Hi all :) I'll preface with this: I'm extremely prone to overthinking every facet of a situation, and the one I'm going to detail below is no different... I'm a single 24F who has been on dating apps (mostly Hinge, as I've met a handful of guys from there, but have a Bumble profile as well) for the past 18 or so months. I seem to go through the terrible yet common dance of going on a few (anywhere from 1 to 5) dates with a guy, either we do or don't get along, and then...that's it. Of the three guys I've seen for extended periods of time over the last 18 months (all at different times, no overlapping), two out of three of them said they weren't looking for a relationship, etc. etc.; one of which, J, (24M) ended things at the start of this month after 3 dates pre-quarantine. Naturally, I am looking for a monogamous relationship in my dating endeavors. Rewind back to December, and I matched with a guy, who I'll call B, on Hinge (28M). We texted ...

I’m (f 20) in a relationship with (m 24) and we’ve been together for a year and 2 months now but the things he did still lingers in my mind. He was seeing other people at the start of our relationship and said he only kept me around for convenience because he didn’t know if we would last. He is trying to change now though but I don’t know if I should trust him again because when he was seeing other girls behind my back he was acting really sweet and caring. He knows I have major trust issues with him so he gave me his account password to ease my mind but I have never opened his account until I attempted last night because he has been acting dry and replies late but when I did open his account it sent him a verification text and he got mad at me for invading his privacy. I’m confused. Was I wrong or what? Honestly don’t know what to do since this is my first relationship. Submitted April 27, 2020 at 11:37PM I’m (f 20) in a relationship with (m 24) and we’ve been together for a y...

I (26f) have been speaking to someone for a couple months now. We have had video chat dates, but they are lacking the obvious physical presence. There are times where I wish to just give/receive a hug etc or to move our relationship to the next level, but... corona. I live with my mother and both of us never leave the house unless for food shopping every two-ish weeks. He on the other hand is an essential worker. He wears ppe in his shifts and also never leaves the house outside of work unless it's for food shopping every couple weeks. I don't want to lose the closest thing I have had to a relationship in years since being violated. Corona probably won't go away for months. The way i see it is when will it ever be truly "safe"? My friend recommended having a nature walk keeping 6 ft away, but that is no different than video chat for me. I want to be able to hold hands, hug, and maybe even invite him over. I plan to talk with my mother to see how she feels abou...

Why is it that as much as he shows me he doesn’t care the way i do no matter what i still go back to him? I Don’t Know If it’s The sex or the sexual attraction i have towards him but when i’m with him i enjoy it a lot. i love being with him, the physical affection i get from him how he acts when he’s with me. He acts so loving with me when he kisses me and caresses me it feels nice to have that once in a while You Know? he’s like that when we’re together but after he leaves it’s like none of that didn’t just happen. We’ve gone our times where we stop talking to each other for a month the most then we suddenly text each other and he comes over as if nothing? he tried texting my BEST FRIEND and i hated him so much for that time because i felt so disrespected and then after not talking to him for a while i felt as if the anger i felt was going away and i didn’t even care that he did that? Which is so wrong I don’t know if it’s because I lost my virginity to him and all the memories attac...

So there’s this guy I really really like. The main problem is that we don’t really run in the same circles anymore. Like I’ve had this bad of a crush on maybe one other person in my life. But I’m not sure when if I’ll ever see him again. The last girl he dated looked like a super model but every time me and him talk we have really engaging conversation. And he seems interested in me as a person and seems to genuinely enjoy talking with me in person. Sometimes he’ll comment on my stuff on Instagram but it’s pretty platonic. I’m planning on moving back to my hometown once I graduate this Semester which is where he lives. Like how would I ask him out or get him to ask me out either online or in person? I honestly feel like I can’t move on until I know whether or not there is something there. I’ve been crushing on this guy for a long time. Btw I’m 25 he’s like 27. I’m black he’s white. Idk if that matters but I don’t live in the most progressive state haha. Any please help. I need advice...

