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I met a girl through some mutual friends about a month back. Prior to this weekend we were in eachothers company twice (with other people around), the last being about a week ago. Towards the end of the second time we all hung out, I asked for her number. We had chatted for awhile that day and got to know eachother a little. We had discussed how we both enjoy playing table games at the casino earlier in the conversation, and that was the "in" I used to ask for her number. I hadn't texted her at all since I got her number. Well I won money at the casino Saturday night and was in a great mood and decided to text her. I left the casino at 2 am, so keep in mind that I texted her about 2:15 am... I expressed excitement that I won and told her I was looking forward to when we could go together. That was it. She responded almost immediately and she asked about the night. I gave her a few more details and she congratulated me and asked me if I wanted to come over. So I went over...

I'm not even gonna be humble this time. I'm good looking. Fit body. Athletic. The problem I know is that I have a nice guy complex that i can't break. Like, I'm nervous to ask girls out cause of two things. One I dont want them to think im creepy. Two, maybe im scared of rejection. It doesn't help that the main places I go are the gym and work. two places where it's frowned upon to be a flirt. Also, at the gym, im just trying to do my own shit. I used to work at a bar as a bartender/server, but i never wanted to put my job in jeopardy by flirting there either, so I lost that chance too. Also, all the coworkers there were people i didnt want to date, cause i knew the type of people they were. In university, i lived at home and commuted. i was pissed off about that and made it affect my social life, so i just kept the friends i had from highschool and didnt branch out much. I missed out on the "Uni Life" i wish i had. So now I'm here, a good loo...

I met this guy, let's call him T, one month ago at a mutual friend's party. Although I was not planning to meet someone new because I just finished a relationship, but we immediately hit it off, dancing, touching each other, talking. We then moved to a club together and he tried to kiss me, but I rejected him, to which he responded that he thought I was into him. I told him that I thought I was but I just finished a relationship with someone else, so I didn't feel right kissing him. I left the club and didn't hear from him until he invited my friend to his party at his apartment, and his friend invited me along too. At this party he introduced me to his other friends, and I chatted with some of them, not really spending much time with T. Until at the end when mostly everyone left, he injured himself cleaning up. I stayed and helped him clean up the blood, and everyone left. Then we ended up laying in bed together, and he tried to make a move again. This time I kissed ...

r/suddenlycommunist September 24, 2019 at 12:14AM

Hahaha yeah I’ve never been able to relate. Quickest way to kill a convo with me is to start ranting about how long it’s been since they had sex and how they need some. Crickets September 24, 2019 at 12:12AM

Thank you. This is the type of writing that makes me close a book and put it back one page in. I do not care if the plot could have made up for it lol. September 24, 2019 at 12:10AM

20 something year old me doesn’t give a crap about the jerks from high school. Yeah, it can feel like death to live it. School can be a fucking prison. But if anything, stick it out for your future self. I’m really grateful 14 yr old me did. September 24, 2019 at 12:04AM

this is true for pretty much everyone at 14, yup. it gets better. September 24, 2019 at 12:03AM

Asexuality is as much a spectrum in itself as the whole spectrum of sexual attraction in general; you can still be interested in using your bits for pleasure even if you're not attracted to someone, and you can still be sex-repulsed. You may float a little on the grey side for a bit, and float further into the pure ace side for a bit. Using the term "asexual" is really only a label that helps you define who you are, if it applies to you. Feel free to experiment around all the different types of asexuality that exist too, you might find something that works better as a label for you. Personally, I don't find other people sexually attractive at all, and yet things have shifted recently with one individual in particular that made me question if I'm further on the Demi/Grey side than I originally thought. These things can shift over time and depending on your circumstances, so feel free to reevaluate your labels anytime you need to :) Hope that helps! Septemb...

Got this from my stepdad literally a couple days ago. Blech. At least my mom (who knows I'm ace) stepped in and said "maybe she's not interested in that stuff!" So annoying. Wish they'd mind their own beeswax. September 24, 2019 at 12:00AM

As my title says , yes I am. With an old love, old feeling. For some reason it just sparked again like a flowers blooming in April. I’m not sure and how did this happened but all the negative feelings I have for him turned upside down or should I say the other side of it. I feel so much love in my heart and my head full of happy thoughts. Am I dreaming or what? Is this for real? Anyhows, I enjoy this positive feelings and hopefully it stays forever. I love him to death.... 💖 Wish he has a reddit account too. (Wishful thinking) ... Submitted September 23, 2019 at 11:24PM As my title says , yes I am. With an old love, old feeling. For some reason it just sparked again like a flowers blooming in April. I’m not sure and how did this happened but all the negative feelings I have for him turned upside down or should I say the other side of it. I feel so much love in my heart and my head full of happy thoughts. Am I dreaming or what? Is this for real? Anyhows, I enjoy this positive fe...

