I was on my way to the library when this girl was walking towards where I was headed which was the library. We both entered the library, held the door for her, we took the elevator and I noticed that she had nice glasses. I complemented her on her glasses. She said thanks. I got to my floor which was the 3rd and she went on her way to the 5th floor. Later that week, I just finished studying at the library on the 3rd and was going to take the stairs when I see her talking to her friend. She was facing me, while her friend wasn't, I waved hi and she waved hi back and I just went on my way. A few days have gone by when I noticed that she now started studying on my floor, the 3rd and she wasn't alone, she was with a guy. I concluded that he must be her boyfriend and just moved on, but I kept seeing her on that floor and she sat with the guy at the exact spot where I waived hi to her a few weeks ago. I changed floors and started studying on the 5th floor. A few weeks have gone by ...

I (M33) have found myself in a situation where I feel I just can't go through the dating process anymore. How do I get myself to keep trying? I've gone through you're not my type, constantly being told I'm busy, to being stood up, and finally, having my time and money be wasted. Sometimes I question myself on what dating is all about. I wonder why I put myself through these ordeals. What do I do now? I just don't have it in me anymore. How do I find the will to not give up? Submitted January 04, 2020 at 12:12AM I (M33) have found myself in a situation where I feel I just can't go through the dating process anymore. How do I get myself to keep trying? I've gone through you're not my type, constantly being told I'm busy, to being stood up, and finally, having my time and money be wasted. Sometimes I question myself on what dating is all about. I wonder why I put myself through these ordeals. What do I do now? I just don't have it in me anymo...

Whenever I get a girl’s number, we usually only text until the first date. It’s kind of weird because if it’s a girl I met online, they will not even hear my voice until we meet up. Is this normal? Submitted January 04, 2020 at 12:13AM Whenever I get a girl’s number, we usually only text until the first date. It’s kind of weird because if it’s a girl I met online, they will not even hear my voice until we meet up. Is this normal?

In any post even alluding to this, you always see most women staunchly arguing against it, when even just looking at it from a simple statistic point of view, its true Women get more interest than men do more interest = more candidates more candidates = more dates more dates = more possible relationships Submitted January 04, 2020 at 12:13AM In any post even alluding to this, you always see most women staunchly arguing against it, when even just looking at it from a simple statistic point of view, its trueWomen get more interest than men domore interest = more candidatesmore candidates = more datesmore dates = more possible relationships

I’ve been seeing this guy for three months now. It wasn’t a serious relationship in the beginning, but we’ve both had the discussion and agreed to be exclusive with each other. I feel that it’s important to be clear about my needs and I’ve brought up my expectations about communication; basically, I prefer that my partner and I keep in touch. It’s a way for me to gauge someone’s interest in me. I don’t expect him to text me and keep a conversation going 24/7. He is a shift worker and has a demanding job, so I understand he’s unable to keep in touch while he’s at work. He’d make the effort to reach out to me often (at least once every day) when we first started seeing each other. He’d text me good morning or check in when he could, regardless of whether he was on or off work. It wasn’t one sided either, I’d initiate contact and check in with him as well. I’ve told him it upsets me when he reads my messages and doesn’t respond for days. He’s even told me that he doesn’t understand why ...

We aren't dating but we have plans to soon, we have never met in person before and have only spoke over text. Recently her texts have been 1 or 2 words and seem uninterested but she is dealing with stuff as she told me and she has posted about it on her social media. I told her I am here for her if she wants to talk but all she said was "thanks" and I've not messaged her since. Should I just leave her alone for now? I've already told her I'm here to help so she can always message me if she needs to and I don't really wanna message her if I'm barely gonna get a reply. Submitted January 04, 2020 at 12:19AM We aren't dating but we have plans to soon, we have never met in person before and have only spoke over text.Recently her texts have been 1 or 2 words and seem uninterested but she is dealing with stuff as she told me and she has posted about it on her social media. I told her I am here for her if she wants to talk but all she said was ...

