When I started birth control, I started to let my boyfriend finish inside me. I’ve noticed that whenever he does, I feel a burning sensation. Yesterday when he told me he was going to come I knew exactly when he did because I started feeling the burn. The thing is, this pain isn’t unbearable. It’s just uncomfortable, it feels similar to the burn you get when you have sex without foreplay/lubricant (I know this isn’t the reason because when we used condoms it never burnt, I just know from experience with my ex boyfriend.) I always sit on the toilet on my phone for around 10 minutes to sort of let it ‘drip out’ and obviously, to pee right away. After that it’s almost gone, and after 20 more minutes or so it’s completely gone Edit: I don’t think it’s allergic reaction because if I swallow it if he finishes on my body there’s never any discomfort at all. I know talking to a doctor would be the best bet but I see it as something I can live with, I’m also only 19 so I’d be a little too emb...

I'm male, my partner is female. We're unable to find any position that stimulates her clitoris during PIV intercourse. We've tried her on top, missionary, scissors etc and nothing works. I'm after any advice or recommendations on a passive device (not a vibrator or battery powered device) that might help with this. My partner is able to orgasm easily and consistently via any number of methods, oral, fingers, vibrator. However her clitoris requires direct friction in order for her to orgasm. Pressure or movement that is not caused by actual friction simply won't work for her. Believe us, we've done a lot of field research on this! Her clitoris is concealed within her labia and can only be accessed if the labia is spread apart by hand and we believe this is the primary reason why she can't be stimulated via PIV. It's not a massive issue for us as we enjoy a lot of variety and enthusiasm with our current repertoire but we've been curious if there is ...

I'm 22 years old. I was in a relationship with my then-girlfriend for three years, we broke up in 2019. We were both REALLY sexually inexperienced. She was a virgin, and me? I actually had sex prior to our relationship, but it was when I was 13. Yes, the girl put it in for me. I was basically a dildo the way she was putting me inside her LOL! But yes, my ex and I broke up due to the arguments we would have after our failed attempts at sex. We always felt like "this time for sure" yet, it just was never that time. She viewed it as "my job as the man" to put it in her and take control, and I viewed it as her duty as the owner of a vagina to guide me around because I was clearly lost in pussy town. I felt like less of a man. Embarrassed by potential conversations she would have with friends. I mean, 3 years and not once did we fuck? All because I couldn't find the hole? Don't even get me started on the jealously I felt knowing that someone else will be t...

So I (26M) started to develop feelings for one of my coworkers(27F) Which i don't know how to handle since I haven't been in a relationship, or had the desire to be in one, let alone have feelings for some one in over 6 years. Isn't there like some Golden rule that office romance is never a good idea. Don't shit where you eat as the saying goes or something like that. Well I really like this girl and I don't really have the intention to date her per se but I would like to get to know her on a personal level and become good friends with her at least. Most of the conversations we have at work are typical workplace conversations like "how was your weekend?" or "how's your day going?" ect. Nothing too exciting but I feel like if we hung out outside of work it would be easier to connect/relate with her especially since I'm a very reclusive person and I'm better at 1 on 1 conversations. Last night I had a dream that she and my best friend...

Me and my partner broke up after 9.5 years in around March. Everything got tied up and finished (house sale stuff) about 6 weeks ago. I'm having trouble moving on or at least just letting it go for now. The lack of intimacy after having it there for so long is messin with me. Is trying some casual stuff usefull to get your mind off her and hopefully help move on? ​ Any advice/experience would be great. Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:35PM Me and my partner broke up after 9.5 years in around March. Everything got tied up and finished (house sale stuff) about 6 weeks ago. I'm having trouble moving on or at least just letting it go for now. The lack of intimacy after having it there for so long is messin with me.Is trying some casual stuff usefull to get your mind off her and hopefully help move on?​Any advice/experience would be great.

I’m a full-time engineering student who lives at home. I drive but don’t current have my own car and I’m not working during this semester since I want to focus on classes, although I have a bit of a savings account. I spend a good amount of time studying, but I also think it’d be nice to have the companionship (? I can’t think of the right word) of having a girl in my life. I don’t necessarily feel lonely, but I feel like it’d be nice. Also I’m the only one in my friend group that’s single. Idk if that matters but just adding it in here. Would it be a bad idea for me to try to look for a relationship right now? I don’t know if this post even makes any sense but I’m just confused and a little frustrated. Thanks. Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:36PM I’m a full-time engineering student who lives at home. I drive but don’t current have my own car and I’m not working during this semester since I want to focus on classes, although I have a bit of a savings account. I spend a good amo...

