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Ended it with a FWB after 2 years and still hurting

I had a FWB for two years- i would barely call it that as we only hooked up a few times, but we texted every weekend consistently for those two years (we were long distance for most of it). He came back to my city for the summer, i was excited that id finally get to see him, and we still did our normal Saturday 2 am texting (and other stuff) but he still wouldnt meet up in person. Last week he invited me over, then changed his mind (said he wouldnt be able to perform well- he always was sounded insecure about that), then said OK lets do something tomorrow. When tomorrow came, and I asked if 5 was ok to hangout, he opened my message and never answered. I kinda lost it, asked why he was being like this etc. He responded say he was just exhausted and "recovering" from the previous night. I said "I get it, we aren't compatible, its ok, take care <3". I never got a response, until today when I go on snapchat and see that he blocked me, we were best friends on sna...

/u/Rahimus_ on Upvotes this post if you support trans rights or if you like garlic bread

I’ll assume that’s a lackluster attempt to apologise by insulting the tone of your earlier comment? July 15, 2022 at 12:00AM

How to date a passive girl

So there is this girl that I've had a crash on for like forever. I could go on and on about how much I adore and simply want her but I think we all know this feeling. Asked her out, last week she said yes. She didn't go crazy about it, she was like ok let's go out what could go wrong. So we've had 2 dates and it was awesome, we've had hour long conversations. However, although by now I wanted to get to the point where we hold hands and stuff, I didn't make any moves, which I do regret. Anyways, we met today at party and I tried to talk to her as much as possible, but she acted very passive, like we never dated and talked for hours about stuff. I felt like she is acting like she barely knows me, like we never met. I'm afraid she thinks she made a mistake by going out with me. We have a date arranged a couple of days from now. I seriously have no idea what to do. Should I make a move or just give her some space? The thing I do know is that I don't ...

Gf (f23) told me she can't finish when we have sex

Pretty much I (24m) have been dating/sleeping with my gf since the end of January of this year. She has never finished. We have talked about it and discussed about it. She pretty much only finished with 2 guys out of 14 she has slept with, one guy she only finished once they dated for 1 year, the other guy she finished 3 times in 3 years. I tried to ask and see if they did something special or position she just tells me no. I tried oral, fingering, toys etc and nothing really seems to work. Everything else is great, I'm just worried she'll get tired of having to pleasure herself in the future. She does say she loves sex and enjoys it with me and comes close to finishing but never does. My question is, is it worth staying even though the sex is kinda trash? Submitted July 15, 2022 at 12:00AM Pretty much I (24m) have been dating/sleeping with my gf since the end of January of this year. She has never finished. We have talked about it and discussed about it. She pretty muc...

is this weird?

I am 18 years old, turning 19 in a few days and i kinda have a crush on a guy who is 17. I feel weird about it because i’ve never liked anyone younger than me and i feel like that’s a big age gap considering he is going into his senior year of high school and i already graduated last year. is it weird?? Submitted July 15, 2022 at 12:11AM I am 18 years old, turning 19 in a few days and i kinda have a crush on a guy who is 17. I feel weird about it because i’ve never liked anyone younger than me and i feel like that’s a big age gap considering he is going into his senior year of high school and i already graduated last year. is it weird??

/u/OneChrononOfPlancks on is it bad to create a schedule for sex but then hide it from your allo partner so it seem like you’re spontaneously initiating it? or is it insensitive ?

Yes, I would approve of this. Boundaries are good. July 14, 2022 at 11:25PM