Tonight I was talking to a long time pen pal, let’s call him G, and I was talking to him about the fact that we have been talking online for approximately a year and a half and we have never met in person. G says that he has a lot of health problems, he’s 60 and he went through lots of trauma with the house flooding and him losing his home, thieves stole his possessions and threatened him, so he keeps to himself, he has the shingles, his heart is very weak and he had heart failure so he had to go to rehab to get it sorted, and that his friend had a stroke and he has to take care of him. At the start, we were friendly and he messaged me everyday, telling me that I’m handsome, I have great skin, then we would video call on a lot of nights and do masturbating while he rubs his stomach and he talks about his skin being like cashmere, and talking about my skin being very soft and shiny. We talked about meeting each other and he seemed very eager, then I got into a relationship with anoth...

that’s possibly either romantic or aesthetic attraction, not sexual September 26, 2022 at 12:17AM

Thank you very much for the link i will definitely look into that. September 26, 2022 at 12:16AM

My advice is to quit it, if an app or website is making you feel worse about yourself then it's a good idea to drop it. If you'd like trying alternative or less popular social media such as Mastodon is normally a lot less hostile and can be good if you need to replace it with something. Trying to get more offline in general is also a good idea, but I fully understand if you feel the need for a community or to find people like you. Just don't end up hurting yourself to find it September 26, 2022 at 12:15AM

Do not worry I've been seeing a psychiatrist for a few years, but thank you for your concern. September 26, 2022 at 12:13AM

Typically with a laptop, sometimes a VR headset. What i watch varies, but tends towards explicit sex, whether its RL porn, hentai videos, doujins, or images. Sometimes fairly vanilla, sometimes kinky stuff. Biggest reason I watch is because if I don't have something in front of me, I'd never finish. Staying focused on it is difficult. But if I don't finish, staying asleep can be difficult and/or I just get random erections during the next day. September 26, 2022 at 12:12AM

So I have been on a two month long Europe trip visiting several countries. I met 26F (let's call her Jane) in Paris in a hostel dorm in early August 2022 where we got a long very well. We only spent the night with each other as she had to return back to Ireland (her country). Over the next couple of weeks she is sending me flirty messages like "I really liked our connection you should come visit x" and also lots of blowing kiss emoji's. She would also always start the conversation commenting on my Instagram stories etc. 3 days ago I end up coming to her city and she let's me stay at her place except that I would be in a different room. I get to her place and we are having a good time, getting drunk and then eventually head out to a night club. We go back to hers and she is so adament that I sleep in the guest room (Completely understandable as she hadn't known me for long). The whole next day we hang out and we're having a great time exploring her city....