, sometimes I think no. Sometimes they think no. But it hasn't really brought me success. Is there some other perspective I should be having here? Submitted September 04, 2021 at 11:59PM So...

I had to say goodbye to my friends after 6 months to go back home. Spent a fantastic time with them and had a nice fling with a girl too. Anyway, when I told her I had to leave so I could catch my coach, she was like "No". It was so hard for me, especially when I left and we had one last look at eachother. I haven't stopped thinking about her since the whole trip and since I've been home (I arrived 3 hours ago). Worst is, I never thought it would be so difficult. Do you think it's a "good" thing she didn't want me to leave? What do you think this means about her feelings towards me? Submitted September 05, 2021 at 12:10AM I had to say goodbye to my friends after 6 months to go back home.Spent a fantastic time with them and had a nice fling with a girl too.Anyway, when I told her I had to leave so I could catch my coach, she was like "No".It was so hard for me, especially when I left and we had one last look at eachother.I have...

Title sounds like I’m playing games, but really I’m just trying to tread lightly as to not push any boundaries and make this person uncomfortable. We’ve been quote-unquote “friends” for the last 9 months. Never kissed, never had sex, strictly platonic. We text every 3-5 days and only see each other when we plan a group hangout with friends. I make an effort to keep the communication going and as does he. He will always tell me how much he admires all that I do (my hobbies, how hard I work, etc) and appreciates my positive outlook on life. Looking back on how I’ve interacted with him in the last 9 months, I can’t think of a time where I very clearly made my interest known. Then last night I got really drunk with some of my girls (it’s my birthday weekend) and said fuck it, I’m gonna text him and turn up the flirt dial. I called him my “undisputed fave” and wished him a very happy long weekend. He texted me back and said that my message made his night, and that he was smiling. That ...

I need support generally on some dating apps.. I'm so alone Can anyone help tell me what app to download? Submitted September 05, 2021 at 12:13AM I need support generally on some dating apps.. I'm so alone Can anyone help tell me what app to download?

Thank you! Really pumped to learn more about the community! September 04, 2021 at 11:35PM

If being asexual meant no periods I'm pretty sure the human race would have been wiped out LONG AGO! September 04, 2021 at 11:35PM

Well it wasn’t about just men it was about the title and how it was used making it similar to asexuality. But it’s cool have your moment September 04, 2021 at 11:35PM

This isn't the first time I've seen that song posted here, so I don't think you're alone. xD September 04, 2021 at 11:35PM

scorpio :) September 04, 2021 at 11:34PM