I have a huge medical fetish, naturally getting my boyfriend to pretend to be a doctor inspecting me (thoroughly, of course) for any medical problems, especially given how dangerous this virus is, is something that will get me going. Hell, it's getting me going now. Of course, I also think it's just too soon. Or is it? Maybe next year once we're in the clear? Submitted April 15, 2020 at 12:23AM I have a huge medical fetish, naturally getting my boyfriend to pretend to be a doctor inspecting me (thoroughly, of course) for any medical problems, especially given how dangerous this virus is, is something that will get me going. Hell, it's getting me going now.Of course, I also think it's just too soon. Or is it? Maybe next year once we're in the clear?

I (25M) can’t feel my (24F) partner during vaginal sex for more than 2 minutes. My penis is pretty average, 16 cm long with 12.3 cm girth. She gets aroused and she is super wet, there is little to no friction after a couple of minutes. I have an average hand and I can almost put it all inside - we are close to fisting but we can’t quite do it because there simply isn’t enough space. Is she too loose? Am I too small? Is she too wet? I made her cum a couple of times during sex so I figured that she must feel something. What would be a solution here? She’s a great person to be around and I do not want this to ruin our relationship. Submitted April 15, 2020 at 12:24AM I (25M) can’t feel my (24F) partner during vaginal sex for more than 2 minutes. My penis is pretty average, 16 cm long with 12.3 cm girth.She gets aroused and she is super wet, there is little to no friction after a couple of minutes.I have an average hand and I can almost put it all inside - we are close to fistin...

Basically when someone were to ask you what a person's relationship is with you. Just seeing if people see it the same way. Thoughts? Ex. What I think (from lowest to highest) "Hey who's that?": -"oh that's just a random stranger" -"oh yeah that's [name]" -"oh that's [name] they're pretty cool/cute" -"we've talked a few times" -"we've gone on like one date" -"we're talking" -"we're dating" -"i'm seeing them" -"we're seeing each other" -"we're exclusive" -"we're in a relationship" -"we're official" or "that's my bf/gf/etc." -"we're engaged" -"we're married" -"we share a bank account" -etc. Submitted April 14, 2020 at 11:57PM Basically when someone were to ask you what a person's relationship is with you. Just seeing if people see it th...

Some guy was trying to sell this one program to me and idk it seemed... sketchy. Has anyone ever tried to sell you a dating program? Submitted April 14, 2020 at 11:59PM Some guy was trying to sell this one program to me and idk it seemed... sketchy. Has anyone ever tried to sell you a dating program?

So I started speaking to this guy at the start of isolation and we were talking for 3 weeks, it was very clear we were both romantically interested in each other. He lives a good 3 hours away from me so that was somewhat of a problem but he mentioned his ex lived further away from me so distance wasn’t a problem. Things were going well but we were meant to call 3/4 times but each time I brought it up he’d either find an excuse and the final time he said yes and then disappeared and we haven’t spoken since, it’s been 5 days. I know he’s watching my stories on social media but he hasn’t messaged me or even come up with a reason as to why after saying he would, disappeared. His lack of effort was always a bit of a red flag and obviously I don’t expect anyone to know what’s going on inside his head. I just assume he’s lost interest and it’s a shame because I still like him but I don’t understand how he can go from really liking me to not talking- I haven’t messaged him either but that’s m...

I’ve had anxiety and depression for as long as I can remember but I’ve hid it fairly well and often am “friendzoning” guys because I just never felt comfortable with myself and intimacy. I’ve clearly waited long enough and I’d like to try some online dating (I’d rather meet someone in person but I moved to a new city and going out alone isn’t really my thing). How do I let someone know that I basically have zero experience? I match with so many attractive guys and I have always been too scared they won’t like me once they find out. Any tips?? Submitted April 15, 2020 at 12:10AM I’ve had anxiety and depression for as long as I can remember but I’ve hid it fairly well and often am “friendzoning” guys because I just never felt comfortable with myself and intimacy. I’ve clearly waited long enough and I’d like to try some online dating (I’d rather meet someone in person but I moved to a new city and going out alone isn’t really my thing). How do I let someone know that I basically ha...

I haven't officially come out yet. At least not to anyone I know irl. I have hinted at the fact that I'm ace, but it just flies over the head of most. April 15, 2020 at 12:16AM

Fax. If people were never horny, then would-be rapists would probably find another way to exert control and humiliation over others anyway. April 15, 2020 at 12:15AM

I wish I never got horny. You're describing paradise. April 15, 2020 at 12:14AM

Yes and I forget I have genitals also April 15, 2020 at 12:11AM

That's the flag of the Space Aces April 15, 2020 at 12:11AM

yesss it’s so weird and so incredibly difficult to grasp the idea that most people voluntarily think about sex and fantasize about it with other people. like, for the longest time i didn’t really know what “sexy” meant because it’s like, unimaginable that people just, look at other people and are like, “oh yeah i wanna have sex with them.” ??????? April 15, 2020 at 12:06AM

I only told a few friends, my twin sister, and my mom. I want to be out but aro and aces are viewed as fake to some people. So ig Ill stick to people I can trust for now. April 15, 2020 at 12:06AM

All the time dude. April 15, 2020 at 12:02AM

Gross gross gross April 14, 2020 at 11:59PM

I thought so, but it's always reassuring to run it by people who understand where I'm coming from and can listen. April 14, 2020 at 11:59PM

So true. April 14, 2020 at 11:58PM

Yea, the mature server in cp are mostly horny people, but some are chill. April 14, 2020 at 11:57PM

Ok I see what you meant by "both have equal amounts of attraction to both sexes" now. I didn't take that as sexual attraction specifically rather than attraction overall. I don't see how any hetero or homo romantic ace would identify as bi. I don't even see why an aro-ace would identify as bi either since in both cases would suggest they have some interest in someone they aren't into. Stepping back a bit. Ace on it's own has nothing to do with identifying as another gender or being interested in a different from normal gender. This is is something that makes it different from the rest, if anything serving as a descriptor of what kind of attraction they feel towards whoever they are oriented to. This is why I consider it separate, but separate doesn't mean the communities or movements can't be allies since both will have shared members. April 14, 2020 at 11:57PM

Thanks, and yes, it does make sense! What I meant by "cancels out" is that I was curious if there was any gatekeeping aspects in the community/this subreddit that I should be aware of. Unfortunately, there always seems to be a group of people in every community that try to form some type of hierarchy. I'm grateful to hear otherwise! April 14, 2020 at 11:52PM

Personally it’s not the organs themselves (though I find all kinds of them ugly tbh), but my brain just refuses to acknowledge people around me are fucking. I have to make the conscious effort of reminding myself that most people actually do sex stuff and it isn’t just fictional characters doing fictional, abstract things like feeling sexual attraction. April 14, 2020 at 11:49PM

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