Honestly, as someone who just separated from a 15 year marriage that was quite sexless while I have a high libido, I would have really preferred to know early on. Most people with moderate to highest sexual interest are thinking about sex with a person they’re interested in almost instantaneously so if that’s a no-go, best to lay it out upfront. September 24, 2022 at 01:06AM

I'm amab and yes September 24, 2022 at 01:06AM

We were in a situationship for four months. She ended things, and I said we didn’t need to speak anymore. I reached out for closure a week later and she didn’t respond. It’s been 6 weeks of no contact and we were at the same event and she came up to me out of nowhere and neither of us talked about the past. I made her laugh, she made me laugh, we brought up inside jokes, she hit me on the shoulder a few times, playfully kicked me, then hugged me and said she was glad to see me and talk and then left after 5 minutes. She could have ignored me completely so I’m confused after thinking we’d never speak again. What does this mean? Submitted September 24, 2022 at 01:12AM We were in a situationship for four months. She ended things, and I said we didn’t need to speak anymore. I reached out for closure a week later and she didn’t respond.It’s been 6 weeks of no contact and we were at the same event and she came up to me out of nowhere and neither of us talked about the past.I made ...

I 24 F and him 27 M have been together for 6.5 years. When he hits me (throws something at me, pushes me hard, or hurts me physically) and I hit him back (way less hard and more in a defensive way), am I being abusive or am I defending myself? He regards it as me being abusive as well even though I never initiate it and feel like I’m being gaslighted. Your thoughts? Submitted September 24, 2022 at 01:16AM I 24 F and him 27 M have been together for 6.5 years. When he hits me (throws something at me, pushes me hard, or hurts me physically) and I hit him back (way less hard and more in a defensive way), am I being abusive or am I defending myself? He regards it as me being abusive as well even though I never initiate it and feel like I’m being gaslighted. Your thoughts?

Why would she be upset with you for talking about such an important topic? September 24, 2022 at 12:25AM

29F I reconnected with a guy I know from childhood. We had an amazing first date. 4 days after we saw each other again. Spent a lot more time together and got physical. This was last Wednesday. After he dropped me off, he said we should see each other over the weekend. It bugged me I didn't hear from him that Thursday all day, given what we did. Anyways. Friday came he texted me around 9pm saying he was thinking of me with a kiss face. I say I was thinking of him too, he asks how my night is going... told him good, I had my sister visiting so I hung out with her. at this point it was about 10:30pm. He hearted the message about my night early in the morning and did not respond to other part of text when I asked "hows yours?" as in his night. No text Saturday. I was like hmm okay we were supposed to hang. Don't know if he got the impression I was busy with family. Then Sunday he texts saying "whats your week looking like. I wanna see you." I hate playing gam...