Im just trying to gauge how well the most of women can gauge a guys interest. Cause I often wana know if /when I can offer to potential partner to hang out with me / go on a date / fling.... Submitted January 04, 2020 at 12:23AM Im just trying to gauge how well the most of women can gauge a guys interest. Cause I often wana know if /when I can offer to potential partner to hang out with me / go on a date / fling....

I've been told I'm a really good looking guy. Women often look at me, grab my biceps and my forearms. I also catch them staring at my chest when they think I'm not looking. A week ago I was at a mall. I dressed and looked my best and got lots of looks. I'm in my early 20s and there was a girl who was about 18 or 19. She was walking with her family. She got her phone out and had it in front of her like she was going to take a selfie. Her phone was perfectly in line with her face and she was walking very close to me. I wasn't moving as I was looking around. Her facial expression was just unnatural like she was trying to hide something. She then turned the camera to my face. It was there for like 2 seconds and then she moved it away and carried in walking on. There was no way she could have got a picture of anything else but my face. The camera was just took close. I didn't see her screen so I can't definitely say she took a picture of me. It did seem like ...

Alright well this is kind of a long one anyways, might be an easy answer though. Okay so about 2 days before my family visited me for the holidays I started talking to a woman (online of course), obviously we couldn’t meet up since my family was coming and she was also flying home out of state for the holidays. But we kept talking and have pretty much been texting back and forth almost every day all day. Everything appears to be good. But she doesn’t get back until Sunday and then won’t be able to go out until atleast next weekend. So in the meantime, I also have been talking with a different woman for a about a week now. Not nearly as much, only a few texts every day. But she wants to go out tonight. So my dilemma here is this, I have obviously met neither of these women yet, but the one I’ve been talking too for longer and more I really really like thus far. Does going out with someone else tonight, before I get a chance to even meet the woman I arguably like more, a bad thing? O...

I’ve been dating this man for a year and we don’t text much or communicate through phone much. Im visiting a different state rn and he didn’t come with me. At first he called me every night and would always act like I don’t wanna talk to him because I don’t call but every time I do call him he doesn’t answer. I called him three days ago and got no reply but just brushed it off the next day I sent him pictures and called got no reply the third day I start to get worried and called him about ten times and was about to text his sister to see if he was ok and he texted me back “sleeping” I sAid for three days? He said “you were busy” even though I had been trying and trying to get a hold of him. Is there any reason I shouldn’t think this man was with another woman at this point. I’m so tired of giving my precious time to any other human. Submitted January 04, 2020 at 12:34AM I’ve been dating this man for a year and we don’t text much or communicate through phone much. Im visiting a ...

Okay, this is ridiculous. But it's bothering me and it will bother you too. I got out of a long term relationship and got on the dating sites and met a guy who I started seeing in August. I knew he was a bit flaky because he's moved about 20 times and has lived all across the country, but I did that clever thing where I believed him when he said he was "here to stay". Anyhoo a few months into dating, on my birthday , he admitted he was moving 200 miles away the following week. Fair enough, I knew it was coming. I left sharpish and left his Christmas present there. (Tea pot and posh tea bags, for the curious.) The next day he texted me to say he understood and I forgot the present he bought me but he'd drop it round while I was away. I went 2000 miles away with my family for the following week to celebrate Xmas but there was no such present when I got home. I wasn't very much over the guy so I didn't text him. He texted at midnight on NYE but my friend...

There is this girl... So this began in 2016, when I was 16 years old. I randomly came across a girl's instagram profile. She had a private account so I could only see the small profile pic. I found her too unbelievably beautiful. I was mesmerized by how pretty she is. But I think that not everyone would agree. Like in my opinion pretty you know. So I dm'd her. It's now a good thing to add that I am originally from a country in the middle east, but live in a western European country. I began talking to her, I don't remember everything I said but I do remember that I ended with a stupid joke (nothing inappropriate just literally stupid). In the end she blocked me. But before she did I felt guilty about it I think. So I told my mom about it. I showed my mom the pic of the girl and her name. As it turns out, that girl's parents and my parents were old friends. They were really good friends. I have literally baby pics with this girl. I was shocked then. The weird thing ...

