I'm 22 and I feel like I shouldn't care about butterflies or being excited by someone. Passion fades, but a person's true character doesn't deviate much, right? Surely most people scrape the fun part and pick someone whose practical in the end, right? Been dating a lovely guy my age for the last 5 weeks. We're exclusive. He's a good person. I swear all my exes have been crappy or walking red flags and I've left. Or the few decent/lacking red flags men weren't interested in me after a while. Initially I did have some attraction. But he does so many things that make me go ick and turn me off. Loads of quirks that drive me nuts. Like super loud chewing. Or smacking lip smacking noises. Or saying random things in a baby voice. He isn't in terrible shape, but maybe like 20/30lbs overweight and it's exclusively in his belly. It wouldn't be so bad if he didn't wear clothes that used to fit him like 2 years ago. Wears these old tees with holes ...

I met a guy a while back during the pandemic who lives in a different country and we started talking. We both didn’t think much of it first but we ended up becoming super into each other. I’ve sent him a lot of things, he’s sent me things. He booked a flight and got a place for a short while (and then moving in with me) and going to stay here for a couple of months. I really like him. A lot, hell I could say even love. The problem lies here: I am so insecure with my weight. I got injured and was bed ridden for awhile and gained a lot of weight. Currently suffering with the post effects of it. I’d say I gained a good 40 pounds. I told him I gained weight, and that I am trying to fix it. I also have sent explicit pics so he has seen my body. But he’s seen the angles I’ve wanted him to see. He told me he will help me stay on a routine and stuff when he’s here. He isn’t skinny per say, he is on the heavier end ish. He knows I’ve gained weight, I’ve told him I have. But I’m so scared I’ll...

This guy (21M) and I (20F) met through bumble and have gone on 2 dates together. He’s shy, but a nervous, cute shy. Very gentleman-like, hasn’t said anything sexual to me throughout the entirety of us talking (which is a green flag because other guys love asking for snapchat nudes), and just overall really down to earth and seems genuine from what I have observed thus far. Anyway, his bumble profile says he wants a relationship. We briefly talked about it and I asked what he is looking for and he said that he is interested in finding a relationship. I asked him, without giving my own opinions, what he thought about hookups. He said he has never and doesn’t think he would ever be able to do hookups because he would be worried about catching feelings. I agreed with him and said I feel the same way. I was a little shocked when he asked me on a 3rd date, and when I asked him what he wanted to do, he said “i was thinking we could go out or watch netflix and hang out or we could do both?”...

If I can, then I wanna donate my uterus to someone who actually wants it, such as a trans woman October 21, 2021 at 12:49AM

High key in my case lmao October 21, 2021 at 12:46AM

that christian upbringing really does fuck you up for life lowkey lol October 21, 2021 at 12:45AM

yes 100% October 21, 2021 at 12:44AM

Yup. Gender is kinda wack. October 21, 2021 at 12:39AM

For a long time, I thought maybe I was bi. As I watched a lot of gay porn. But After trying to meet guys via dating apps, I found that I have no attraction to men. Like with women, I'll be able to match with someone I have a strong attraction to. With guys, I can with certainty say I feel no attraction. And so, that leads me to believe, I am just straight. Thoughts? Submitted October 21, 2021 at 12:22AM For a long time, I thought maybe I was bi. As I watched a lot of gay porn. But After trying to meet guys via dating apps, I found that I have no attraction to men. Like with women, I'll be able to match with someone I have a strong attraction to. With guys, I can with certainty say I feel no attraction. And so, that leads me to believe, I am just straight. Thoughts?

I’ve (18m) had sex with my girlfriend (20f) a few times times and it turns out she loves rough the most. When I pick her up, pull her hair, choke her, talk dirty, pound it from the back, and slap her ass. I’ve never made her finish but she always asks for more and rounds. (I’ve never gotten the full amount of time to fuck her because we always get interrupted by parents at our houses or people in public when doing it in the car. I want her to finish though that’s my goal, any tips? Submitted October 21, 2021 at 12:27AM I’ve (18m) had sex with my girlfriend (20f) a few times times and it turns out she loves rough the most. When I pick her up, pull her hair, choke her, talk dirty, pound it from the back, and slap her ass.I’ve never made her finish but she always asks for more and rounds. (I’ve never gotten the full amount of time to fuck her because we always get interrupted by parents at our houses or people in public when doing it in the car.I want her to finish though that’s ...

I (18m) want to get a butt plug that I can wear all day and at school. I see that jeweled butt plugs are popular, but is it weird for a guy to have a jeweled butt plug instead of just a regular one? Submitted October 21, 2021 at 12:27AM I (18m) want to get a butt plug that I can wear all day and at school. I see that jeweled butt plugs are popular, but is it weird for a guy to have a jeweled butt plug instead of just a regular one?

I have a Netflix date on Friday. I feel like every time I’m watching a movie with a guy idk how to move from Netflix to “chill”. Usually the guy starts moving his hands around my body and I can’t pay attention to the movie. I start to get really horny. But I just sit there normal and idk what to do? Should I like start touching him back? Go in for the kiss? I just feel really awkward sometimes. Submitted October 21, 2021 at 12:45AM I have a Netflix date on Friday. I feel like every time I’m watching a movie with a guy idk how to move from Netflix to “chill”.Usually the guy starts moving his hands around my body and I can’t pay attention to the movie. I start to get really horny. But I just sit there normal and idk what to do?Should I like start touching him back? Go in for the kiss? I just feel really awkward sometimes.

