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Oral exhaustion and body image fear.

My gf and I have been together for nearly 2 years so far, and we are very much in love. We also share a great sex life when opportunities allow. We are very open to new things, and will be exploring a lot of very taboo (to some people) things in the future, and I can't wait to see what we end up trying. With that said, she has had some selfish lovers in the past, and that has affected both the way she sees her body, and through that, what she is comfortable with me doing to her. To me, her body is perfect. Curvy, smooth, warm, and hers. I love her, and her body is a part of that. I love giving her oral. And up until recently, she would not let me go anywhere near there with my face. As much as I tried, and though I also didn't push too hard, it just wouldn't happen. This was mostly due to an ex telling her she smelled, and/or didn't taste great. Over the last couple months though, she has been able to see that I absolutely love her smell, her taste, and her feeling on ...

Can anyone help ease my stress?

I always use condoms and pull out when I have sex. Never can be to cautious right? So Me and my girlfriend had sex yesterday and as I was pulling out, my “stuff” ,from what I can remember, went all over her back and the condom stayed in. Should I be worried? I checked the condom after and I don’t believe there was any residue to be found. I can’t stop thinking and stressing over this lol. Any advice? Submitted May 14, 2020 at 11:43PM I always use condoms and pull out when I have sex. Never can be to cautious right? So Me and my girlfriend had sex yesterday and as I was pulling out, my “stuff” ,from what I can remember, went all over her back and the condom stayed in. Should I be worried? I checked the condom after and I don’t believe there was any residue to be found. I can’t stop thinking and stressing over this lol. Any advice?

I love sexting strangers

I just want to admit it since I can't tall about it to anybody. I fucking love sexting strangers. Some men have HUGE dicks and I kinda wish I could play with a couple at the same time. Ive never done that before. It seems hot, you know? People on the internet do it, so why can't it be normal? Submitted May 14, 2020 at 11:46PM I just want to admit it since I can't tall about it to anybody. I fucking love sexting strangers. Some men have HUGE dicks and I kinda wish I could play with a couple at the same time. Ive never done that before. It seems hot, you know? People on the internet do it, so why can't it be normal?

After almost a year without sex I am already done?

Hi everybody! I'll keep it short: 4 year relationship came to an end, we had sex a few times over the last two years and after we broke up I felt the need to give myself the gift I thought I deserved. I happened to know this other girl and we had a nice weekend in which we had sex (not a lot, maybe 6-7 times). The last time we did it, I didn't really feel the need to and since then (Sunday) I don't feel the desire to do it again at all (not only with her). What's going on? I've been waiting for this for a very long time and now I'm just... ok with what I've had? What could it be? Maybe something related to the fact that my relationship ended in this period? Too soon? Or maybe something physical? Thank you so much! Submitted May 14, 2020 at 11:47PM Hi everybody!I'll keep it short: 4 year relationship came to an end, we had sex a few times over the last two years and after we broke up I felt the need to give myself the gift I thought I deserved. ...

I (m27) want to wear panties while my gf(f30) and I have sex/playing around.

We're in a serious relationship and she loves my submissive side. Idk how to ask but would it be weird if I just decided to slide in to a pair one day and see what happens? Submitted May 14, 2020 at 11:47PM We're in a serious relationship and she loves my submissive side. Idk how to ask but would it be weird if I just decided to slide in to a pair one day and see what happens?

Is it squirt or not?

Hello! (F) So, I was masturbating and I got this overwhelming peeing sensation and white liquid came out. I’m not sure if I squirted or it’s something else? Submitted May 14, 2020 at 11:52PM Hello! (F) So, I was masturbating and I got this overwhelming peeing sensation and white liquid came out. I’m not sure if I squirted or it’s something else?

Is this a kink or just a position? Does it have a name?

I (m) like to have my s/o sit beside me, then I reach around and put my hand over her mouth while licking along her shoulder and up her neck. Submitted May 14, 2020 at 11:53PM I (m) like to have my s/o sit beside me, then I reach around and put my hand over her mouth while licking along her shoulder and up her neck.

