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Constant disturbing memories popping up

TLDR; My gf broke up with me and the memories of being with her are still haunting me to this day. Okay. So around 2 years before my life got turned around, I didn’t like university, my ex-girlfriend for 2 years broken up with me and I generally didn’t know what to do in life which pushed me to the ground so hard. To mention some good things too, I did not get lost, shortly after I started working out, I got into a nice incubation programme with my startup where I could develop my social skills further and gain a shit ton of life experience and I learned a lot of new stuff related to software development too. Now I’m working as a freelance software engineer and life seems to be great for the outsider. But the truth is that I’m still suffering from the happenings from the past, there are times when it’s better and nothing bad comes to my mind or times (like now) when I literally can’t fall asleep because pictures of my bad memories are popping up inside my brain, it’s fucking disturbi...

My boyfriend [25M] of 1.4 years became more and more distant over the months and told me [20F] yesterday that he decided to end things. Did he find someone else or just got disinterested in me? Relationship seemed great. Need advice. Sorry if long.

Hi guys, my boyfriend (25M) and I (20F) have been together for about year and a half and it was amazing the first year of dating. We had a lot of similar hobbies and interests and tastes in music/people. We also met at our work last year (seasonal winter job) because it is connected to a shared hobby. We were super into each other, always texting or hanging out and it seemed to be perfect, but a few months ago the affection has been dying down. Now a few things to state: * he is a nice person to me but also to everyone around him * I am a super social person, while he is an introvert that prefers to stay home (play video games with friends) and struggles with social anxiety. * I’m on the other hand am not into gaming as much and prefer to go out or do artistic activities. * I am also not old enough to go to bars with him and his friends yet, and I would express my disappointment openly about that. * Whenever there was a hiccup, I prefer to talk things out (I generally talk a lot) but ...

How to deal with a flaky friend

My[28F] best friend [28F] who I have known for almost a decade is one of the best people I know. She's intelligent, unassuming, always there for me, and she is one of the few people in my life I know I can tell anything to without fear of being judged. But she is also extremely flaky. She's not flaky in the traditional sense we all know but in her own way, I'll explain below. We would make plans to go rock climbing one day, and close to the time of when we're suppose to meet up she would text me and say she did arm workouts that morning and is therefore too tired to go rock climbing and can we just get brunch instead. She would invite me to her parent's house for the weekend promising that we would do all of these fun suburban fall activities together (we both live in NYC) but when the weekend approaches she would say her parents wants her to go and grocery shop, and cook, and help them pick out a new car and would ask that I take the train 1.5 hours to her paren...

Girl (F24) I (M28) Was Seeing Ignoring My Texts / Blocked Me From Insta Story

I've (m28) Known a girl (f24) for half a year now and we recently made things official after being somewhere between friends and dating. Unfortunately, this was right before the Quarantine and since then she's grown distant to the point she takes a week or more to reply, if she does at all, and then doesn't reply back after I reply back to her. But she had been posting to her instagram stories but couldn't even respond back to me. Now I found out she is blocking me from her stories and am pretty astonished. As even though we only just decided to try out dating recently, we had formed a bond for 6 months now and if she had changed her mind, I figured she'd at least open up with me and talk. With this quarantine possibly lasting months, I'd actually understand that. To provide some background, she deals with anxiety/depression and this hasn't been good for her, but this behavior seems to go beyond suffering from that and just kinda fucked up. Am I wrong fo...

Boyfriend (28M) patrolling what I eat (22F)

So, my boyfriend's always been a pretty big health nut. Everything needs to be organic, grassfed, ect. I'm a pretty lean/healthy person, I love to run, make sure to eat enough vegetables and fruit every day, and don't eat fast food. That being said, I like to bake occasionally and tend to graze throughout the day. (Stuff like cheddar popcorn, whole grain crackers, cereal, ect.) We've butted heads in the past, but it's never been too bad. Ever since the virus started, my stress levels have slowly been rising. I have had eating issues in the past, and recently got over a stomach infection that caused me to not be able to consume much if any food. When I get stressed, I tend to reach for sweet and salty foods but don't tend to overindulge, just eat small amounts over a prolonged period. Since I lost quite a bit of weight, my hunger levels have risen because my body had been deprived. However, because of the virus, we're both working from home. We live in a t...

I'm single and bored, therefore I'm [M27] going to teach myself to have multiple orgasms.

Apparently there's a way to separate ejaculation and orgasm and it has to do with muscle contractions, so because I'm so damn bored, I'm going to do it. Guessing there's some dudes here who have/are doing it, so if you have any pointers send them my way. Submitted April 04, 2020 at 10:59PM Apparently there's a way to separate ejaculation and orgasm and it has to do with muscle contractions, so because I'm so damn bored, I'm going to do it.Guessing there's some dudes here who have/are doing it, so if you have any pointers send them my way.