CHAP1 My fellow humans, I am Edwin Ostfeld, this book is not about me, or you or how to save this earth, but we all have to move forward and advance ourselves that we can be more individual, at the same time as more loving and functional humans, my guidance will only be policy, no forced choices, and very few limitation to its laws of govern, but more simple guide lines for very individual to find a place for them to live peacefully together. Because we love each other, because we are one species, and we all should be ourselves at the same time we can achieve a same goal. Now this may sound easy when you first think about it but its not, simply put that it is not as simple. Not everybody is the same and the government is all powerful so how do we change how the world works in a few steps, big steps but its just steps, take them and you are there. So, to start, we must know a person’s incentives, cause if we know what that person desire, they will do different things to reach their go...

i think i loved her too quickly and scared her off, got drunk twice over the holidays and ended up blowing up her phone about how amazing she is - i really hope i haven’t lost her. Submitted January 03, 2020 at 11:57PM i think i loved her too quickly and scared her off, got drunk twice over the holidays and ended up blowing up her phone about how amazing she is - i really hope i haven’t lost her.

Hello reddit! This is a throwaway account because we both use reddit, although I don't believe he looks at this sub often. I (23F) have been dating him (23M) for about 5 months and I am confused where I stand. We met on tinder, and became exclusive about 1 month after we met. For the most part we have had no problems and some friends have actually commented that I don't speak about him much which is not because I don't like him, it's because I honestly had no complaints about him (lol). I definitely do talk about him more with other friends though so I think it depends on the friend in question! It has been going very well and we've met each others friends and on both sides it has been very friendly. We have gone on double dates with couples from both of our friend groups and it has been really fun so far. About 4 months in, we talked about "us" and where we were, and I felt that I was ready to put a label on it, but that was because I felt that it wou...

Essentially my girlfriend has no friends. We have been together for around 5 years and ever since she got back from uni she has been struggling with the fact she has no friends here. Everybody she did know either disappeared or she grew apart from them. She had friends at uni but not many, and those who she hung out with it seemed more like a 'classmate' situation. She isn't the type to 'socialize' and it's worth noting she studied a STEM subject, and her class was all guys. This didn't bother her, nor me, but in her words she "Just wanted some girl hangouts once in a while". Anyway she got a job back in our hometown after uni, she's one of the very few females in the workplace and she has been trying to get to know some people around. Another issue she faces is they are mostly a bit older than her. She keeps saying things like "I don't find anything in common with anyone", "I want to have some girl friends", "All...

I’m 25 years old and have been with my gf for the past 2 years i love her alot and she means the world to me. Up until recently we have had a great relationship, this was untill she started a job baby sitting now what first got me suspicious was she was taking sexy underware to work every day the stuff she only used to ware for me on top of that she was makeing up to 600 a day now when i questioned her about this she said the family are very rich the dad is a ceo of a large company and thats why they pay so much. still not convinced i waited untill she left her phone in the room with me while she had a shower i found msgs there talking about rosters and hours she needs to be in i also found a string of msgs from someone who said they were from her first day of work at "studio relax girls" from the same person was msgs asking when she is working and "i miss the way you make me feel" also replys from her saying im already booked up so you can wait or just see one of...

TL;DR at the bottom My ex and I were together for just over 5 years. She dumped me about 5 months ago. During this 5 months I have chased her a lot and would fail to give her space when she asked. I wanted her back and still do very badly. My ex told me over Thanksgiving that she needed to see me in person to know if we should get back together. I agreed to meet and we hung out and had a great time and kissed at the end of the night but then she told me she did not want to get back together. She continued to talk to me the rest of the Thanksgiving break and we hung out two more times, one of which she reveled that she had very conflicting feelings on what she wanted but she was also drunk. We ended up hooking up that night. After the break was over she went back to school and again asked for space. I broke no contact a week later but we talked and she was mad but then we ended the phone call on good terms. Christmas time rolls around and I havent spoken with her since, she text m...