I was living in upstate New York after college and ended up falling in love with my neighbor. Around the time we started dating, I got offered a much better job in finance in NYC and left about a month and a half later. We did long distance for about 3 months, but when we rationalized that we would be stuck in this situation indefinitely, the relationship fell apart. I’m 22, so I know it would be foolish to put such an excellent opportunity on hold for someone else (god forbid I rejected the offer and the relationship didn’t work out) My only fear is that I’ll never have the same kind of connection with someone and ultimately regret leaving. Has anyone ever found themselves in a similar situation? Would be interested in hearing how you decided to rationalize/cope with the uncertainty. Submitted September 23, 2019 at 11:26PM I was living in upstate New York after college and ended up falling in love with my neighbor. Around the time we started dating, I got offered a much bette...

Met this girl, we connected and hung out for the remainder of the night. I kissed her and got her number. Texted her the next day for awhile until she ghosted me when I asked her out. Saw her the next weekend after that and she apologized to me saying she had just broken up with her boyfriend and it was bad timing but she wanted to give it a shot with me. We hung out all night long and danced and made out a lot. I dropped her off and she kissed me goodbye and texted me afterward. Now we’ve been chatting for a couple days and I’m reluctant to ask her to hangout again. What do I do? Submitted September 23, 2019 at 11:33PM Met this girl, we connected and hung out for the remainder of the night. I kissed her and got her number. Texted her the next day for awhile until she ghosted me when I asked her out. Saw her the next weekend after that and she apologized to me saying she had just broken up with her boyfriend and it was bad timing but she wanted to give it a shot with me. We hung...

Hi all, this is my first time posting here and I'm (21f) using a throwaway as my partner (22m) follows my main. So basically he found my account and followed me roughly 2-3 months ago, but refused to give me his username when I said I wanted to return follow. I just found his account on a sub we both frequent and of course took the deep dive into his account (was really curious considering he wouldn't give me his @). I found posts from about 4 years ago, we've been together for 3, talking about how could he manipulate the girls he was talking to into wanting him, using them to increase his SMV, building his collection of plates and threatening to spread their nudes because they were talking about him. I've known from the beginning parts of our relationship would be rocky due to his preference of logic over emotion in almost everything. I've never thought that he ever thought in such a manipulative or honestly kind of disgusting way. I love this man so much, we'...

So i'm 18 years old,just started University,i have been in 1 relationship so far,so i get really nervous when I have to ask someone out,but there's this girl in my class (who is 19) who I want to ask out. I only spoke to her about a week ago once,when we had like a "class-meetup" and we only had like small-talks,nothing really interesting,so basically I don't know her like at all,we only know each other's name's,but that's it basically,but even from those couple minutes we talked with each other, She just gave me that vibe,that she's a really cool,down to earth kind of girl,she's also really pretty,and i really want to get to know her,and ask her out on a date,but i don't know how to. I don't even know if She would be interested in me at all,i don't even know if we share any interests or anything,and i don't know if just randomly walking up to her after class to ask her out is a good idea,and when I see her she's usually wi...

I recently met this girl through some friends that I'm pretty into. We have an awesome connection and have a great time hanging out a couple of times so far. I could definitely see myself dating her more seriously but I'm a little concerned... She has a history of getting together with guys and having a fling with them and then dumping them out of nowhere is the gist I'm getting. Some of them seem to be casual hookups she discards after a bit, some are more like a relationship that have lasted up to three months. What's going on with people that are like that? What does that say about them if anything? If you're able to relate at all, can you give some insight? Submitted September 23, 2019 at 11:43PM I recently met this girl through some friends that I'm pretty into. We have an awesome connection and have a great time hanging out a couple of times so far. I could definitely see myself dating her more seriously but I'm a little concerned...She has a ...

