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/u/Furball_Cheezit on Can you be asexual, but masturbate (and ok with kissing and non-penetrative intimacy)?

yes February 18, 2023 at 12:08AM

Should i let girl i just met im going to the bars solo?

I met a girl last week in a networking event. I thought she was cute and but it was clearly a friendly interaction. She’s going to be in town for a few months and wants to experience the bar scene. I told her that me and my friends females and males) always try to go out to the bars at least once each weekend. I told her if she was interested in hanging out with us that i could let her know if she wanted. She said she was and we exchanged numbers. Last weekend we didnt go out and i want to go out this weekend. I asked my friends if they wanted to go out this weekend and they said yes. So i texted the girl yestersay saying most of us were going downtown if she was interested in going. She said she was and to let her know once i got more details. Unfortunately all of my friends have been flaking tonight. Some have decided to just stay home today, others had a change of plans. Im considering just going to the bars solo tonight but i do kind of want to let the girl know that she is still...

Asked a woman this and ...

To say the least this went a little bit wrong, I suppose. I probably I screw this up, totally, when I spoke with a woman today, which is ok since I refuse to keep doing this overthinking if she likes me or not for this long (months, she looks at me, I look at her, she smiles, I like that, etc.), so regarding that (thinking about her this hard) I'm done. Over the years I've had girlfriends, all good, but since my last one, my game (which was never great) has been poor to say the least. So today, after some months of looking at this woman smile at me, wink the eyes at me, me looking at her, and liking this interaction, but knowing it could be just a friendly interaction, which has been going on for some time now (we sometimes talked to each other, etc.). As time went by I started to see these as signals (they were not, or so I think so let's be real, or what do I know women are complicated). So I approached her today and told her the following below (yeah, it sucks, but I ju...

/u/kasuchans on What are some common ace experiences that you didn't realise were ace until much later?

Yeah it's not the majority but it is a bit less, about 40% or so. Partnered sexual activity may include a range of behaviors. In 2015–2017, 40% of adolescents aged 15–19 reported ever having had penile-vaginal intercourse (commonly referred to as "sexual intercourse"), 45% had had oral sex with a different-sex partner and 9% reported ever having had anal sex with a different-sex partner. February 17, 2023 at 11:13PM

/u/2jesusisbetterthan1 on Eating a whole baguette of garlic bread for breakfast

I'm not sure it's healty February 17, 2023 at 11:13PM

/u/ImSpoons on Male canonically asexual characters?

I suppose you could count Kai from the Canadian sci-fi series Lexx as ace/aro. I mean.... he's kinda dead, but has zero interest in sexual relationships. February 17, 2023 at 11:09PM