We started dating about 5 months ago. When I met her she was visiting from the next state over but was already planning on moving to where I live for the 2020 spring semester so we decided to do the long distance thing until then. We'd drive to see each other about every 2 or 3 weeks and would talk to each other daily. She is secretly jack-Mormon and questions the church but her family has no idea. About 3 months in I asked her if she'd want to make things official. She said yes and seemed happy about it, but then a few days later she told me she'd like to hold off on it since she was still scared to tell her parents she was dating a non-Mormon boy. It didn't bug me too much since I didn't really care about our "status" much and we were both having a good time anyways. She went back home to her family for the holidays and that's when things got a little weird. I could tell that something was bugging her and when I asked she said she was having family...

I met a friend recently (before Christmas) and I sent the following message to her shortly after she left : ‘Hi [friend’s name], great to see you today! I really enjoyed catching up with you - hope you enjoyed it too. I hope you have a great Christmas ! :)’ I got the following reply (almost instantly) : ‘Thanks :) hope you have a great christmas too!’ What is she thanking me for here? Is she thanking me for saying I enjoyed it, or for wishing here a happy Christmas (or both)? If she is thanking me for the Christmas part only, does this suggest that she ignored the first part of the message about enjoying it, possibly implying that she didn't enjoy meeting?? tl;dr - Does this suggest that she still wants to meet again one day? Submitted January 04, 2020 at 12:08AM I met a friend recently (before Christmas) and I sent the following message to her shortly after she left :‘Hi [friend’s name], great to see you today! I really enjoyed catching up with you - hope you enjoye...

TL;DR at the bottom. 2 months ago, in college, I had class with this girl. At first, I didn't look at her with intent to date because I wanted to see how she acted first, and it was my first class with her in Gen-Ed class. There weren't many girls in my field, so she was rare, but attractive. Weeks fly by, and we were tasked with doing a project together. She's smart and can hold a good conversation etc. Now, I was attracted. I waited a week to muster the courage to ask for her number and go on a date. She agreed! She flaked on our proposed day, claiming family duties got in the way. I give her a pass because she bought me a home cooked meal the week before at school. She even rescheduled. That date came up, and she flaked again. Same excuse. I know she has a pretty big family, so it's understandable, but my patience was wearing out. This was my first dive back into the dating world after an 8 year hiatus, so this isn't all her fault. Due to a traumatic breakup...

There are two major ingredients you need in order to get a woman to go out with you and avoid being“Friend Zoned.” Until and unless you learn what these two ingredients are, you’re bound to see more failure than success. Tell me if this has ever happened to you… It’s the weekend. You go out to your favorite bar, maybe have a drink or two, and start conversations with a few women you find interesting… They respond well, they’re polite and friendly… but you can’t help but feel they’re just not THAT into you. Their responses seem lukewarm. And before you know it, their friend whisks them away to the dance-floor and they’re gone in a flash. Next time you see bump into them, they act like they never met you…  Ouch. Here’s another way this problem might show up: Maybe you started talking to a girl from an online dating app. She’s replying but just the bare minimum. She’ll reply “haha” to your jokes but she doesn’t joke back… and when you ask her to meet up, she always has a polite,...

I'm interested to know what you all consider your red-flags for either a man or a woman! There are definitely some situations where I've either heard about a tinder date from a friend or been on one and it's been a "wowwww what?!" kind of thought. Submitted January 03, 2020 at 11:43PM I'm interested to know what you all consider your red-flags for either a man or a woman! There are definitely some situations where I've either heard about a tinder date from a friend or been on one and it's been a "wowwww what?!" kind of thought.