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Hi ! so i (F19) am starting to be more intimate with my bf (M19). I have given bjs to other guys before but never to the point where they cum. i’m scared that if I start giving a bj to my boyfriend and he cums i’ll be disgusted by it or have a gag reflex or what not. i don’t know what to do about it and how to « prevent » any bad thing from happening. any advice is welcome! thank youuu Submitted January 11, 2020 at 09:23PM Hi ! so i (F19) am starting to be more intimate with my bf (M19). I have given bjs to other guys before but never to the point where they cum. i’m scared that if I start giving a bj to my boyfriend and he cums i’ll be disgusted by it or have a gag reflex or what not. i don’t know what to do about it and how to « prevent » any bad thing from happening. any advice is welcome! thank youuu

ok so i had my first kiss with my bf today which turned into a make out session and i was honestly ashamed at how bad i was anyone have any good advice? Submitted January 11, 2020 at 09:24PM ok so i had my first kiss with my bf today which turned into a make out session and i was honestly ashamed at how bad i was anyone have any good advice?

I'm asking on virtually every level, physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, what in your experience is something that makes someone a good lover? Submitted January 11, 2020 at 09:26PM I'm asking on virtually every level, physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, what in your experience is something that makes someone a good lover?

Straight male (27) here wants to try it with the wife (25) in the future. who has tried it? how does it feel for a woman? how does it feel for the guys involved? Would you do it again? dad you plan it out or was it spontaneous? Submitted January 11, 2020 at 09:31PM Straight male (27) here wants to try it with the wife (25) in the future. who has tried it? how does it feel for a woman? how does it feel for the guys involved? Would you do it again? dad you plan it out or was it spontaneous?

Long story but basically I’ve been talking to this guy via a Facebook group for about a month (as we share a mutual health issue). Things became flirty recently. We are both going on a night out in another city with the Facebook group and meeting everyone from the group for the first time. We have decided to meet up a few hours before and go together so we won’t have to go by ourselves. This is gonna be in a months time. Today things escalated and we ended up sexting, sending pictures and basically saying we couldn’t wait to have sex with each other. The problem is now I’m worried that he will only see me that way and won’t respect me. I don’t want him to think of me a certain way and I don’t want our relationship to be purely sexual. I don’t want a one night stand, they make me feel bad about myself. I guess I’m worried we will have sex then he might loose interest. We live an hour and half away from each other anyway. Does anyone have any tips on how to control myself? I don’t t...

So I have a really small mouth and my jaw also sometimes clicks which makes it really hard to give head. My partner says he’s totally fine with it and rarely asks for one but I can never do it for a long time without it starting to become uncomfortable for me. I feel like less of a women honestly. I want to pleasure my partner and I feel like if I can’t give blowjobs that I’m not good enough. Does anyone have some tips for me? I know it’s something I also need to work on for myself and know I am still good enough but sometimes it’s hard... Submitted January 11, 2020 at 09:36PM So I have a really small mouth and my jaw also sometimes clicks which makes it really hard to give head. My partner says he’s totally fine with it and rarely asks for one but I can never do it for a long time without it starting to become uncomfortable for me. I feel like less of a women honestly. I want to pleasure my partner and I feel like if I can’t give blowjobs that I’m not good enough. Does anyone h...

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i’ve recently been given the opportunity to have regular sex and sexual encounters with a friend of mine. i feel mentally ready, but i get so flustered that i chicken out last minute. i really want to be able to comfortably do it with him but i’m a little scared. any advice on how to get over this? Submitted January 11, 2020 at 09:39PM i’ve recently been given the opportunity to have regular sex and sexual encounters with a friend of mine. i feel mentally ready, but i get so flustered that i chicken out last minute. i really want to be able to comfortably do it with him but i’m a little scared. any advice on how to get over this?