Girlfriend seems to take my sexual needs as a joke

My 28f sexual needs seem to never be met. My 22f girlfriend seems to just tease me and for lack of a better word blue ball me everyday. Initiates things with no follow through. She seems to get some enjoyment out of the torture. Feel as though it’s very lopsided. I’m always very willing and always making sure any of her needs are met. Affectionate touching, oral, anything, anytime I’m down to make her happy. When she finally but very seldom does do something she seems into it but then it turns into her either trying to hurt me ( spoken from her mouth) or she starts to make a joke out of it. She says it’s from inexperience and not feeling good enough. I’ve tried compliments and dirty talk to encourage her and make some of those insecurities go away. I don’t know what else to do. I’m very open with communication but she seems to take it the wrong way. If anyone has advice on how else to make her feel comfortable. At this point she either made a mistake by being with a girl or I’m not su...

Best Blowjob positions?

What are the best positions to give a blowjob? Lying down? Standing up? I always feel like Im in an awkward position. And under the covers or visible? I never want my partner seeing my face because Im insecure. But... In the past I’ve had multiple guys say (based off my looks) that I have dick sucking lips... and eyes?😂 Yet, I’ve never given a bj where Im actually in view. (Please don’t msg me for photos either LOL) Tips? Submitted May 14, 2020 at 11:57PM What are the best positions to give a blowjob? Lying down? Standing up? I always feel like Im in an awkward position. And under the covers or visible? I never want my partner seeing my face because Im insecure.But... In the past I’ve had multiple guys say (based off my looks) that I have dick sucking lips... and eyes?😂 Yet, I’ve never given a bj where Im actually in view. (Please don’t msg me for photos either LOL)Tips?

Ass play - how to keep it clean?

So my BF is interested in exploring ass play (on him) and I (F) also think that would be really hot - but in the theoretical imaginary way where the ass isn’t also where shit comes from. I feel like ass play isn’t the kind of thing you can just naturally move into during sex without pre-planning like you might a new BJ technique, because like ... what if it smells? Well, you can probably fill in the blanks about the sort of stuff I’m nervous about. Assuming someone practices good hygiene, how clean is the ass usually? Like, if you stick a finger up there are you going to get shit on your finger? How much prep is necessary? I know I could break out some rubber gloves if I wanted to be super safe but I’m not sure whether that’s needed, and I don’t want to look like i’m prepping for surgery if it’s a fairly chill business. Also, rimming. Does it taste / smell bad? Basically I’m keen to try stuff but have no idea what to expect. Any insights or tips appreciated. Submitted May 14, 20...

Girl wanted me to eat her ass after the gym, I refused

Am I stupid for not doing this? So I've been going to my local gym since it recently opened back up. This girl I knew from high school has been working out there. She's an absolute 10/10 hottie with a body. We get to chatting one night when the gym is fairly empty since it's like 11pm and we walk out of the gym together and she kind of comes on to me by touching me and messing around then asks if I want to chill in her car for a bit. I'm kind of dumbfounded and turned on like crazy so I say hell yes. We drove around a little and pulls over and asks if I want to do something, so I ask what and she said "eat my ass", and I thought she was joking and I kind of joked back. Next thing I know she's touching up on me and now I'm crazy horny. She goes in between the front driver seat and front passenger seat and bends over with her ass basically in my face and she pulls her pants down. So I'm sitting here with this hot as hell girl and her bare ass in my...

Married bisexual woman :(

I'm married and recently I found out I'm bisexual but I'm not sure, also it's not possible for me to try that. I shared this topic with my husband, although he is disagree with me. He thinks it's like betrayal. I don't think like him. How can I get sure enough that I'm bisexual? I'm afraid when the time comes I can't do that, meaning have a sex with another girl. Submitted May 15, 2020 at 12:11AM I'm married and recently I found out I'm bisexual but I'm not sure, also it's not possible for me to try that. I shared this topic with my husband, although he is disagree with me. He thinks it's like betrayal. I don't think like him. How can I get sure enough that I'm bisexual? I'm afraid when the time comes I can't do that, meaning have a sex with another girl.

