I’ve been focusing on myself and started to improve by a year. but notice that some girls be checking me out or I notice them first, I feel like want start something or approach them but I feel like if I start a relationship with them I be too busy focusing on the relationship and then myself and it will halt my progression, I’m really stuck on if I should stay single to improve or miss out opportunities to start something, what should I do? Submitted May 06, 2023 at 01:14AM I’ve been focusing on myself and started to improve by a year. but notice that some girls be checking me out or I notice them first, I feel like want start something or approach them but I feel like if I start a relationship with them I be too busy focusing on the relationship and then myself and it will halt my progression, I’m really stuck on if I should stay single to improve or miss out opportunities to start something, what should I do?

Oh, gross. I'm linking Facebook... Oh well. This lady here is a semi famous meme. May 06, 2023 at 12:07AM

Hello Everyone. Can someone please help me? I have been on Tinder and Bumble to many months but I can't seem to get any woman to meet me in person. I do not think I am a bad looking guy. For some reason, I can't seem to get any woman to meet me anywhere. It is so extremely frustrating. Submitted May 06, 2023 at 12:11AM Hello Everyone. Can someone please help me? I have been on Tinder and Bumble to many months but I can't seem to get any woman to meet me in person. I do not think I am a bad looking guy. For some reason, I can't seem to get any woman to meet me anywhere. It is so extremely frustrating.

I’ve (M21) been texting this girl (F20) for the past 4 months now. We met on Hinge and have been texting everyday, but it’s never progressed further than that. No phone calls, FaceTime, nothing. I asked if she would be interested in getting together soon, and she said it would be fun, but after she’s done with school in late May. I want to try and move things along, but I don’t know how or if I should. She’s a junior premed student and involved with some other clubs, so she’s very busy, and I’m worried that she’ll see me asking about relationship stuff and where she sees us going as unneeded stress put onto her plate. I want to have some sort of indication from her that she’s still interested and not just texting me to be polite. I sent her a text a few days ago about how I know she’s busy with school and stressed about her workload, but she’ll do just fine and will ace her work, as well as saying how much I enjoy talking to her and genuinely enjoy our conversations. Her reply was “

Indian American here. May 05, 2023 at 11:18PM

Honestly imo it depends. Because usually I am the one being asked "are you asexual or something?" Because I cannot hide my face of discomfort when convos are only of sexual nature. But in your case I feel its more of a case of "nice guys" wanting to just pressure you. In which case (based on real experience) best thing to do is just say "can we not?" And not elaborate further. Because its a lose lose when dealing with nice guys. They will pretend to be accepting at first before they slip the famous "You just havent met the right guy" narrative we all know and hate. So just cutting it short with a "can we not?" Like shows off your boundries real quick and if they dont like that they can fuck off. May 05, 2023 at 11:12PM