I’m [23M] gonna sound so lame here but I got nowhere else to ask this. So over the past few months I’ve been struggling with self image/confidence issues. I can’t even walk through Walmart without feeling bad. Alas, I told myself I couldn’t just hide in my apartment for the rest of my life. Well I matched with an extremely down to earth and attractive girl. She seems great and we really hit it off, natural conversations, etc and we have a date for tomorrow So I’ve been out of the game for awhile. Now I’m overthinking everything. Maybe my pictures don’t depict me correctly. What if I disappoint her (looks wise) from minute one. What if this, what if that. I don’t know, it’s almost making me more insecure and I’m thinking of cancelling. Submitted May 10, 2022 at 02:15AM I’m [23M] gonna sound so lame here but I got nowhere else to ask this.So over the past few months I’ve been struggling with self image/confidence issues. I can’t even walk through Walmart without feeling bad. Al

Yeah that’s about how it went down May 10, 2022 at 01:28AM

Im 22 male virgin. I was taking a time working on my issues and now i feel ready for dating. I just wonder if its ok to,, just hook up" with someone. I think i should save sex for the right girl or atleast for more serious reltionships. Im asking because it seems kinda normal and not big deal for many people to have sex just with someone whenever there is opportunity even like first date. So i dont really know. Maybe its ok, but i also heard somewhere that hook ups are not worth and make you feel empty and its hard to build serious reltionships afterwards. Maybe im just overthinking and some hook up now and than could not do any harm and increase my experience with Girls which is i guess good aswell? What do you think? Submitted May 10, 2022 at 01:15AM Im 22 male virgin. I was taking a time working on my issues and now i feel ready for dating. I just wonder if its ok to,, just hook up" with someone. I think i should save sex for the right girl or atleast for more serio

Yep! You are far from the first to notice this. I'm actually the only trans person in my polycule though Lot of gay people with ADHD too May 10, 2022 at 12:08AM

I've been seeing someone for around a month and things have been going well. We text every day, we've had fun dates together, we've slept over each others' places. I really enjoy spending time with this person. I want to ask her on another date but I am really nervous, for some reason. For reasons, she really only has Saturday to hang out. We've gotten together the past 2 Saturdays. I feel like I'm going to look like a loser cause I have no other plans on a Saturday (I do some upcoming Saturdays, just not this one), or that I'm coming on too strong, or that she's just going to straight up reject me. She never seems super excited when I ask her on a date, but she's always agreed and she seems to have a good time on the actual date. I'm guessing that's just her texting style. So, TL;DR, despite things going well I'm still really nervous about asking her out! Why!!! Submitted May 10, 2022 at 12:15AM I've been seeing someone for