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Messed up again with my crush

So I sent a voice note and I somewhat said, I really don't know why I said it but it was "yeah that's bad, is it really (persons name)" and she went did you really say my name . Then she went sad and stopped replying to me saying she wanted to go to bed. We were talking about her past experiences with boys and that happened and she got mad at me. She said she doesn't feel very appreciated and that she is tired of making all the moves, which she did to get my attention. I don't know what to do because I'm not dating her and I am in another country because of vacation. She said she wanted some alone time and left my message on seen. I don't want to lose her because I already screwed by saying another gurls name than hers and she forgave me on that. I don't know what to do Submitted May 17, 2023 at 11:51PM So I sent a voice note and I somewhat said, I really don't know why I said it but it was "yeah that's bad, is it really (person...

How do you guys go the gym while your life is falling apart or there is chaos?

I got some terrible news today. And today was the day I was going to try to go thirty minutes on the treadmill without stopping. Made it to 6 before I started to tear up a little bit. Just wanted to ask. Submitted May 17, 2023 at 11:51PM I got some terrible news today. And today was the day I was going to try to go thirty minutes on the treadmill without stopping. Made it to 6 before I started to tear up a little bit. Just wanted to ask.

17M and 17F

I have been dating the girl I dreamed of for 5 months and I have a problem. I have a 50/50 chance of puking before I see her and sometimes when I see her due to anxiety. Usually I have a way higher chance of puking if I have food in my stomach. I also am not able to have s* because of my performance anxiety and I just go soft. It's horrible. I can't break up with her b/c she's so sweet it would destroy me to see her heartbroken. How can I fix this? Someone help. Submitted May 17, 2023 at 11:53PM I have been dating the girl I dreamed of for 5 months and I have a problem. I have a 50/50 chance of puking before I see her and sometimes when I see her due to anxiety. Usually I have a way higher chance of puking if I have food in my stomach. I also am not able to have s* because of my performance anxiety and I just go soft. It's horrible. I can't break up with her b/c she's so sweet it would destroy me to see her heartbroken. How can I fix this? Someonehelp.

Did I Miss Something?

So today, after a tennis match with my high school team, we went out to get CFA. I’m waiting in line & a girl in front of me (who’s with her friends/teammates) turns around and asks me if I’m on a sports team, and if so, what type. I tell her the team, ask her about her sports team (lacrosse), and talk a bit more about the games we’ve played. I’m kind of new to the whole dating thing, but was she giving me a hint to ask for her number or just being friendly? Thanks for the advice! Submitted May 17, 2023 at 11:55PM So today, after a tennis match with my high school team, we went out to get CFA. I’m waiting in line & a girl in front of me (who’s with her friends/teammates) turns around and asks me if I’m on a sports team, and if so, what type. I tell her the team, ask her about her sports team (lacrosse), and talk a bit more about the games we’ve played. I’m kind of new to the whole dating thing, but was she giving me a hint to ask for her number or just being friendly? Th...

How to cancel on a clingy Hinge date

TLDR: I have a 'date' with a girl from Hinge who lives an hour and a half away. We scheduled a date already but I'm no longer comfortable with meeting up, so I want to cancel- but she's bringing her two friends that are a couple for a double date and I don't want to ruin her friends' time. I matched with a girl on Hinge (we're both college-aged, I'm in uni and she's not), who lives roughly an hour and a half away. We were texting for quite a while and I was genuinely expressing quite a bit of interest in her hobbies- eventually we ended up calling for several hours. I did enjoy talking to her, but it was slightly off putting when she started texting me pretty often- she'd text me things like "yippee I'm now going to get dinner" or "i am getting ready for work", followed up by "i am heading to work yippee" and then multiple consecutive texts about how her shift at work was going. I said I had class every day and...

/u/MaryMary8249 on Alright, I'm confused

I've seen so many of these quizzes! o yo uknow the link?? May 17, 2023 at 11:04PM

/u/In_the_sun_swimming on How should I respond? (MAYBE discourse idk)

It’s probably not worth engaging with someone who is determined to misunderstand you and not accept that romantic attraction and sexual attraction are different things, and also that it’s possible for one to not experience sexual attraction to anyone May 17, 2023 at 11:03PM