Has anyone here experienced getting really close to someone online, falling for them, and then it falls apart..and you still see them posting adult images and whatnot, which brings pain? Am I nuts to be hurt so much? How do I proceed, by deleting my Reddit? I do enjoy being on it for news and whatnot. Thank you for your input. Submitted April 27, 2020 at 11:50PM Has anyone here experienced getting really close to someone online, falling for them, and then it falls apart..and you still see them posting adult images and whatnot, which brings pain? Am I nuts to be hurt so much? How do I proceed, by deleting my Reddit? I do enjoy being on it for news and whatnot. Thank you for your input.

Before you attack me I don't agree with the title, I'm arguing against it. So one of my buddies and I have been debating for about 45 minutes now. The argument started with whether or not money in and of itself brings happiness and turned into how relevant a man's assets and finances are in a relationship. I'll elaborate on the two points below: My friend's argument is that women only care about what a man can bring to the table. If the man isn't making (a lot) of money, women don't want him. The key point here is a lot . The man needs to be making a higher than average income (must be higher than hers) and live a higher-end lifestyle in order to appease women. If this isn't the case, women will consider other men. How a man treats a woman isn't as important as what he can do to provide for her based on his income and assets. She should be able to depend on him to take care of her, entirely. My argument is that money is important, but typically i...

I'd say I'm kind of model status. I have a chiseled jaw line, big green eyes, I'm super ripped, 6'1, pug nose l, nice lips, and I'm a successful person. My problem is none of the girls on tinder reply. Sometimes I'll put effort into being funny, make them laugh. It's easy to get a snap chat even though I don't do it often because I'm tired of having random people on my snap. Usually they don't reply because I don't always have time to reply right away*sometimes take 2 hours to a couple weeks, but I feel like they aren't appreciating me when I put all the effort in. Even as a good looking person, it doesn't matter. I've tried the hey, and no reply obviously. Are they busy or what? Submitted April 27, 2020 at 11:59PM I'd say I'm kind of model status. I have a chiseled jaw line, big green eyes, I'm super ripped, 6'1, pug nose l, nice lips, and I'm a successful person. My problem is none of the girls on tind...

Met this girl on tinder about 4 months ago. It was LD for the first, maybe 2 months. Finally met in person and things went very very well. Met a few more times until this quarantine stopped things. We've texted everyday and probably for a week or so now, we’ve been FaceTiming every night. She talks about missing me, being grateful for me, how she can’t wait to see me and a bunch of other sappy bull until falling asleep still on the phone. Times like these me think things were getting real close to ‘relationship’ status. I’m just confused because I can also tell she’s still on tinder & is even following these guys on Instagram. I understand we are not yet in a relationship and she’s got every right to keep her options open. It all just makes me feel like I’m giving her too much time, but I just tell myself to be the bigger man, keep trying, keep things going. I think I’m just a little upset and jealous that she’s still “browsing” given how great things have been between us. An...

Okay so I have been talking to this girl for about four months now. We both know that we like each other, but she cannot date for essentially a whole year. The talking stage is so confusing and irritating! She never initiates conversations anymore, she answers so dry and I'm so confused because I had a video chat with her to get exactly what was going on. So we talked and I hit her with a few questions. She told me she still liked me and the dry texts were just because it's a "mood". And she never texts first because she doesn't like to start conversations. But she seems so disconnected whenever we have most of our conversations BUT she flirts back most of the time with me when I initiate it. To me a relationship has always been a two way street and she treats it as if I have to do all the work: carry conversations, initiate, whatever. To put it into perspective, I'm 18 and she is 15. (I KNOW BIG AGE DIFFERENCE, PEOPLE WHO HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT... PLEASE LEA...

So like 2 years ago i used to have a long distance relationship with a girl that i was really into, i was truly in love with her, but it wasn't easy for her this kind of relationship so she decided to end with it, and like 1 month later she cameback with her ex... time passed and 2 years later she and her family move to the town where i live and we start talking again, everything was awesome again and we talk like all the time and everyday but we didnt see each other because of this covid situation, at one point she told me that she wanted to try again but this time slowly because she want to do it right and that she need it to be ok with herself so we can have a really healthy and long relationship, that was her words and i say that i really like the idea. After that talk we continue talking all the time in a more loving or affectionate way, this was really awesome to me because i never stop liking here i think that we complement each other very well, anyway, from last week she ...