I stick my tongue out and pant when I orgasm

Soo, I'm hella embarrassed by this but when I orgasm, like right at the peak of it, I almost always end up sticking my tongue out and lightly panting. It's really embarrassing and I don't know why I do it but it's like, half the time I don't really realize I'm doing it until I calm down a bit or it's mentioned. I don't know when this started or why but I'm really embarrassed and kinda ashamed by it. I don't know what my bf thinks about it cause I try to hide it every time and it gets kinda awkward lol. It's never after my orgasm either, always during the peak. I just wanna know if anyone else does this kinda thing, or something alone those lines? I think it'd make me feel a lil bit better about it if someone else experiences or has experienced the same thing lol. Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:01PM Soo, I'm hella embarrassed by this but when I orgasm, like right at the peak of it, I almost always end up sticking my tongue out ...

Do you remember your first "OH SHIT" Sexual Moment with your S/O?

This is the good kind of "Oh shit" moment I'm talking about.. What was your first "oh shit" sexual surprise from your partner? Was it the cunnilingus? A certain position? Move? Taste? Allow me to share my first TWO! The first one was her how good her lips felt when she gave me a blowjob. Soft, big lips and she could suck better than a Dyson! lol. But then on top of that she want from that amazing feeling to deep-throating me, and the feeling of my cock in her throat was amazing. But this Second experience is the best one and it was when she started squirting from anal. I vividly remember being in a shitty hotel room with her on her back, legs up, ass to the edge of the bed. I was standing, with her legs on my chest, and using her thighs as leverage. I was fucking her raw in the ass, and man, was I just going to town.. I had already cum once earlier, so my stamina was going strong... I start feeling drips on my feet, so I look down to see her pussy oozing, w...

What pornstar or amateur has the nicest pussy in your opinion?

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I don't orgasm during sex (M)

The 10 times I've had sex with my girlfriend I haven't been able to reach orgasm. I can go for a long time resulting in giving her multiple orgasms but I haven't been able to. I'm able to orgasm if I masturbate or if I masturbate and let her finish me off. I don't know what to do or change so I can enjoy sex to the fullest. Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:10PM The 10 times I've had sex with my girlfriend I haven't been able to reach orgasm. I can go for a long time resulting in giving her multiple orgasms but I haven't been able to. I'm able to orgasm if I masturbate or if I masturbate and let her finish me off. I don't know what to do or change so I can enjoy sex to the fullest.

Thoughts on penis with downward curve?

Is it a weird curve that does not work at all in missionary and cowgirl position? Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:10PM Is it a weird curve that does not work at all in missionary and cowgirl position?

Girlfriend has many sex toys

My [M19] girlfriend [22] already has alot of sex toys which I'm totally cool with but it's still something new to me. She recently started letting me go down on her and I recently started to as well. It's completely new to me and I don't know what I'm doing 100% of the time but she told me she really liked it last time and I can see that she did too. Unfortunately we had to cut things short because she had to go home. Because we can't see each other , she wants to get a toy that pretty much replicates cunnilingus ( satisfier pro 3 ) and from the reviews I've read it seems to be amazing. I'm still new to it and I'm worried that I won't have the confidence or will to go down on her anymore. I don't know how I'm gonna compete with that if it sucks on your clit and all while vibrating. I'm still new to it and it makes me insecure because it's one of the only ways to make her cum. I'm worried that I won't have the confidence t...

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm bisexual and asexual?

So basically the title. Me (F20) and my bf (m20) have been official for a week, and while we haven't had sex we have been physical: he's gone down on me and fingered me, and I gave him a blowjob and handjob. I've known I'm bisexual for a while, but I just started thinking I might be on the asexual spectrum. I think I'm gray-ace. Occasionally I'm in the mood for sexual things, but most of the time I'd rather not. The thing is, the first couple of times we messed around, I was in the mood, but after that I wasn't but didn't want to say anything and ruin our relationship already. I have had sex before, and I just don't really enjoy it. It feels nice sometimes, but I don't like it and I don't enjoy foreplay most of the time. I do enjoy kissing and making out, but that usually leads to more. I'm nervous about telling him that I've basically been just going along with it and forcing myself to act like I'm enjoying it to make him ...

How would someone go about selling feet pics?

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I don't want to eat pussy but I love getting head

I'm a guy. I don't think I'm gay or anything but I just don't really get turned on at the thought of eating pussy. Maybe I would really enjoy it but it doesn't really excite me. I feel kinda bad though because I love getting head. In fact, I love sloppy crazy head more than vaginal sex but I don't know if that's unfair for me to love that and not really want to give oral myself. What do y'all think? Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:26PM I'm a guy. I don't think I'm gay or anything but I just don't really get turned on at the thought of eating pussy. Maybe I would really enjoy it but it doesn't really excite me. I feel kinda bad though because I love getting head. In fact, I love sloppy crazy head more than vaginal sex but I don't know if that's unfair for me to love that and not really want to give oral myself. What do y'all think?

