lol. Like... I'm a dude. And I like the smell of a girl. I like to smell her stank. Her arm pits. And her hair. Her breath. Her vagina. I could just nestle my head in her vagina and smell. It's like heaven. I like if they don't wear deodorant so I can smell their body odor in the air instead of the deodorant. Anybody else like this? Or am I just weird? haha. Submitted May 12, 2020 at 11:58PM lol.Like... I'm a dude. And I like the smell of a girl. I like to smell her stank. Her arm pits. And her hair. Her breath. Her vagina. I could just nestle my head in her vagina and smell. It's like heaven.I like if they don't wear deodorant so I can smell their body odor in the air instead of the deodorant.Anybody else like this? Or am I just weird? haha.

Hi guys, I’m a long time lurker on this sub and this is my first post. So I (21F) have never enjoyed receiving head from any man I’ve been with. At first I thought it was maybe just the person I was with that wasn’t good at it, but after multiple people I’m thinking it’s probably just me. Maybe I’m just weird lol. Has anyone else had experience with this? I guess I just want to know that I’m not alone in that, because I honestly wish I could enjoy that part of sex. Submitted May 12, 2020 at 11:59PM Hi guys, I’m a long time lurker on this sub and this is my first post. So I (21F) have never enjoyed receiving head from any man I’ve been with. At first I thought it was maybe just the person I was with that wasn’t good at it, but after multiple people I’m thinking it’s probably just me. Maybe I’m just weird lol. Has anyone else had experience with this? I guess I just want to know that I’m not alone in that, because I honestly wish I could enjoy that part of sex.

My boyfriend and I are currently long-distance and we’ve been dating for almost two years. We recently decided to try over Zoom and it was really fun but I had a hard time taking it seriously. I kept cracking jokes and didn’t know what to do. I know it takes practice but I’d appreciate some tips to get a head-start. I want to “put on a show”, even though of some role playing characters for myself. Would that help overcome shyness? How do you keep dirty talk flowing? Submitted May 12, 2020 at 11:59PM My boyfriend and I are currently long-distance and we’ve been dating for almost two years. We recently decided to try over Zoom and it was really fun but I had a hard time taking it seriously. I kept cracking jokes and didn’t know what to do. I know it takes practice but I’d appreciate some tips to get a head-start. I want to “put on a show”, even though of some role playing characters for myself. Would that help overcome shyness? How do you keep dirty talk flowing?

Wanna know if this is possible I think it would be hot Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:03AM Wanna know if this is possible I think it would be hot

I’m a devoted pussy-eater and would LOVE to hear more about this! Techniques, tips, reactions etc! Teach me your ways! Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:05AM I’m a devoted pussy-eater and would LOVE to hear more about this! Techniques, tips, reactions etc!Teach me your ways!

I was taken a back to learned there are many out there who will not have sex with a guy who is uncircumcised because they believed the guy will put them at a higher risk for cervix or anal cancer due to more bacterial hidden under the skin. They also going by the research that said uncircumcised guys are more likely to contracted an STD. There are even groups out there campaigning against the non-circumised population where potential sexual partners are shaming uncut penis. My experience is a bit different though, I got turned down twice for anal sex because the person thought my uncut dick have more skin making it too girthy for comfort. I didnt get it as I was successful with others in the past with lubrication and extra time however that's more about pain than thinking I am not clean. But still turning down guys like that due to misinformation could also amount to discrimination as well. People are free to choose what they put inside them and have a preference, but I am just ...

A few weeks ago my girlfriend was on top, and when she came down it bent weird. It didn’t hurt or anything and we still finished. I’ve noticed since then my dick just doesn’t feel as strong. It takes longer to get an erection, and when I tighten it it doesn’t “jump” up as much. There’s no bruising or swelling, no pain, it just feels weird. It almost feels like there’s a tendon or something that isn’t working? I have tried to go to the doctor, but they haven’t been making appointments until today, got an appointment but it’s not until June 2. Any ideas? Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:10AM A few weeks ago my girlfriend was on top, and when she came down it bent weird. It didn’t hurt or anything and we still finished. I’ve noticed since then my dick just doesn’t feel as strong. It takes longer to get an erection, and when I tighten it it doesn’t “jump” up as much. There’s no bruising or swelling, no pain, it just feels weird. It almost feels like there’s a tendon or something that i...

The title pretty much says it but I just don’t know if that is weird or not. I don’t think I smell bad and I’ve gone down on him after we fucked and thought it tasted a little gross but after he goes down on me and we kiss I think it’s so hot that I can taste and smell it on him. I also think this might be because he told me he loves the way I smell and taste but is it weird that I do? Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:15AM The title pretty much says it but I just don’t know if that is weird or not. I don’t think I smell bad and I’ve gone down on him after we fucked and thought it tasted a little gross but after he goes down on me and we kiss I think it’s so hot that I can taste and smell it on him. I also think this might be because he told me he loves the way I smell and taste but is it weird that I do?