Autism Spectrum Disorder and Sex

I have ASD and don't know how to do sex. I have a really horny girlfriend, and I don't know how to make her happy in sexual relationships. The feeling is weird, Sex for me is claustrophobic and anxious. If there's anyone here who can help me to understand Sex from a more comprehensive way, and make me fill joy in sex, I would like to hear you advice Submitted May 15, 2020 at 12:17AM I have ASD and don't know how to do sex. I have a really horny girlfriend, and I don't know how to make her happy in sexual relationships. The feeling is weird, Sex for me is claustrophobic and anxious. If there's anyone here who can help me to understand Sex from a more comprehensive way, and make me fill joy in sex, I would like to hear you advice

Low sex drive caused by anxiety and possibly medication

I’m 22 and always have had a high sex drive. I started vyvanse for my adhd and switched bc of anxiety and the drop in my sex drive. I’m on a new med and doing better but feel as though anxiety is killing it sometimes. Is this a normal reaction to stress? I struggle with social anxiety a little and feel strung out sometimes. I’d like to get my sex drive back but don’t know the proper steps. Submitted May 15, 2020 at 12:18AM I’m 22 and always have had a high sex drive. I started vyvanse for my adhd and switched bc of anxiety and the drop in my sex drive. I’m on a new med and doing better but feel as though anxiety is killing it sometimes. Is this a normal reaction to stress? I struggle with social anxiety a little and feel strung out sometimes. I’d like to get my sex drive back but don’t know the proper steps.

Dating apps made me realize that men find me attractive

I know the experience is different for everyone but as some who joined dating apps recently for the first time, I’m surprised by the amount of men who are interested in getting to know me. I’ve had long term relationships in the past and I do get approached sometimes but I’ve my moments where I don’t feel good about myself so this made me feel good to some extent. Sorry if this sounds like I’m boasting. Submitted May 14, 2020 at 11:51PM I know the experience is different for everyone but as some who joined dating apps recently for the first time, I’m surprised by the amount of men who are interested in getting to know me. I’ve had long term relationships in the past and I do get approached sometimes but I’ve my moments where I don’t feel good about myself so this made me feel good to some extent. Sorry if this sounds like I’m boasting.

If you want to know how your partner will treat you. See how they treat servers and shopping carts.

Know what servers and shopping carts have in common? They are there to serve you. Know what happens when you treat a server like trash? You see people as things for YOUR pleasure and for YOUR convenience. If you have a partner who thinks that once they put their groceries in their car and the shopping cart is of “no use” to them anymore so they just toss it wherever, guess what they will do if they don’t have use for you anymore. How you treat people and things beneath you speaks to how you treat people and things in general. Find a person that doesn’t take their problems out on people under them because you’ll be there eventually I promise. Submitted May 15, 2020 at 12:05AM Know what servers and shopping carts have in common? They are there to serve you. Know what happens when you treat a server like trash? You see people as things for YOUR pleasure and for YOUR convenience.If you have a partner who thinks that once they put their groceries in their car and the shopping cart ...

How do I [33/m] stop hating women?

Please don't say "Just go to therapy.". I want some real solutions here I think I might hate women. I realize it every time I watch a female streamer. In particular, one was talking about how coming out as Gay and it just made my blood boil. I couldn't stop thinking about how pretty she was, how many guys like her and how she is just breaking all of our hearts. I feel like my life is just marred by rejection and I am trapped. Women will never like me no matter what. I do all of the right things. I work out, I have a job, I treat them nice. But the bar of attraction is just so high. I need to be fitter, have more money, and most of all be more charming . Its just so hard and they have so many options. I find myself being nice to my female friends with the hopes that they will like me back, which is what everyone says is the right thing to do....only to be rejected. And like. I'm at the point where I don't even want to be in a relationship anymore. I can...

NSFW* should I tell my fwb i have feelings for him?

