Am I just unlucky or is there something wrong with me?
The question is a bit rhetorical but lately I’ve been wondering. I’m 26M living in a large city in the south. I’m college educated, have a good job, own my own home, work out almost everyday, would say I’m attractive I guess. I’m social, play a lot of sports and have a large group of friends. I’ve been in therapy since early 2019 and I’m pretty consistent with it. I’ve been single since March 2020 after my last relationship ended. I took time to myself after that relationship ended and didn’t start dating until around November 2020. I’ve spent the last almost two years actively dating. I’ve used dating apps (not religiously) and been on a lot of good dates from there— it just never leads anywhere. I’ve met people through friends and activities— but it never leads anywhere. Most of the time I call it off because I don’t ~feel~ anything. Even when they have all of the things I’m looking for, are a great person and enjoy spending time with them.. I feel something missing. After all this ...