I’ve [20F] been talking to this guy on tinder [22M] and our conversation seemed to be going well and he said I was his type. I asked him if his type is short brunettes and he said yes, he also said his type is “white girls”. This made me feel a bit iffy because I understand people have preferences, I just didn’t think it was necessary to say? I asked him to clarify and he said it’s not that he finds non-white girls unattractive, he’s just more attracted to white girls. I just felt a bit weird and I’m wondering if I’m overreacting. I have to be careful as last time I spoke to a guy on tinder (for MONTHS) he seemed really really nice and then he said something suddenly which made me suddenly realise he was a huge tool. I just have to be careful with red flags and stuff. Thoughts? Submitted April 28, 2020 at 12:14AM I’ve [20F] been talking to this guy on tinder [22M] and our conversation seemed to be going well and he said I was his type. I asked him if his type is short brunett...

So it’s been nearly a year since me and my gf split. We tried the friends with benefits thing and I was too attached, told her I wanted to be serious again and she wasn’t having it so I left. That was about 3 months ago. I’ve been enjoying having my own time but love companionship. Now I’m wondering if I should get back into the dating space. Apps and all that. What are your guys opinions on dating apps vs. meeting someone organically at the bar? Submitted April 28, 2020 at 12:17AM So it’s been nearly a year since me and my gf split. We tried the friends with benefits thing and I was too attached, told her I wanted to be serious again and she wasn’t having it so I left. That was about 3 months ago. I’ve been enjoying having my own time but love companionship. Now I’m wondering if I should get back into the dating space. Apps and all that. What are your guys opinions on dating apps vs. meeting someone organically at the bar?

The girl I have been on six dates with is very laid back (we are both 27). I want to state up front that I really like her and I feel that we have a pretty good connection. The girls I have dated/been in relationships with in the past have been more expressive and easier to read. I honestly don't know if I like the opposite or not. Sometimes I get satisfaction with either complaining about my day or at least hearing someone complain about their day as, at the very least, another thing to talk about or geniunely help them. My questions, I guess, are: For males that have had laid back partners- Was that a quality you enjoyed about them, or eventually enjoyed about them? Did you do anything to have them open up more? For females that are more laid back- Would you feel offended if your partner tried to have you open up more? Even if it was initiated through a sincere and mature conversation? I do want to express again that I really like her, the person, not just the looks. I don...

So for a bit of context, I'm a dude fairly new to the wanking scene. At first I thought I had a tight foreskin (found out I dont) so I began jerking off. The first time I did it I just kept going and I felt a rush of ** sensation * . Then I was like ok cool this is why ppl do this. And I kinda just accepted that I didn't cum, thinking I never would. But after a few more attempts, I still couldn't cum. I got a bit worried but then I began to take it slow instead of just Jack hammering for 3 minutes. And when I went slow it was much better, I felt like I was about to come. So there I was lying in bed like ok, I know what to do, I'm finally gonna cum. So I start, all is going well, when I start getting *the feeling . I think oh yeah here we go, keep going, I feel it coming, oh yeah.... and then I peed on my leg. It was piss. Not cum, piss. I'm just confused. Any help is greatly appreciated. Submitted April 27, 2020 at 11:23PM So for a bit of context, I'm a d...

It all went down one afternoon at a friend's place involving my friend (25/m), his girlfriend Melissa (25/f), and me (25/f). I was just dropping something off right when Nathan and Melissa were getting ready to fuck. Don't know what came over them because the moment I arrived they asked if I could spectate. Turned out the two always dreamt of having someone watch their shenanigans. They were honest about it, so I figured it wouldn't hurt to watch. At the time I didn't know just how involved I was getting. For the most part, Melissa was in ecstasy every second Nathan nailed her hard. It was definitely hot, but neither stopped there. A second later Melissa was dragging me into the action. I was really reluctant to play along as she laid me on the bed and knelt over me while Nathan fucked from behind. Soon I was watching the action up close and personal with Melissa's tits swinging over my face. Honestly, that was just halfway. For the finale, Melissa decided to yank...