So me (m23) and my gf (f 22) have been dating for 5yrs and the sex has progressively gotten more and more boring. She kinda just lays there and expects me to do all the work, this has led to me being very bored with sex and have lost all the excitement it use to being. I have brought this to her attention but she just gets angry and sad, so it is hard to have a honest and constructive conversation with her. It has gotten to the point that point where I don't even cum anymore as I'm just not enjoying it. She always cums and then just rolls over and goes to sleep or gets on her phone. Does anyone have any experience or advice that may help? Sorry if this sounds like me just whining and bitching. Submitted January 11, 2020 at 09:40PM So me (m23) and my gf (f 22) have been dating for 5yrs and the sex has progressively gotten more and more boring. She kinda just lays there and expects me to do all the work, this has led to me being very bored with sex and have lost all the e...

I’m not talking about super high but only a mild head high. The reason for this is because I tend to bust fast af when I have sex sober. However if I’m high I can last as long as I want. Luckily my gf is also a heavy weed smoker so it wouldn’t be weird to be high most of the time we are together I was thinking of carrying a weed pen with me that I can smoke out of occasionally when I’m with my gf so that if both of us get horny we can immediately start having sex without me needing to worry. Is this sustainable ? The carts aren’t too expensive and if I use them only for the purposes I’ve outlined they should last a while so it’s not a problem. Submitted January 11, 2020 at 09:40PM I’m not talking about super high but only a mild head high.The reason for this is because I tend to bust fast af when I have sex sober. However if I’m high I can last as long as I want.Luckily my gf is also a heavy weed smoker so it wouldn’t be weird to be high most of the time we are togetherI was...

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I love gay porn. It turns me on so much to see man on man action. I haven't really told anyone about it but im curious to see what y'all think. Submitted January 11, 2020 at 09:40PM I love gay porn. It turns me on so much to see man on man action. I haven't really told anyone about it but im curious to see what y'all think.

So I (f30) met this guy (m40) on Tinder last month. We had been chatting the whole time, and then earlier this week it got dirty. He even talked about taking me out, staying at his place, etc. He invited over to his place on Wednesday, and we began to hook up. It was going great until he penetrated me and I began to bleed profusely. We stopped, he helped me clean up, and after apologizing I left. We met up again at a neutral location on Friday so he could give me something I accidentally left at his place, and I asked if he wanted to get together. He politely declined, saying he wanted to make sure I was fully healed before we did anything. I said fair enough, but I could help get him off if he wanted. Again he declined, saying it would be more fun if we could do it together. Cool. So today I begin messaging him again just to talk like before and he's been giving me one word answers as responses. He could be having an off day or something, but every time I've been ghosted it...

A cute guy changed my tire at work today because I didn't know how. I always thought he was cute and we've been talking, but watching him change that tire for me was one of the sexiest things ever. The same guy also stood up for a coworker against a bitchy assistant manager, and it was a huge turn on. In high-school when I sprained an ankle while on the track, one of the football players scooped me without a second thought and carried me like a princess to the nurses office. Aside from my ankle hurting like a bitch and me crying a little, it was one of the hottest things ever looking back. I really appreciate men who help me, even when I don't have a thing for them. But if a guy I'm attracted to does manly stuff like above, I almost lose my mind. My body also goes weak around handsome men. Like, if they were they to pick me up and carry me off, they would be able to do anything they wanted to me and my body wouldn't let me stop it. It's kind of scary really. ...

So I've had this problem lately where I've been coming way too fast. I used to think i was so good and i could control my orgasm while having sex, and i did. But recently, i got really busy with work and instead of taking my time masturbating i would masturbate really fast and go to sleep. And now I'm noticing difference in my sex life. My partner is understanding fortunately so she doesn't care but i feel bad, like i was about to cum as we started having sex and it doesn't make sense. I was masturbating right now and i literally couldn't control how fast i came and it's ridiculous. Help me out here. Submitted January 11, 2020 at 11:51PM So I've had this problem lately where I've been coming way too fast. I used to think i was so good and i could control my orgasm while having sex, and i did. But recently, i got really busy with work and instead of taking my time masturbating i would masturbate really fast and go to sleep. And now I'm not...

