It's soooo cute! And happy belated birthday December 22, 2020 at 12:05AM

This annoyed me, and I'm lowkey mad. Like, OK, he likes me, but I don't even know him, and unless he's a creep, he doesn't know me either. What did he see that made him wish to date me and feel like we could have a stable romantic relationship? He doesn't know ANYTHING about me more than what he may have overheard, he CAN'T like me, because liking someone implies having feelings for them. Sincerely, a frustrated arospec. December 22, 2020 at 12:02AM

Probably cuddle/hold hands and fangirl over our interests. Maybe we'd jam out to some music too lmao December 22, 2020 at 12:00AM

When i came out as asexual, everyone in my family said things like "asexuality doesn't exist " or "you probably like girls", so i don't receive THAT much support from my family. Luckily, i have my 2 best friends who support me and i found this subreddit 2 days ago, wich i found really helpful :). Sorry for my bad english :/ December 21, 2020 at 11:58PM

Anyone under the asexual umbrella. That includes anegosexual. December 21, 2020 at 11:57PM

I had a similar experience. My mom said sex is an essential part of a romantic relationship, and if you aren't having it then you are just friends. I got the whole "it's only a phase" thing, and I pretty much regret telling her. My dad was slightly more understanding, but he told me I might need to go to the doctor sometime because a man should have a higher sex drive. I'll be honest, I don't think my parents have ever heard of an asexual human. To deal with it, I just moved on. My family has always had a habit of making me believe I am something that I'm not, so this just felt like another of those cases, and I don't let it influence me. December 21, 2020 at 11:56PM

Thank you :) I’ll look into it December 21, 2020 at 11:55PM

Aces with trauma are still ace, you're welcome and valid in this community, I do reccomend to talk to a therapist if you haven't about the abuse you faced previously Also you're allowed to simply not want s*x, to make a comparison: somebody offered you a chicken sandwich , you may not want it for various reasons, you dont have to eat that sandwich. just as you dont have to do s.x December 21, 2020 at 11:51PM

I WOULD 100% READ THIS. Keep me updated please :) December 21, 2020 at 11:49PM

No. December 21, 2020 at 11:48PM

Uhh... turkeys? Really, google? Pretty sure they don't just split themselves and walk off. That would be really great for the food industry, though! December 21, 2020 at 11:46PM

Brilliant! December 21, 2020 at 11:43PM

I don't have much time here and I'm new to discovering myself, but as long as I can say, everyone here is very kind, understanding and polite, I'm sure you can ask your questions with confidence. December 21, 2020 at 11:42PM

Nice, upvoted December 21, 2020 at 11:40PM

Except the wording and pictures are different. December 21, 2020 at 11:39PM

My sexuality disappeared, and the standard explanation don't fit. December 21, 2020 at 11:38PM

There's multiple discord servers listed in the sidebar. December 21, 2020 at 11:36PM

It grossed me out a bit at first but I got used to it. Even regular kissing felt weird the first time and now I like it, so you kind of get used to a lot more stuff than you expect to if you’re open to it. I still don’t initiate frenching myself though; it’s more of an “I don’t mind it” than an “I like it.” December 21, 2020 at 11:36PM

Yeah I dont personally see it as sexual , I'd happily engage with a partner to french kiss but anything more than that, no thank you haha December 21, 2020 at 11:36PM

Excuse me while I go vomit. (I had to gather what is French kissing from the context) Then again, I hate regular kissing. Why does one want to mash their food hole with another person's food hole? In the words of my old RP character "mouth-jousting" is disgusting! (In my opinion! Feel free to like it if you want to) December 21, 2020 at 11:35PM

I've tried with a few different guys I tried dating thinking maybe a different person would be better at it (maybe I'm bad at it though 🙄) but every time it's just gross and I really don't understand why people's like it. Keep your body parts out of my body parts please. I do like little pecks on the lips though. December 21, 2020 at 11:35PM

I agree with many of your thoughts, but I do not fundamentally believe this is a story around asexuality. The main character even wonders if he might be, briefly, but that doesn’t really resonate with him. I actually feel like his is more of an interesting film for aromantics, who may want to navigate types of relationships that are neither romantic or platonic, but are kind of both in some ways. The ending certainly leaves it open as to whether we’re seeing some kind of QPR. But yeah, the aromantic part of me definitely resonated with the movie. December 21, 2020 at 11:35PM

I do and have. It doesn't do anything for me necessarily but my husband enjoys kissing, so I don't mind. December 21, 2020 at 11:32PM