Not saying it isn't bad. But sometimes it's clear the guy won't have the patience/skill/desire to get us off the way it really works for us, and it's easier to save them the disappointment. I don't think this is true of long-lasting sexual relationships where you actually get to know your partner's body very well, I think it's more an aspect of casual sex. With age, women stop faking for the sake of the guy's ego, and start to gain the confidence to ask for what they want. But we've all been there, and we've all met the new guy who says they can tell if it's real or not, and we all know he still can't. We can fake the real ones too. Hopefully, with society being more open talking about sex and men being more comfortable receiving feedback, women won't feel the pressure to fake it ever again. I imagine if any of the guys I've done that with sees this post they'll be like, "I can tell when it's real". Well. You...

I (24F) really want to make the first intimate move. I’ve been on several terrible online dates where I end up kissing the person because it was too uncomfortable not to. It takes me awhile to warm up to people and most of the time I don’t want to kiss on a first date. I would rather kiss them when I felt some kind of spark or hunger. Plus, it turns me on to make the first move. I’m usually very nervous on dates and it’s such an adrenaline rush to push pass that and just fucking kiss them. After that first kiss, idk who makes what move. I think there’s a level of consent and comfortability that I feel when I make the first move. Feeling obligated to do anything intimate is the biggest turn off and kissing them first takes that feeling of obligation away. When should I mention this? How should I word it? Would you feel awkward if your date asked if they could make the first move? Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:20AM I (24F) really want to make the first intimate move. I’ve been on s...

Thoughts? Submitted May 12, 2020 at 11:52PM Thoughts?

I'm trying to let this go but I'm having a hard time with it right now. This girl messaged me on April 19th on POF which doesn't happen often, and we were talking since then and she even came over once but then she started acting different so I had a feeling maybe she lost interest which happens I just don't quite understand if I did something wrong or what. She's told me she was wanting a nerdy guy and someone that's consistent. Eventually I asked her if she thought of me as a friend or more. Here's the conversations we've had, please be nice, my intentions were never to annoy her or push her away I just wanted to know what happened after meeting me First messages http://imgur.com/a/et1UO9T Other messages http://imgur.com/a/DonDFsr Submitted May 12, 2020 at 11:52PM I'm trying to let this go but I'm having a hard time with it right now.This girl messaged me on April 19th on POF which doesn't happen often, and we were talking since t...

The first kiss can sometimes be bit awkward. Just wanted to ask for some insight regarding this situation. Currently talking with a girl mid 20’s, very anti touch. Kissing, holding hands, massaging, etc. In my head I’m thinking borderline asexual, but I’m no expert. After a lot of talking, texting, hanging out, laughter comes the kiss. Women would you be turned off by a guy asking for your consent to kiss? Thank you for the advice Submitted May 12, 2020 at 11:53PM The first kiss can sometimes be bit awkward. Just wanted to ask for some insight regarding this situation. Currently talking with a girl mid 20’s, very anti touch. Kissing, holding hands, massaging, etc. In my head I’m thinking borderline asexual, but I’m no expert. After a lot of talking, texting, hanging out, laughter comes the kiss. Women would you be turned off by a guy asking for your consent to kiss? Thank you for the advice

Sorry for the length. I met someone a few months ago, we very quickly became friends, and I sort of allowed myself to catch feelings for her. I'll link my previous post about her if you want more info. https://www.reddit.com/r/askwomenadvice/comments/feej6l/she_has_a_boyfriend_should_i_stay_in_contact/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share She had a new boyfriend at the time, so I didn't express any romantic interest in her. There was never any flirting between us, so I don't actually know if she's interested, but neither of us are the flirty type. I did and still do, genuinely want to be friends with her, so I resisted the urge to tell her how I felt. This all happened before the quarantine, and we hadn't spoken since March. The last day we spoke was probably also the last day she saw her boyfriend, I'd think the quarantine broke them up. The other day I txted her just to check in, to see how she's doing. She said she'd been having a couple of...

This girl wants to have a relationship with me but I think she’s a little young, I just turned 15 and she’s 13. Is this ok in your guys standard I’m just a little confused on what to do Submitted May 12, 2020 at 11:58PM This girl wants to have a relationship with me but I think she’s a little young, I just turned 15 and she’s 13. Is this ok in your guys standard I’m just a little confused on what to do

Whats the guidelines for corona dating? I've never went on a first date anywhere besides a bar, so this is already uncomfortable enough for me (a drink or two helps the nerves/gets me a bit more conversational). We're just going to go on a walk through a nearby park, what should I do with regards to social distancing? Wear a mask? Stay 6 feet from her? Follow her lead on both? And for the end of the date - assuming we're both feeling chemistry - is kissing out of the question? Should we even hug? This is like the opposite of every date I've been on so I'm trying to wrap my head around how to approach it. Also how do you guys typically end these sort of dates? In a bar it's easy because getting the bill is like an artificial end point lol. With a walk it can go forever, what's your "wrap up"? Sorry for the question dump but I like this girl and don't want to blow it because of corona awkwardness. Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:01AM Whats...

