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/u/AroaceAthiest on what are ace mbti type?

INFP April 28, 2022 at 12:51AM

/u/hopplily87 on demisexual, but only as the active partner??

it's confusing because my body wants to enjoy the reciprocating, but my brain doesn't like it April 28, 2022 at 12:51AM

Sexual intimacy problem

Hi everybody … I think I might have problems to share my intimacy with a partner. In fact, its recent. I have dating a lot of men during the past two years , searching about a serious relationship, I am a 26F and sometimes it leads to sex if the connection is good , I clearly shared my intentions at first. I must admit, Ive been use and some guy wasnt honest at all. But for the past few months , I have sexual desire to please myself alone but I dont have desire to share my intimacy with someone. I just want to know what to do , if you have ever felt this and if you have tips . Right now, I have dating a guy 4 times and his interest seem honest and I am very interested and I find him very sexy but I am not feeling like Having sex with him and not only him but any guy… I dont know what to do… I would love to take this relationship deeper , I could tell him maybe… I dont know Submitted April 28, 2022 at 12:01AM Hi everybody … I think I might have problems to share my intimacy with ...

How to date a socially awkward man?

This man asked me to hangout recently and I said yes because I like him and I also hear from others that he likes me back. But it took forever for us to ask each other for our phone numbers mainly because of our anxiety. He tells me he has really bad social anxiety and I was wondering if any of you had any advice or experience that could help me get to know him better and open him up a bit more. Submitted April 28, 2022 at 12:02AM This man asked me to hangout recently and I said yes because I like him and I also hear from others that he likes me back. But it took forever for us to ask each other for our phone numbers mainly because of our anxiety. He tells me he has really bad social anxiety and I was wondering if any of you had any advice or experience that could help me get to know him better and open him up a bit more.

Everyone's telling me to shoot my shot but I'm too scared

So my cousin on my mother's side recently got married to her boyfriend of 10+ years and it was a really nice wedding where I was her bridesmaid, but the story starts if we backpedal to a month ago. (I'm really bad at telling stories so sorry in advance.) Part of the wedding preparations was the RSVP website, so when my cousin shared the link with me, I looked through it. One of the pages was dedicated to the bridal party and groomsmen, so we all had our pictures on there. There was one guy I thought who was cute and it turned out that he's the groom's cousin. Fast forward a little bit, the bride's brother (also my cousin) was also one of the groomsmen and he went to the bachelor party. They pretty much all got drunk and started talking about the bridesmaids who they'll be paired up with based on height order. My cousin messaged me and asked me if I'm dating anyone and I tell him that I've never dated anyone, but then he just leaves it at that, which I...

Was I too harsh?

I talked to this girl on a dating app a few years ago when she ghosted me. A month or so ago we matched again and she seemed familiar, but I forgot that we talked and what happened. We went on two dates (where she told me and apologized about the ghosting) and then we both got busy for a while. Two days ago she texts me and says she doesn’t feel a romantic connection to which I say, OK. Then she tells me that she would still want to hang out and smoke weed with me and we pick Wednesday after work. Today she cancels on me last minute with the exchange below. I’ve been feeling angry at people lately so I’m wondering whether my reaction was appropriate? Hey Jiayi, are we still on for today? I'm done with work at 5:30 so I'm good any time after that Hey Davor Yea I'm still down to hang out for a bit What's your address? I probably won't be free until after 6 No worries, drop by whenever you're free Sorry something came up and I have to watch someone's dog ...

Dating while living with parent

Hey all. As it says in the title, I (27M) live with my dad and would like to start dating but obviously feel pretty unsure about it. A little context: My mom passed away in 2017 when I was 22, ever since I have stayed at home with my dad. I wouldn't say he needs me to take care of him or anything, he doesn't. But leaving him alone doesn't sit well with me because I feel guilt about leaving him to take care of the house and the dogs by himself. Obviously, he's a grown man and he raised me and of course there was a time he was living by himself and managed just fine. That said, he is getting on in years and there are times he worries me. I would like to add that aside from leaving him alone, there isn't much keeping me from moving out. I have a good job with a good paycheck, I pay bills, pay taxes, lots of adult stuff. I've never lived by myself but I'm capable of being independent enough to make it. The bottom line is this: I want to date and start MY life...

When dating someone can I date others?

I've been hanging out with a girl I met on bumble for almost 2 months. We haven't talked about what we are or anything serious yet, but have slept together, grabbed drinks, dinner, and went on a picnic. Is it ok for me to get drinks with a different girl? Submitted April 28, 2022 at 12:14AM I've been hanging out with a girl I met on bumble for almost 2 months. We haven't talked about what we are or anything serious yet, but have slept together, grabbed drinks, dinner, and went on a picnic.Is it ok for me to get drinks with a different girl?