NSFW* Should I tell my fwb that i have feelings for him? Hey everyone! So I (18F) started talking to this guy (20M) i met on tinder in november. We went on a few dates and would text pretty often but I was still a little hung up on my ex at the time so I never really caught feelings right away and just mostly enjoyed his company and hanging out. Everytime we hung out, if it wasnt a date. We would have sex but then he would cuddle me after and I would play with his hair and we would listen to music and just talk about life and stuff and i would end up leaving at 1am even when i got to his house around 6pm. He would walk me to the bus stop too and kiss me goodbye and then text me the next day and ask how i am and all of that. he would also text me randomly in the week just to ask how im doing. At that point i kind of realized I had some feelings for him but i tried to push them away cause i just wasnt sure. Anyways Fast forward to now during lockdown. We would text each other a few ...

Anybody else in their 20's dating somebody with kid(s)?

I'm M21 and I'm really connecting with F25 who has a 3 year old. What are some things that I should anticipate/get used to the idea of if we start moving towards making things official? Submitted May 15, 2020 at 12:10AM I'm M21 and I'm really connecting with F25 who has a 3 year old. What are some things that I should anticipate/get used to the idea of if we start moving towards making things official?

I (21) am talking to a girl (20) thats sent my best friend (19) nudes before and don't know if I should continue to.

So basically I feel like I'm over thinking this situation but I also feel dumb for trying to get with girl. I met her through my friend when we had a random zoom session and she thought I was cute. We've been talking for around a week and we're hanging out this week. It's obvious she likes me but she's sent my friend nudes out of nowhere before and sorta recently. My friend has 0 intentions of doing anything with her but idk I just feel like a simp lmao. What are your opinions? Submitted May 15, 2020 at 12:15AM So basically I feel like I'm over thinking this situation but I also feel dumb for trying to get with girl. I met her through my friend when we had a random zoom session and she thought I was cute. We've been talking for around a week and we're hanging out this week. It's obvious she likes me but she's sent my friend nudes out of nowhere before and sorta recently. My friend has 0 intentions of doing anything with her but idk I just ...

He’s ignored me all day [27M] [23F]

For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much. On our first date we met up at Dairy Queen. We talked for three hours , he did majority of the talking. He asked me out for a second date a few days later and the second date he cooked and made cookies for us at his house we cuddled and watched movies. We had a 3rd date and we ended up having sex. Ever since the third date he’s been acting weird. When i come over he will ask me “why didn’t you give me a hug when you came in?” “Why don’t you bring a second pair of clothes over so you can spend the night?” “Can you come get comfortable with me?” “Do you want me to do this or that?” “Can you come over?” And if i say “I’m busy today he’ll ask can he come pick me up if I’m tired “Do you miss me?” It’s like he asks me questions non stop The other day when i came over he was on the game playing COD with his fri...

Awkward situations(on a first date)

Hanging out at a park with date on a first date, and some guy start to mouth off some racist shit to the girl I was with. At first, we are trying to be calm and talk it out but it seemed like the guy was being aggressive for no reason and being reasonable with a racist didn’t appeal to me, so I suggested we walk away. Why do people gotta ruin a good thing? I’m not afraid or new to confrontations but I know better, but I’m thinking if I should have set the guy right...but more or so afraid of how she is would perceive me. What would you have done? Submitted May 14, 2020 at 11:42PM Hanging out at a park with date on a first date, and some guy start to mouth off some racist shit to the girl I was with. At first, we are trying to be calm and talk it out but it seemed like the guy was being aggressive for no reason and being reasonable with a racist didn’t appeal to me, so I suggested we walk away. Why do people gotta ruin a good thing?I’m not afraid or new to confrontations but I k...

Do women like it when guys talk about their feelings or do they find it pathetic?

I just let out a bunch of emotion in a text with a girl that I’m friends with about how I feel about her and how happy I am to be friends with her. Her response gave me a “:)” but was otherwise pretty neutral. Kinda wish I didn’t send it now. I bet she laughed. I would have. Submitted May 15, 2020 at 12:03AM I just let out a bunch of emotion in a text with a girl that I’m friends with about how I feel about her and how happy I am to be friends with her. Her response gave me a “:)” but was otherwise pretty neutral. Kinda wish I didn’t send it now. I bet she laughed. I would have.