So me (23M) and this girl (21F) matched on tinder about a month ago and over the last two weeks we have started to have frequent voice and facetime calls aswell as playing games with eachother. We also recently met for the first time when i went to see her gig and we hung out after. She however recently told me she wanted to take it slow due to how her past relationships panned out. I really like this girl and feel that she likes me back. Im more than happy to wait, (She told me she would want a couple months of talking until she went on a first date with anyone) i am worried that ill end up in the friendzone. Submitted June 20, 2022 at 01:05AM So me (23M) and this girl (21F) matched on tinder about a month ago and over the last two weeks we have started to have frequent voice and facetime calls aswell as playing games with eachother. We also recently met for the first time when i went to see her gig and we hung out after. She however recently told me she wanted to take it slow

I (21F) am head over heels for him (22M). Never felt that way with anyone else. I want to get to know him better and definitely want him around, but I also really like being single. I like not having to be accountable to anyone, I don’t want hour-long phone calls or good morning texts but when I’m at dinner, I want to look up from my phone and see his smiling face. I want to sit in the park and listen to him rant about his problems but I also want to go home and have some time to myself. This is my very long-winded way of saying I want to have something that’s not as intense as a relationship but more than casual dating but without losing my privacy, alone time and free will or having to compromise on shit like what to have for dinner. Is this possible at all? How do I tell him this without sounding like a complete self centered asshole Submitted June 20, 2022 at 01:11AM I (21F) am head over heels for him (22M). Never felt that way with anyone else. I want to get to know him b

Oh, my, this exact thing. When I was having the "hey, I'm ace" conversation with my ex, she immediately jumped to "oh, so I'll just have sex with other people, cool". And like, I, as in me in particular, am very polyamorous and open relationships and all that, but she had no way of knowing that? (we immediately started dating after meeting for the first time). I can't imagine how devastated I would have felt if I was monogamous. That's just... there are so many ways to solve this issue without the first one being "sex with strangers" June 20, 2022 at 12:37AM

I tried my dating profiles with liberal, conservative and non-affiliated. I get tons of matches if I call myself liberal because on paper I'm pretty attractive. Inevitably when politics come up the conversation almost always escalates into an argument with the woman attacking me(lol). I live in PDX area and I am wondering how different it will be in other areas of the country. I suspect it will be better anywhere but LA/SF, Seattle or NYC but I appreciate others opinions. Submitted June 20, 2022 at 12:15AM I tried my dating profiles with liberal, conservative and non-affiliated. I get tons of matches if I call myself liberal because on paper I'm pretty attractive. Inevitably when politics come up the conversation almost always escalates into an argument with the woman attacking me(lol).I live in PDX area and I am wondering how different it will be in other areas of the country. I suspect it will be better anywhere but LA/SF, Seattle or NYC but I appreciate others opinio

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