same April 06, 2021 at 11:57PM

LOUDER April 06, 2021 at 11:57PM

I think it's always good to mention, especially since ace/ aro is often being overlooked :) April 06, 2021 at 11:57PM

♥️🌈⚘ April 06, 2021 at 11:54PM

Yes of course! April 06, 2021 at 11:47PM

Kinda? I was exposed to sexual material and ideas at a really young age so I started behaving sexually as early as 1st grade. I had couple of classmates in elementary school that I would kiss and makeout with regularly. I didn't pursue anyone romantically or sexually in middle school or high school until I had the idea to try and hook up with someone when I was 16. I reached out to a friend I knew was dtf and once we started making out I felt completely bored and uninterested. My friends and I used to joke that I was the "experienced" one of the group but it makes me cringe looking back at how hypersexual I was when I was a kid. April 06, 2021 at 11:43PM

Finally someone who appreciates burnt sienna :) April 06, 2021 at 11:41PM

I do not know any other aces, and I was surprised to see a fellow belgian ace post on these subs a while ago. As far as I know, there is no community. It can get pretty lonely. I was hoping to show some support, find fellow aces on the Belgium sub, and raise awareness because my own experiences with peers etc haven't been that well... But r/Belgium mods weren't having it: "Since this is not Belgium specific, we won't allow this post. Feel free to discuss it in the daily slowchat." f*ck you, r/Belgium . I actually found out by chance, on the very day, it was International Asexuality Day. I was pretty stoked (what are the chances?), but so nobody to share this with. Anyway, I am glad this forum is around, at least you guys understand ! Although it's already over here in Belgium... Happy ace day fellow aces! April 06, 2021 at 11:39PM

Adorable 🥺💜 April 06, 2021 at 11:37PM

I love your art and I feel so seen 😭😭💜💜💜💜 April 06, 2021 at 11:37PM

This implies the existence of Medium rare sienna. April 06, 2021 at 11:35PM

Paraguay April 06, 2021 at 11:34PM

I never "came out" myself. I started identifying as asexual as soon as I found out what it is, and I'm pretty sure I just casually brought it up to my mom when she was talking about relationships one time. Since then, I've been very open about it. It never seemed like a big deal to me. April 06, 2021 at 11:33PM

If you mean you find the person you have a bond with as physically attractive, yes, this is what demisexuality is. Since this is sexual attraction, there's always a physical aspect in it, but unlike for allos, demis just don't experiment it at all at first sight. April 06, 2021 at 11:31PM

So like.. is it possible to experience primary sexual attraction after you experience secondary sexual attraction but only after the secondary happens? April 06, 2021 at 11:29PM

It wasn't trending for me earlier Twitter does mess with the trends though April 06, 2021 at 11:21PM

I love this color now April 06, 2021 at 11:18PM

I feel like a lot of people don't make that distinction between being asexual and just not having a high libido. And people also forget that you can mentally have no desire for sex but still physically enjoy it because your body may still get that pleasure response April 06, 2021 at 11:18PM

love this style man April 06, 2021 at 11:17PM

Hey. Thanks for sharing this. I have the exact same thoughts about calling myself ace. But reading this gave me a little bit of confidence and showed me that I am not that alone with my thoughts and should accept myself with what I think feels right. Thanks <3 April 06, 2021 at 11:13PM

You can be heteroromamtic that just really appreciates women's beauty. April 06, 2021 at 11:13PM

I dont think so, the line between flirting and making conversation can be close April 06, 2021 at 11:11PM

Merci monsieur April 06, 2021 at 11:10PM