Like do they just do it mainly for money, or do they also enjoy masturbating while they know many people are watching? Same with like private shows. Do cam models ever like masturbating with some client in a private show? Or like does it depend on the person I guess? Submitted October 21, 2021 at 12:55AM Like do they just do it mainly for money, or do they also enjoy masturbating while they know many people are watching? Same with like private shows. Do cam models ever like masturbating with some client in a private show? Or like does it depend on the person I guess?

Ok so I was in a relationship for about 5 years so I'm bit rusty. It's been a few years since that but I havent had anything more than one night stands after that. I really wanted to be alone so I dont bum anyone out. But I think I'm ready to keep going and I really like this person. I have been talking to her for a few months and I really do like her. Her humor and everything just clicks with me. I need advice to not blow this before it even started. Just need advice going ahead. Last thing I had was young love so to say. So I'm not really in my comfort zone here. thanks anyway. Submitted October 20, 2021 at 11:44PM Ok so I was in a relationship for about 5 years so I'm bit rusty. It's been a few years since that but I havent had anything more than one night stands after that. I really wanted to be alone so I dont bum anyone out. But I think I'm ready to keep going and I really like this person. I have been talking to her for a few months and I reall...

So, a while back, a girl I had been hanging out with a ton sort of ghosted me for a week. After of a week of me being the one to initiate conversations and such via text, she sent me a long paragraph that indicated she wasn’t in the right headspace for a relationship (I hadn’t made a move yet, she preempted it). She said she was going through a lot of stuff with school (we go to college together) and had over committed herself to extra curriculars. I told her I was hurt but understood. We kept hanging out and a few weeks later I mentioned to her that I noticed her current major was making her miserable. We talked for a few hours about majors and her life. During this conversation, she decides that the right move for her is to switch majors to a similar major that she will like more (she says she made this decision because of what I said((a good thing))), and “focus on doing more things for herself”. She also mentions that preemptively denying me was something “she didn’t do for hersel...

Took a girl home from the club Friday night but I was borderline blackout drunk and I think it turned her off cuz she made up an excuse as to why we couldn’t have sex (could have been true, who knows) but she also mentioned that she lives near by so it would be easy for us to meet up again later. I got her snap and Insta but I’m not sure how to re-initiate with the goal of sex. I drove her home Saturday morning but we haven’t talked since, have I waited too long to reach out? Or is it still fine to reach out? What do I say if it’s not too late? Submitted October 20, 2021 at 11:53PM Took a girl home from the club Friday night but I was borderline blackout drunk and I think it turned her off cuz she made up an excuse as to why we couldn’t have sex (could have been true, who knows) but she also mentioned that she lives near by so it would be easy for us to meet up again later.I got her snap and Insta but I’m not sure how to re-initiate with the goal of sex.I drove her home Saturd...

I’ll keep it short! I’ve been seeing the same guy for over a year now. On his birthday we were in a serious relationship. For his birthday, I planned a romantic cabin trip for us, cooked him a birthday dinner (which took me about 6 hours: cream cheese and spinach stuffed salmon topped with grilled shrimp, baked Mac and cheese, a cake from scratch, mashed potatoes, and fried green beans). I also bought him a Calvin Klein sweater. My birthday was today and we weren’t able to hang out so I’m seeing him tomorrow. I just have a feeling he probably didn’t get me a gift. We are fwb now but I did a lot for him on his birthday and I’d be a bit hurt if he got me nothing :/ Am I wrong to feel this way? Submitted October 21, 2021 at 12:00AM I’ll keep it short! I’ve been seeing the same guy for over a year now. On his birthday we were in a serious relationship. For his birthday, I planned a romantic cabin trip for us, cooked him a birthday dinner (which took me about 6 hours: cream cheese an...

(M 22) Well, it's a pretty long text, sorry. Pretty personal too, huh. How do you find your date? I know, work, hobbies, friends of friends. But my work is a big personal project and occasional freelance (gamedev). My hobbies is pretty much gaming, science pop and some Netflix. Almost all of my friends are older then me (like 30-50 age range) and have a very different cultural codes (close enough to be friends, distant enough to be partners). General problem is that I don't want to change my lifestyle. To be on the same page, I don't consider myself some kind of sociopath, freak or ugly person, and neither people around me. I go on the pretty long walks, I exercise, I go out to see my friends once or twice per week. But I'm so fucking alone. And maybe cause of my specific interests/knowledge, maybe cause of some principles, it's really hard to find even an average partner. Almost every of my occasional Tinder dates was like this: -Hi girl's name ! -Hi thro...

Hey, the title say it all. I would really like to talk with someone mature enough to understand what we are going through, and help me with mindful advice or opinion. Submitted October 21, 2021 at 12:02AM Hey, the title say it all. I would really like to talk with someone mature enough to understand what we are going through, and help me with mindful advice or opinion.

I (27F) just started talking to this guy (30M) about three weeks ago and we met irl a week and a half ago. When we first met, we hung out three nights in a row and I slept over twice. I was smitten to say the very least. We both were. I don’t click with people very easily but it’s effortless with him. The sex is great, his friends like me, we have a ton in common, I mean I could go on and on. BUT he’s not the most reliable. He’s a musician so he’s in the studio late at night, so our schedules tend to conflict. Last week, we hung out on Sunday and I slept over and left Monday morning. We agreed that we’d see each other before the weekend. He mentioned a day or two that might work for him because his schedule is kinda weird. Well that never happened. I would hint at seeing him and he would talk about how busy his day was. He told me we’ll just play it by ear, and that ended in us not seeing each other until the following Monday….a week later. When we hung out again, I made my expectatio...