Hey everyone. I’m 18 and I’m starting my first real relationship. I’ve been really self conscious forever about myself for a while. Last night me and my somewhat gf (not official but exclusive) were both naked and I was really turned on and had a strong erection. As soon as I went to put on the condom and was knowing I’m about to lose my virginity I went soft right away. I don’t know what my problem is but I tried a few times after and it wasn’t working. I think I’m just really nervous but i don’t know what to do. We built up to it too and didn’t just hop right into sex. I’m just wondering how to get over this. I really like this girl and I don’t want to ruin this because I’m to self conscious :( even if there is like a pill or something just for the first time because I’m sure once it happens I’ll be okay and not nervous. Submitted January 11, 2020 at 11:53PM Hey everyone. I’m 18 and I’m starting my first real relationship. I’ve been really self conscious forever about myself f...

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My husband and I purchased a variety of toys 2 weeks ago and have had sex a few times since we have gotten them but we both get shy and aren’t sure how to start using them. How do my fellow couples use sex toys together? Submitted January 12, 2020 at 12:02AM My husband and I purchased a variety of toys 2 weeks ago and have had sex a few times since we have gotten them but we both get shy and aren’t sure how to start using them. How do my fellow couples use sex toys together?

I can't believe I didn't know about this. I can't believe its not common knowledge, I was literally writhing. I need every man to try this, I feel like I need to go in the streets and preach the gospel of male Hitachi wand use. It was incredible. Submitted January 12, 2020 at 12:11AM I can't believe I didn't know about this. I can't believe its not common knowledge, I was literally writhing. I need every man to try this, I feel like I need to go in the streets and preach the gospel of male Hitachi wand use. It was incredible.

It is important to note that I am not referring to open or polyamorous relationships because those terms typically, or at least often, imply emotional bonds with other people. I am referring to a relationship in which a man is completely monogamous to you, while what you have with other men is just about sex. I would not want my partner to have an emotional connection to any other man having sex with her. Nor is it the case that I would prefer to be with other women. I would be both sexually and emotionally monogamous to my partner, as long as we are emotionally exclusive. Given the ubiquity and social acceptance of casual sex, coupled with the ability of highly desirable males to have casual sex without commitment, it seems that the difficulty for women of finding high-value mates when they are younger is becoming increasingly difficult. In light of this, is a relationship in which a man is completely monogamous to you while you have the freedom to have sex with other men something...

So I[M21] met this girl on Tinder and we had our first date like a week ago. I realized that she's[F19] not like the other girls I dated before. She seems much more down to earth and innocent. She openly told me that it was her first ever dating experience and that she's afraid to take initiative so her mom kinda forced her to go on Tinder. And she wasn't embraced by her mom picking her up after the date. We really clicked on the first date and we're going on a second date in a few days. I dated before and usual I kiss a girl either on the first or second date and have sex a few dates later. Knowing that this was her first dating experience I didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable or rush things, so I didn't kiss her. From my previous dating experience kissing happens quite naturally and you feel there's a moment when you kiss, But I'm afraid that because she doesn't have any dating experience this will not happen so naturally.... Submitted...

I normally date older men but recently met a younger man I am interested in. I’m 35 f, he’s 33. Not much younger but still generally don’t even date my age. For a guy, he’s quite emotional. I find this to be a very good quality but can be challenging at times, since I’m not used to it or a guy expressing much. Any advice on how to date an emotional man? Submitted January 11, 2020 at 11:51PM I normally date older men but recently met a younger man I am interested in. I’m 35 f, he’s 33. Not much younger but still generally don’t even date my age. For a guy, he’s quite emotional. I find this to be a very good quality but can be challenging at times, since I’m not used to it or a guy expressing much. Any advice on how to date an emotional man?