So I've been dating this woman (24) for almost two months exactly and her birthday is coming up very soon. I want to get her something (as opposed to nothing) to show I'm thoughtful, but I don't want to go overboard or spend more than, idk, $50. We are dating exclusively and have been seeing each other a lot (3 times per week). I feel like a mushy card might also be overboard, but should I get her a card at all? What about the gift? Submitted September 23, 2019 at 11:43PM So I've been dating this woman (24) for almost two months exactly and her birthday is coming up very soon. I want to get her something (as opposed to nothing) to show I'm thoughtful, but I don't want to go overboard or spend more than, idk, $50. We are dating exclusively and have been seeing each other a lot (3 times per week). I feel like a mushy card might also be overboard, but should I get her a card at all? What about the gift?

OK HERES THE TEA GUYS! Every thursday I have a bio lab class which lasts about 2 hours and 50 minutes. On my first day I was randomly assigned to this guy who I think is super cute. We really hit it off on our first day working together. He smiles at me a lot and I catch him looking at me sometimes. We joke around a lot as well and exchanged numbers to work on lab homework together. When our first lab session ended I packed up my things and left (basically didn't wait for him ). The next week same situation happened, more laughing, talking, doing the lab, and basically asking personal questions about each other back and forth. During the end of our second lab session he stalled around and waited for me to pack up my things and we walked out together and went our separate ways. Two days before our third lab session we had to work on our lab presentation so we agreed that since we could not meet, we will both individually do the presentation and then submit either one. I ended up d...

To start, I am an optimist and I really believe in the 1% chance of something happening. I always go for the 1% chance because it is really everything I want and in the end, I think it’ll all be worth it. Something like Jim and Pam (from the Office) being together and everything turning out well in the end. I know it’s just a TV show and it’s not real. It’s having that constant hope. It’s like it’s a double-edged sword where I hope for things that prob won’t happen but it’s the same hope that ultimately leads to disappointment. I’m not someone to settle for something. Now, I have this false hope where this girl I’ve been talking to got into a relationship (honestly, bad timing) and I hope to be with her in the end. It’s just how I naturally think. Do things just naturally end w/ disappointment when you have hope for everything? What should I do or how should I go about this? Any advice, things you have to say or really anything is appreciated. thanks reddit :) Submitted Septembe...

It’s a looong story bear with me fellas. Im F17, and he is M17. So me and this guy Kyle met through a school trip at the beginning of this year, and we instantly started to like each other. We talked and became close friends and ended up hanging out quite a bit. After a few months I ended up telling him I liked him. He said he felt the same but couldn’t have a relationship atm. I assumed he just lost interest and moved on and got over him. Then, a month ago he confessed to still liking me and apologized for leading me on before. Without asking me if I still liked him, he just assumed that I did, and said that he was heartbroken that a relationship likely won’t work out btw us. (Both our parents don’t allow us to date til we’re older, and my religion is a deal breaker for his parents..) I panicked and told him I still liked him too. I’m unsure if I truly like him but I can say that I can talk to him about literally anything and he helps me with my problems, which I love because I don’t...

I know this sounds weird and like why would a middle/high school student post on hear I just need help I’m a very introverted person so the people I am friends with and have crushes on I’m very close to But the problem is I really like this girl she funny knows what I’m into and she accepts them and even jokes around with me but one of my best friends is her Ex They were in a long relationship and had strong feelings for each other until they had a fight and broke up I know she doesn’t have feelings for him as her friends have told me but I know he still really likes her Another problem is I’m scared to tell her as I’m introverted and a massive procrastinator and Ive had problems telling girls in the past So if I can have some help through both of these I would really like the help and guidance Submitted September 24, 2019 at 12:02AM I know this sounds weird and like why would a middle/high school student post on hear I just need help I’m a very introverted person so the people ...

Basically, I attend a relatively small graduate college. This girl keeps making awkward eye contact with me for the past month. Last week, I met her in a group setting and we didn’t introduce ourselves. Then today, I was waiting in line and the awkward girl who was in front of me kept looking back at me. While waiting in line, One of my friends who is also a girl and attractive came up to me and started a brief conversation. During this,the awkward girl began to listen to my conversation. Once my friend left the awkward eye girl came up to me and introduced herself. She opened up with we kinda hung out last week in the group setting. Overall, I can’t tell if she’s being nice or if she’s genuinely interested in me despite never really having a conversation. I want to ask her for her number but I’m not sure about how she feels about that, especially since I don’t really have any opportunities to interact with her on campus. Submitted September 24, 2019 at 12:05AM Basically, I atte...