Alright y’all. I have an embarrassing problem. When I have sex with my boyfriend my asshole get super itchy. To clarify, this is while having PIV. But sex is pretty messy as you know and if anything gets on my asshole (and it always does, whether it’s from him or from me), it makes me itch. This has been going on for a over a month now. Sometimes it’s itchy just for no reason too. I can’t remember if it first started while having sex or not. MORE BACKGROUND: I’ve been with the same partner (he’s male, I’m female) for over year and it’s a monogamous relationship. We were tested for STD’s at some point shortly before getting together and all results were negative. We do not have anal sex, just PIV, although once his penis did slip. We do not use condoms. I’ve had an IUD the whole time. No significant medical history. I haven’t asked my doctor because this is an embarrassing problem. TL;DR what is making my asshole itch?? Submitted November 29, 2019 at 10:38PM Alright y’all. ...

Hello all, I’ve been married to my wonderful wife for a few years now. One thing that continually happens is a numbness during sex for her. Both of us have only been with each other (for real), so when things like this happen, it isn’t the easiest to figure out. It usually happens after 20 minutes of sex. Any thought on how to deal with this? And a random thing to give advice one. My lady is quite quiet during sex. Any thoughts on how to Yelp this? Thanks for the thoughts and ideas! Submitted November 29, 2019 at 10:40PM Hello all,I’ve been married to my wonderful wife for a few years now. One thing that continually happens is a numbness during sex for her. Both of us have only been with each other (for real), so when things like this happen, it isn’t the easiest to figure out.It usually happens after 20 minutes of sex. Any thought on how to deal with this?And a random thing to give advice one. My lady is quite quiet during sex. Any thoughts on how to Yelp this?Thanks for th...

I (23M) am pretty sure I still don't know how to tongue kiss. Like how long should tongue contact occur? Should it be quick or go on for a bit? Also what do I do with my tongue while it's in there? Just poke around, or move it more? I do my best to just be in the moment when this happens but I also feel like a complete dunce because I have no idea what I'm doing lol. Any advice would be appreciated Submitted November 29, 2019 at 10:49PM I (23M) am pretty sure I still don't know how to tongue kiss. Like how long should tongue contact occur? Should it be quick or go on for a bit? Also what do I do with my tongue while it's in there? Just poke around, or move it more? I do my best to just be in the moment when this happens but I also feel like a complete dunce because I have no idea what I'm doing lol.Any advice would be appreciated

I'll try and keep this post as short as possible, but I'm going through a bit of a reflective period post-breakup. My SO and I broke up recently primarily because of a lack of sexual chemistry, along with a few other issues in the relationship. For me, the lack of chemistry was a problem. If I'm honest with myself, that chemistry had been lacking pretty much since the start. It's a real shame because, other than that, we got on so well and really cared for each other. In fact, in the days since the breakup, I've been wondering if we made the right decision and if we should have maybe explored all these things a bit more. We talked extensively about the lack of chemistry, but just couldn't really find any solutions. Background aside, this isn't the first time I've felt this way about a relationship. In fact, I wouldn't say I've ever been in a particularly fulfilling relationship sexually. I've never blamed my SO for this (it takes two to tan...

Hi all, I went through the FAQ and didn't see much about this. my girlfriend and I have tried three times now, but essentially my rather average sized member doesn't want to go in. I don't get it, I've tried pushing in basically everywhere in case I was just in the wrong area but I am not. And I have no trouble fingering her. What's the easiest mode of entry in you guys's experience? I just want to be able to get in there already, dammit! Submitted November 29, 2019 at 11:56PM Hi all, I went through the FAQ and didn't see much about this. my girlfriend and I have tried three times now, but essentially my rather average sized member doesn't want to go in. I don't get it, I've tried pushing in basically everywhere in case I was just in the wrong area but I am not. And I have no trouble fingering her.What's the easiest mode of entry in you guys's experience? I just want to be able to get in there already, dammit!

Uh hello, this is kinda my first time posting here so kinda nervous. Sorry if the question is a bit weird, but i am going to see my girlfriend for the weekend tomorrow (she lives 2h30 hours from me so i can only see her 1 time per 2 weeks) and i love her very much she is the best thing that has happened to me and i love her with all my heart. The thing is, last time was the first time she tried to give me oral (it is our first sexual experiences for us 2) and she said that my precum was salty. While i didn't cum because it is novemver, i am wondering, since tommorow is December and the end of nnn, is there anything i can do to make my cum or fluids taste better, so it will be enjoyable for her and share something special together? Thank you! Submitted November 29, 2019 at 11:58PM Uh hello, this is kinda my first time posting here so kinda nervous. Sorry if the question is a bit weird, but i am going to see my girlfriend for the weekend tomorrow (she lives 2h30 hours from me ...

This kinda pisses me off when I hear it but I don’t know if I’m just clueless. Is it old school/homophobic thinking that it’s not sex because there is no dick involved? Like, if those 2 girls like each other they will still drop everything if they see a dick so NBD. Am I missing something or...? I get when people talk about play in other aspects, like butt play or group play or whatever, and I understand there is such a thing as bi curiosity and that’s cool and all, but you are going to try having sex with a person, not “play” with them. When people say this I seriously imagine 2 girls cracking out the scrabble. Like, when do you “play” in a hetero hookup/relationship unless you’re talking about fetishes or kinks? Being bi isn’t a kink. Submitted November 29, 2019 at 11:58PM This kinda pisses me off when I hear it but I don’t know if I’m just clueless. Is it old school/homophobic thinking that it’s not sex because there is no dick involved? Like, if those 2 girls like each oth...

