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/u/TraptorKai on Nice to know that my sexuality is just a coping mechanism 🙃

*People who have casual sex exist* "Im not interested in casual sex" "Oh, wow, look at the attention seeker. You just want to medicalize everything" Good thing i dont give a fuck what people like these think. May 20, 2023 at 11:54PM

Mutual attraction confirmed, yet nothing happens

I (28f) met this guy 3 months ago through a mutual friend. I liked him and he seemed to have liked me, too. A month later I started texting him about general stuff, but since it was very smooth, I cut to the chase and asked him about a meeting. He enthusiastically agreed and the tone of the conversation immediately switched to more personal. We met, it was very nice, even romantic at times, although we didn't kiss or anything. A week passes, we text everyday, but no further plans are made, so I ask him again for a meeting, this time with a plan to state my intensions clearly. But seeing him very infatuated with me I got cold feet and decided to leave things at that. Another two weeks passed since then and he still didn't ask me to meet in person. In the meantime, however, the mutual friend went out with him and was unequivocally told, that likes me indeed, since the first time even. What do I make of it? Supposing he has serious intentions, I really dread the pace we move at

Guy asked to kiss me on the 2nd date and I let him down :/

I went on a 2nd date with this really cute guy. We were cuddling on the couch and everything and he asked to kiss me. I let him down and said it was because I was “just being awkward” and not because I didn’t want to kiss him. If I see him again, what should I say to make him know I want to kiss him and am ready? Submitted May 20, 2023 at 11:44PM I went on a 2nd date with this really cute guy. We were cuddling on the couch and everything and he asked to kiss me. I let him down and said it was because I was “just being awkward” and not because I didn’t want to kiss him. If I see him again, what should I say to make him know I want to kiss him and am ready?

Does she want me or she just likes being around me??

I’m 21m and also in college. There’s a particular girl I’m cool with buh she gives me this weird vibe. We don’t have the best convos in person and on phone but every time she meets me she hugs me and look straight into my eyes with a smile and starts a convo. Also she comes to me whenever she sees me and likes being around me but actually I don’t do much when she’s around me like I’m barely even trying. I don’t know if she’s into me but doesn’t want to say or what :/ Submitted May 20, 2023 at 11:58PM I’m 21m and also in college. There’s a particular girl I’m cool with buh she gives me this weird vibe. We don’t have the best convos in person and on phone but every time she meets me she hugs me and look straight into my eyes with a smile and starts a convo. Also she comes to me whenever she sees me and likes being around me but actually I don’t do much when she’s around me like I’m barely even trying. I don’t know if she’s into me but doesn’t want to say or what :/

Why don't guys ever approach me..how can I change this?

I am overweight. And I am trying to lose weight, but food addiction is something I struggle with. Nevertheless, I truly think I am pretty (my parents and older folks in church been calling me beautiful since i was young). My therapist said i look nice too...but men never approach me at any places I go to... What can I do aside from losing weight to get professional men to approach me at events and open venues like wineries? Submitted May 21, 2023 at 12:01AM I am overweight. And I am trying to lose weight, but food addiction is something I struggle with. Nevertheless, I truly think I am pretty (my parents and older folks in church been calling me beautiful since i was young). My therapist said i look nice too...but men never approach me at any places I go to...What can I do aside from losing weight to get professional men to approach me at events and open venues like wineries?

Looking for advice on how to start dating

I 21M have really been struggling in the dating scene and really have no idea where to start. I like to think I am a good person, have a good future, and am very funny. I have had a couple girlfriends in the past and they have more fell in my lap than me actually getting them so I have no real experience in the chase. I have tried things like tinder to no real success and that is not really how I’d like to meet girls anyways. I guess I am just looking for a relationship instead of just lucking into one. I am open to answering any other questions you may have Submitted May 21, 2023 at 12:16AM I 21M have really been struggling in the dating scene and really have no idea where to start. I like to think I am a good person, have a good future, and am very funny. I have had a couple girlfriends in the past and they have more fell in my lap than me actually getting them so I have no real experience in the chase. I have tried things like tinder to no real success and that is not really