What’s the position I can last the longest in?

I have trouble lasting and am wondering if there’s a position that’ll make me last longer. Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:27PM I have trouble lasting and am wondering if there’s a position that’ll make me last longer.

Attracted to men sexually, but only with clothes on?

Male (22) here. I'm struggling because I'm really not sure what I'm into and experimenting is just making things more confusing. For much of my life I've been into men, visually and personality wise. kissing and cuddling men, even grinding with clothes has felt pretty good. But as soon as a man gets naked I turned off and a little grossed out (no offense intended, purely my experience). Contrast that with the fact that, while I'm not really into women, I do like sex with a woman way more than with a man. Again, not interested in sex with a man or nudity. Yet I'm not really into women in general, not even personality wise. But the actual intercourse is way better with women. Is there anyone else in the same/similar situation? I need some life advice one what to do. I can't even seem to decide whether to pursue a man or a woman, overall just a little confused. Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:29PM Male (22) here. I'm struggling because I'm reall...

Any Good Blowjob Tutorial Videos?

I'm (23f) completely new to blowjobs and want to impress my boyfriend(24m). I want to make a really good first impression. I found some on pornhub and youtube, but a lot of them are on bananas or are shortened versions of something that I have to pay for. Is there a "staple" blowjob tutorial video out there somewhere? help! Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:34PM I'm (23f) completely new to blowjobs and want to impress my boyfriend(24m). I want to make a really good first impression. I found some on pornhub and youtube, but a lot of them are on bananas or are shortened versions of something that I have to pay for. Is there a "staple" blowjob tutorial video out there somewhere? help!

In light of the pandemic

Wouldn't going to a gloryhole be the best option during this pandemic? I mean your pretty much already in isolation in a box, granted there is a hole. But you plug that hole with your cock creating a air tight seal. Discussion on this matter would be appreciated. Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:38PM Wouldn't going to a gloryhole be the best option during this pandemic? I mean your pretty much already in isolation in a box, granted there is a hole. But you plug that hole with your cock creating a air tight seal. Discussion on this matter would be appreciated.

My gf is sexually threatening me

seriously i really need help concerning this well my gf of 3 months is now being super agressive during sex and she's kinda threatening to make me bleed from my back n chest during sex crazry right ? first couple of weeks everything was perfect the sex was amazing and peaceful ... now she flipped upside down and turned into an agressive person gradually ! last couple of times we had sex she scratched my back so hard to the point i lost it and it felt extremely painful ! any advice would be appreciated Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:47PM seriously i really need help concerning this well my gf of 3 months is now being super agressive during sex and she's kinda threatening to make me bleed from my back n chest during sex crazry right ? first couple of weeks everything was perfect the sex was amazing and peaceful ... now she flipped upside down and turned into an agressive person gradually ! last couple of times we had sex she scratched my back so hard to the point i lost it...

i wish people didn't talk so much shit about vanilla sex.

i am a woman with many kinks, but most of the time have pretty vanilla sex with my fiance. i think it's fuckin amazing. i love him so much and i feel so safe and intimate with him, and it just makes it that much better. for some reason, just the thought of his bare dick going in and out of me and my pussy massaging it just drives me crazy, especially if he finishes inside me. i dont need all the extra bells and whistles, regular sex with him turns me on like crazy. being kinky here and there only adds to it. :) i wish people didn't shit on vanilla sex as often and treat people who have it like they're boring and prudish. i actually think that people who never have vanilla sex are kind of missing out! :) Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:51PM i am a woman with many kinks, but most of the time have pretty vanilla sex with my fiance. i think it's fuckin amazing. i love him so much and i feel so safe and intimate with him, and it just makes it that much better. for some...

Sex via FaceTime

Have never had sex via FaceTime but really want to try it with my partner and the idea excites me aha, I feel like I need to be more sexually confident to do it though which I’m working on, also am assuming this is something he’s done before which intimidates me a lil bit, as I wouldn’t even know where to start lol 😂people’s experiences and advice on the topic would be great pls :) Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:54PM Have never had sex via FaceTime but really want to try it with my partner and the idea excites me aha, I feel like I need to be more sexually confident to do it though which I’m working on, also am assuming this is something he’s done before which intimidates me a lil bit, as I wouldn’t even know where to start lol 😂people’s experiences and advice on the topic would be great pls :)

How does it work with two subs?

Just wondering if any of you have experience with the case where both partners are submissive and neither wants to be dominant? How does it usually play out? Submitted April 04, 2020 at 11:58PM Just wondering if any of you have experience with the case where both partners are submissive and neither wants to be dominant? How does it usually play out?