Hi there, I am currently a final year Industrial Design student at Loughborough University and for my final year major project I am looking to improve the HIV self-testing experience for men who have sex with men. I have prepared a short, anonymous survey that I would welcome your participation in. Should you agree to assist, prior to completing the survey you will be provided with more information about the study and then you will be given the opportunity to provide your consent. Thank you kindly in advance. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfVW4L3XiQ0s1d7ds9G28Jrqot4BgjGayl5YDP3W1h8YMUQ_Q/viewform?usp=sf_link Submitted November 29, 2019 at 11:58PM Hi there,I am currently a final year Industrial Design student at Loughborough University and for my final year major project I am looking to improve the HIV self-testing experience for men who have sex with men.I have prepared a short, anonymous survey that I would welcome your participation in. Should you agree to assis...

He picked me up as usual. No one else home, the house all to ourselves, a few hours to spare. I was upset with him this time. He didn't care about me like I cared about him, I told him. He loosened me up. A few kisses here, a couple of hickeys there, and the next thing I knew we were in the shower. I had always told him Spanish music does something to me that I cannot control. The movement of my hips, the feeling between my thighs. The animal look I get in my eyes. Off went the lights, and he pulled out a speaker that had a light that danced to the beat. And loudly the Spanish music played. The water rushed around us as I grinded on him like we were in the movie Dirty Dancing. I grabbed his hair in my hands and lead his hands to where I wanted them and made him sway with me. I bit his ear and bit his lips and when he was finally done with playing around he pinned me to the wall and asked me why we had never played Spanish music before. He pulled my hair, and bit my lips, and th...

For whatever genitals you may possess, what part of it has the most sensitivity? Submitted November 30, 2019 at 12:24AM For whatever genitals you may possess, what part of it has the most sensitivity?

A while ago I had put up a thread about how I found tomboys, muscular women and generally women with a more masculine bent to them particularly attractive. One thing that has come up in the past for me regarding this is that most men seem to find these types of women somewhat intimidating. I have never been able to grasp why exactly and so this is a question for both sides. Do you find these kinds of women intimidating and if so why? If you are one of these women have men found you intimidating in the past? Submitted November 30, 2019 at 12:24AM A while ago I had put up a thread about how I found tomboys, muscular women and generally women with a more masculine bent to them particularly attractive. One thing that has come up in the past for me regarding this is that most men seem to find these types of women somewhat intimidating.I have never been able to grasp why exactly and so this is a question for both sides. Do you find these kinds of women intimidating and if so why? If ...

When people have dates over for dinner what is the standard re the timing of sex? Can most of you wait until dinner is cooked and eaten? Or do you have to get the deed done before dinner as you can't wait? I'm just curious what others do in this situation. (This is after 4 normal dates in restaurants and bars which have ended up in sex). Submitted November 30, 2019 at 12:17AM When people have dates over for dinner what is the standard re the timing of sex? Can most of you wait until dinner is cooked and eaten? Or do you have to get the deed done before dinner as you can't wait? I'm just curious what others do in this situation. (This is after 4 normal dates in restaurants and bars which have ended up in sex).

That's wild I've definitely had cuddle puddles with my friends, never heard of a meetup. I dunno how I feel about that either. November 30, 2019 at 12:14AM

I meant it more as an either/or than a causal relationship, but the way I phrased it may have sounded like it implied the latter. Thank you for keeping me straight. I really don't think sexual attraction is entirely related to hormones, though. The OP claimed to have no problems, and I have seen other posts where people have said the same. Hormones may be related, perhaps, but not the sole cause. I'm not sure if scientific research exists on it, though, and my claim is derived primarily from anectodal evidence, which is admittedly not always the best support in a debate November 30, 2019 at 12:07AM

I don't think you actually told us what you exactly want. I think you need to figure that out for yourself first. It's fine saying you want a physical connection but you should have a think about what context. November 30, 2019 at 12:05AM

Welcome! You're just in time for thanksgiving leftovers! Acele Pie? November 30, 2019 at 12:01AM

Never heard it in Canada, in both East and west coast. Or I just wasn't listening hard enough to hear it. November 30, 2019 at 12:01AM

😋 Like me. With a torch. In your house. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Muahahahhaha! November 30, 2019 at 12:01AM

Okay, we aren't worrying about extinction from not having enough babies. Plenty of other things that can and will kill us long before the Mormons and Catholics stop reproducing. November 29, 2019 at 11:59PM

I know there are already a lot of replies... but I wanted to add my own two cents: totally! I identify as ace and lesbian, and honestly,,,, thighs?? Really nice, but only in a non sexual way. I blame my best friend for this, her thighs make a really nice pillow— November 29, 2019 at 11:58PM

Actually OP did not say hormones are the only component of sexual attraction. Therefore creating an inverse or converse of "hormones cause sexual attraction" is futile because it does not concern and address the unmentioned factors. Personally, I'm open to the hypothesis of us being hormonally challenged, although I don't think we are. There are other components in the complexs software and hormones are just the I/O module that interact with the actual hardware. People could be hella horny even with broken hormones, and people like us could be cold as stones with healthy hormones. November 29, 2019 at 11:57PM

Just because you're different from the norm in some way doesn't mean you have a disorder. In order for something to be a disorder, it has to significantly impair your life. There is quite a lot of natural variability in hormone levels between different people. So even if aces do have abnormal hormone levels, it's not necessarily dysfunctional. Especially if your hormone levels aren't that far from the norm. November 29, 2019 at 11:56PM

God, I hope so, because I'm crushing harder than any other time in my life right about now and have been for about a month. I don't think crushes are explicitly sexual. At least in my experience, it's someone's personality which makes me swoon and then I just want to be emotionally close with them and be all romantic with them... November 29, 2019 at 11:51PM