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Does me giving a coworker an opinion about their work performance automatically warranty a fight?

Today at work I was kind of annoyed that one of my coworkers wasn’t communicating with me properly, to the point that it interrupted my job and slowed me down, so I said something to my male coworker about it. “You guys need to do better with communication “ “Like when you sell something and you need to let me know, instead of leaving me hanging” (I was referring to the female coworker) My female coworker overheard, butted in, and immediately went ape-shit and started arguing with me telling me that if my attitude didn’t stop that she was “going to explode” and telling me how I could go the fuck home, yada yada yada. I laughed it off and was like “alright Abby whatever makes you happy” and walked away. Maybe when I said it I was a little irritated? But did it warranty a fight tho, or is this girl that I work with just manipulative as fuck…? This girl is kind of cute and occasionally we flirt with eachother, but sometimes she’s just so fucking bratty like sometimes she’ll purposely ign...

She sent me a picture of another guy

Been snap chatting this girl for a little over 2 weeks we went out Friday and everything seemed to go well. We’ve been talking since then until yesterday when she left me on read. Today after almost 24 hours I snapchated her then she sent me a picture of her and another dude at a bar but she responded to what i said so i didn’t think anything of it and kept talking. Then the next picture was just her and the guy. The dude looks 10 years older than us so idk if it’s just a cousin/ uncle or something or (more likely) she’s on a date and wants me to get the hint and stop Snapchating her. What do y’all think? Submitted June 01, 2022 at 01:10AM Been snap chatting this girl for a little over 2 weeks we went out Friday and everything seemed to go well. We’ve been talking since then until yesterday when she left me on read. Today after almost 24 hours I snapchated her then she sent me a picture of her and another dude at a bar but she responded to what i said so i didn’t think anything ...

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😎 June 01, 2022 at 12:27AM

Struggling with pacing

TL;DR: met young woman on dating app. Her profile said no hookups. After a day of chatting, she steered the convo in a sexual direction. I was down with it so I reciprocated the vibe. It went a little too well and she hit me with “we should hang out.” I felt intimidated bc of external factors and fumbled. She stopped responding. Now I am bummed. Asking about: how do I navigate the pacing of modern dating without screwing myself over? Ok so long story: My (29M) profile clearly states “I’m mostly just looking for someone to chat with but I might be down to get together at some point if we hit it off.” I have that in my profile because I find this whole process intimidating; I’m quite shy in some ways. The only successes I’ve had have come after becoming friends with someone first. Otherwise I feel rather uncomfortable/conflicted. I matched with this young woman (20F) the day before yesterday. On her profile she had something about not wanting a hookup, which I found encouraging. I ...

/u/ICON_RES_DEER on Odd question. How do y'all put flags and stuff under your name?

Test May 31, 2022 at 11:32PM

/u/ViolaCat94 on Stop saying sex is never a "need".

Okay, with your purposeful word picking, and taking it out of the context of the sentence, where it means the exact same thing you said. I literally said "essential in a relationship to them" maybe use the whole sentence next time you wanna tell me I'm wrong. May 31, 2022 at 11:30PM