Yeah the only real reason to make your intentions clear is as a politeness to him and so there are no misunderstandings if you value him as a friend/person. Some people would feel very upset and used to find that someone just wanted to try sex out and used them for that, especially if they were hoping it could turn into something more. Some people feel used and upset just over one night stands in general. That doesn’t sound like this situation but with something so intimate It’s best to be clear and make sure you don’t hurt anyone. It doesn’t need to be a long conversation just a quick clarification that can be made during the consent part of the conversation. It also makes thing less stressful the next day and you don’t have to worry about ‘what is this’ vibes. The other comments have good advice too 👍 June 03, 2020 at 12:03AM

I just found this thread. You are a fabulous human. Thank you! June 02, 2020 at 11:42PM

As a Christian I wish being ace made you a priest June 02, 2020 at 11:42PM

IMO as a (now) 25 year old ace, it's never too early to decide what you are. You may change your mind, you may discover something about yourself and decide you fit into some other label better, but that's the thing about labeling yourself: the only person who it really matters to is you. Most people in the world don't care if you're straight, or gay, or bi, or ace, or whatever. Most people will give you a passing "Oh, okay." And move on. So there's no reason you can't decide now - the person it matters most to is you, and what most likely matters to you is that you feel you have something representative of yourself (if only for now and not always). Personally? While I didn't know about the label at the time, I was pretty certain I was "different" than most others by the time I was like, 10. I didn't develop crushes, I didn't really have any kinds of feelings for anybody outside of just wanting to be friends, etc. etc. This conti...

That's up to the person! Asexual only has to do with sexual desire, and some aces certainly love to kiss/be kissed. As with most things, everyone is different and what one person loves, another might hate. June 02, 2020 at 11:39PM

Kissing has nothing to do with your sexual orientations. Some people like it, some don't. You can be hetero, homo, ace, bi, etc and like kissing... Or not. It's just a personal preference. Personally, I find it gross. June 02, 2020 at 11:39PM

:0 it's a me June 02, 2020 at 11:39PM

Depends on the person, but a lot of people do. June 02, 2020 at 11:38PM

Aces can still want and have sex even. All it means is they lack sexual attraction. I would say it depends on the asexual. June 02, 2020 at 11:38PM

So talented! Teach me your ways! June 02, 2020 at 11:37PM

Ah yes, priests, that historically celibate group who have never once, say, been involved in the systematic sexual abuse of children. June 02, 2020 at 11:33PM

Oh that’s alright! I’ll just admire it on here then 😌✨ June 02, 2020 at 11:23PM

Im a guy who doesnt like sex or masturbation and i honestly didnt know this was a thing June 02, 2020 at 11:21PM

aaa sorry, but it's a drawing of me so i'd prefer not to ; w ; June 02, 2020 at 11:18PM

Ah yes my favourite orientation. Foot fetish June 02, 2020 at 11:17PM

Whaaat? Kinks are orientations? But some kinks develop over time... Sometimes they are affected by our experiences... As sometimes you would never have a kink except for meeting a particular person. All that could sound similar to a sexual preference, except that the sexual preference feeds the kink, not the other way around. Also, not to be that guy, but if priests were all asexual, they'd prey on their congregation less. But it also would take much of the sacrifice out of the vow of chastity. June 02, 2020 at 11:15PM

ahdjsjjd this is so cuteee i love your artstyle <333 June 02, 2020 at 11:15PM

Super cute! Would it be alright if I use it as my pfp on discord? June 02, 2020 at 11:15PM

I think it’s really important to remember that this isn’t a one-time decision you have to make. If you feel that you are asexual, then you are. If you hit 18 or 20 or 25 or however many years old, and by then you feel that you’re something else, then you are. You get to define yourself by what you feel, and what you feel is allowed to change. June 02, 2020 at 11:13PM

This person seems like they're just full of hate. Don't listen to them. June 02, 2020 at 11:10PM

Is the mighty wizard Charlie Weasley or am I just obsessed with Harry Potter? June 02, 2020 at 11:09PM

That's a sadly popular thought, even some aces as well. Though, it seems like you're confident and know the truth. Good luck, especially with that racism thing. Sorry. June 02, 2020 at 11:07PM

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