I’ve used Nair on my balls many times and have never once had any cuts until this past Saturday. I have a little cut on my balls and I’m worried that I can’t have sex for awhile someone give me answer. Submitted April 27, 2020 at 11:28PM I’ve used Nair on my balls many times and have never once had any cuts until this past Saturday. I have a little cut on my balls and I’m worried that I can’t have sex for awhile someone give me answer.

I don’t know if I can post this, I’m totally new here. My boyfriend and I are looking for a third for some real fun that we’ve been discussing for over a year now. We want a trans woman, this is our first time but we’re sure we want to do it. We live in New York, any help advice or a point in the correct direction would be seriously appreciated! TIA Submitted April 27, 2020 at 11:28PM I don’t know if I can post this, I’m totally new here. My boyfriend and I are looking for a third for some real fun that we’ve been discussing for over a year now. We want a trans woman, this is our first time but we’re sure we want to do it. We live in New York, any help advice or a point in the correct direction would be seriously appreciated! TIA

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Just an appreciation post for when my SO and I are having sex, and I'm on top of him doing my thing - from the moment I can feel he's about to come inside me, to when he tells me he's about to cum and those intense sounds of pleasure along with that sexy O-face as he pulsates inside me. It just sends me over the edge and draws out an intense orgasm from myself, and I can't ever get enough of it. Submitted April 27, 2020 at 11:37PM Just an appreciation post for when my SO and I are having sex, and I'm on top of him doing my thing - from the moment I can feel he's about to come inside me, to when he tells me he's about to cum and those intense sounds of pleasure along with that sexy O-face as he pulsates inside me. It just sends me over the edge and draws out an intense orgasm from myself, and I can't ever get enough of it.

I turned 23 last week and I just watched a movie that put a lot of emphasis on losing your virginity and has made me feel a lot of anxiety. I I don’t feel like I’m a freak. I’ve not hooked up with a girl but it’s mostly because I’ve never really felt the connection with somebody and up until about a year ago, I used to incredibly insecure about myself. Sure, most people my age have hooked up so I’m not “normal” but I also don’t really feel like it’s that big of a deal or that I’m some kind of freak. But then I see what people my age are saying and what the media says and it makes me feel like I’ve royally fucked up. I also have suspicions that a lot of people are exaggerating how much sex they’re having/have had but maybe I’m wrong. I guess I just want to know if, at 23, I’m without hope. Submitted April 27, 2020 at 11:39PM I turned 23 last week and I just watched a movie that put a lot of emphasis on losing your virginity and has made me feel a lot of anxiety. II don’t feel...

I can’t speak for all men, but I know that a harder/more intense orgasm is a better one. If I’m coming harder during sex, the sex is better. I was told recently by a woman when comparing two partners that, though one made her come harder, the sex with the other was better. I found the explanation... lacking. She couldn’t really make sense of it with words, and she sounded like she was trying too hard to be diplomatic, so it ended up sounding like nonsense. Can anyone weigh in on this? Submitted April 27, 2020 at 11:42PM I can’t speak for all men, but I know that a harder/more intense orgasm is a better one. If I’m coming harder during sex, the sex is better.I was told recently by a woman when comparing two partners that, though one made her come harder, the sex with the other was better.I found the explanation... lacking. She couldn’t really make sense of it with words, and she sounded like she was trying too hard to be diplomatic, so it ended up sounding like nonsense. Can an...

I'm exhausted and really struggling with my sex life. I (26, f) have a boyfriend (28, m) of 8 months. I have no problem giving oral daily, and even having sex most days, but he just makes it last so damn long. He could easily have sex for over an hour but I'm satisfied and done after about 10 minutes, by that point I want to cum and be done and move on with the day. He says he likes it more when we go for longer (I get it, more time for him = more fun) but I just dont feel like I have the time, energy, interest to go for that long. It making me not want to come on to him, which of course wont help the relationship. I get bored of things quickly and my free time is limited to around 2 hours a day, spending half of it having sex doesn't excite me. It's starting to create a disconnection for me. I feel like I am never going to be happy to satisfy him the way he needs. He says he is fine with quickies because it's better than being denied sex completely but I can...