I (25F) am not new to dating. But I don't do well single, mainly because I don't get the whole "talking" phase. If I want to sleep with someone, I don't butter them up. I'm upfront about my intentions. I even let any guy I'm interested know that he doesn't need to bother with buttering me up or making fake promises. I don't get the point. So here's what happened. I met a guy(28M) on a dating app. Basically everything about this guy is my dream man. Even down to his hobbies and quirks, which I've just recently found out. He was more interested than me for the first 3 weeks. Then I started to actually give him a chance and the more we talked the more I started to like him. He tells me constantly he isn't interested in just sex. I even told him that it's okay if he is, because I'm use to that and I've basically just accepted that about life when it comes to men. We finally met a couple days ago. And yes had sex. But also foun...

So, there is this girl I’ve been talking to for a little while who I’ve kinda got a crush on and I feel like she kinda did on me at one point maybe still does but I don’t know. Anyway, she’s sort of quiet but is always really nice, but sometimes it’s hard to tell if she wants to be flirty but is shy. Like I said, we’ve been talking and I was really thinking about asking her out. So she sends me something in response to a question then in a different message says “what are you doing.” It kinda took me by surprise I was at work, but I guess shooters shoot and I replied “I’m at work, what about later?” After that she said she meant it as part of the other message and not in that way. So, did I mess up the opportunity or further opportunity? Or maybe not cause it’s not like I was shot straight down I guess. I don’t know though, looking for someone’s opinion because I hope that stupidity didn’t ruin any chances Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:05AM So, there is this girl I’ve been talkin...

My first gf and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I'm almost 30 and feel like I'll never find anyone else. Especially because I still live at home. What's wrong with me Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:14AM My first gf and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I'm almost 30 and feel like I'll never find anyone else. Especially because I still live at home. What's wrong with me

I've been wanting to ask out my crush, but I don't know what I can do as a date. We live in a moderately sized town, but there is just about nothing to do here activity wise. Any ideas of what to do for dates, or how to approach her to even ask? Thanks. Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:20AM I've been wanting to ask out my crush, but I don't know what I can do as a date. We live in a moderately sized town, but there is just about nothing to do here activity wise. Any ideas of what to do for dates, or how to approach her to even ask? Thanks.

So for awhile until recently I’ve always gotten huge anxiety attacks when a female wants to be in a relationship with me. When I was 15 a girl told me she wanted to be with me. I liked her and she was amazing. But then when I tried to pop the question I tensed up and got super nervous. Same thing happened to me a little later on. This other girl wanted me and when she made a move on me I froze and tensed up. I wanted to be in a relationship with both of them. I’ve regretted all of that ever since. Now I don’t get anxiety attacks that much anymore. I text girls and get head from them frequently. But I still can’t stop thinking about the moments that happened when I was 15. Has anyone else gone through this? Why do you all think this huge 180 happen? What was wrong with me? Submitted May 12, 2020 at 11:50PM So for awhile until recently I’ve always gotten huge anxiety attacks when a female wants to be in a relationship with me. When I was 15 a girl told me she wanted to be with me....

It does help me to know that others are having a similar problem. For various reasons the stakes are high with my girlfriend getting covid so we’ve had to be careful, but we have seen each other and talked from a distance. The other day we sat on the grass with our legs straight out, took our shoes off, and put the soles of our feet together sock to sock. It sounds ridiculous, but it made my heart race. Miss her so much. ❤️ Submitted May 13, 2020 at 12:13AM It does help me to know that others are having a similar problem. For various reasons the stakes are high with my girlfriend getting covid so we’ve had to be careful, but we have seen each other and talked from a distance. The other day we sat on the grass with our legs straight out, took our shoes off, and put the soles of our feet together sock to sock. It sounds ridiculous, but it made my heart race. Miss her so much. ❤️

The contact tracing required by the Covid-19 pandemic has revealed some interesting things about people's sex lives. It turns out that nerds are the ones having the most sex. As the Telegraph in the UK writes, where they saw their chief health scientist rocked by a sex scandal [breaking lockdown to have sex; I can't link as it gets automoderated; you'll have to google the quote] There may be something counterintuitive about the idea of geeky science types having polyamorous lovers round, but once again Ferguson is pretty on trend. Techy sorts can be strongly drawn to novel-sounding sex lives. The preference of Silicon Valley brains for ‘bold, unconventional’ lifestyles, featuring ‘exclusive, drug-fueled, sex-laced parties’ was laid out in Emily Chang’s 2018 bestseller Brotopia. Meanwhile, the polyamorists that I’ve encountered around dinner tables have almost all been involved in maths, science or tech. In South Korea, they had a second wave of Covid-19 infections c...