Some backstory A few nights ago I tracked up to a college campus to visit some of my high school friends. I am not going to this school, I just traveled there to see everyone. I reunited with some of my friends and we walked around the campus and drank alcohol. I’m a bit of a lightweight so I wasn’t walking properly and there were cops around so this girl I had been crushing with the past few months started to hold my hand. It eventually escalated to me putting my arms around her and eventually to us making out. We kept walking around, eventually I sobered up a little and we went back to her dorm. We went for a walk at like 4am and talked about our future and if there were any prospects for a relationship. We both said we would try to make it work. We kissed again and this time we were both pretty much sober I woke up the next morning and we talked about it again. She said she is worried about ruining our friendship, and if we eventually broke up then we wouldn’t be able to be fri...

english is not my first language and I'm pretty drunk so sorry if I don't make any sense. So I'm a bisexual man, and I never had any trouble dating guys. I have a lot of female friends, and I don't have any trouble speaking with them. The problem is when I LIKE a girl, usually they just want me to be a "gay friend" or Idk. In the past I had sex with girls a few times, but just casual stuff, I'm tired of being just a "gay friend" I'm not gay!! :C I asked my best friend and she said is weird for girls when a man is bi, and maybe is true. is it? Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:37PM english is not my first language and I'm pretty drunk so sorry if I don't make any sense. So I'm a bisexual man, and I never had any trouble dating guys. I have a lot of female friends, and I don't have any trouble speaking with them. The problem is when I LIKE a girl, usually they just want me to be a "gay friend" or Idk. In the past ...

Just wanted to share this lil story date. Nothing bad happened. He seem interested since he drove more than an hour. I think I gave off a vibe that I wasn’t interested? Or we just had different hobbies I guess? He still wanted to hang out a bit after our little dinner, so that gave off a good impression. But he unmatched me or maybe deleted his dating profile. I noticed it once I got home. Which I found weird. I wasn’t rude or anything and I get I look prettier in person and easygoing. So it wasn’t how I was. But it’s all good! Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:38PM Just wanted to share this lil story date. Nothing bad happened. He seem interested since he drove more than an hour. I think I gave off a vibe that I wasn’t interested? Or we just had different hobbies I guess? He still wanted to hang out a bit after our little dinner, so that gave off a good impression. But he unmatched me or maybe deleted his dating profile. I noticed it once I got home. Which I found weird. I wasn’t...

I just keep on having my matches fizzle out. Either on tinder or through text, I ask them out but they say oh I’m busy this week I’ll lyk. Is there a guide or books I could learn from to stop this? Anybody have advice for me? Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:45PM I just keep on having my matches fizzle out. Either on tinder or through text, I ask them out but they say oh I’m busy this week I’ll lyk. Is there a guide or books I could learn from to stop this? Anybody have advice for me?

i’m 19 and i met a great guy who’s a little older than me but i’ve lost feelings for him and i dont want to be with him anymore but i recently found out from a friend that he attempted suicide after his last girlfriend left him and im so worried he’ll hurt himself if i leave him. ive been emotionally blackmailed before but i refuse to go through it again and while i dont think he’s deliberately manipulative sometimes says manipulative things and im worried i’ll put aside my own wants and needs because im worried about him. how do i go about ending a relationship like this? we’ve only been together for a little less than a month but he fell for me a little too fast and i just dont want him to be devastated. ive tried dropping hints that im losing feelings and either he hasnt picked up on them or is deliberately ignoring them. i even told him i felt like we rushed into things and even though he agreed i dont think he really understood what i was telling him because he hasn’t slowed down...

I (M18) have a good friend “N” (F18) and the girl in question is “R”. I have known N since middle school and we ended up going to the same college and being in the same major (we’re freshman now). N’s roommate is R, which is how I found out about her. Then a few weeks ago, R requested me on Instagram and a few days later, she requested me on my back-up/close friends account too, but quickly cancelled the request to follow that account (maybe showing that she was stalking?). When college started (a few weeks ago), there were a few group situations where me and R were present and I would catch her looking at me and vice versa. However, we haven’t really talked at all. A few days ago, my other good friend T, sent me R’s number telling me that she has the same chem professor as me (by mistake) and this is how I reached out to R: Me: Hey R! This is (my name) I thought I would reach out since T gave me your number I was wondering if you wanted connect sometime soon to get to know each o...

I'll try to keep this as short as possible. I matched with a girl on Hinged about 2-3 weeks ago. We chatted for a day or so and I gave her my number. Never got a text. Oh well, onto the next one. Fast forward about 2.5 weeks, I get a text from her asking how I was and that she was sorry she didn't reach out sooner. First thought in my head was "oh whoever she was talking to didn't work out now she's onto me" Whatever, I didn't care. We have a lot of the same interests, she's cute, all that good stuff. We chat for a day or two, I lasted texted her the night before with no response, it happens. So I text her again the next day of a relevant picture to our previous convo, still no response. She works in the medical field so she said she has been busy, so I didn't think much of it. So that night I decided I would just straight up ask her to meet up sometime, mostly because I don't enjoy getting to know someone over text. No response. So anothe...

This guy and I have been dating for 2.5 months. In the beginning we jumped in fast. Slept together on the first date and basically lived together for a month. He was still seeing other people and I found out. Initially hurt but I realised it was early days and we never had the discussion. We acknowledged we went fairly fast and he's stated he wants to explore us and hopes for something more but feels we should take its slowly. While the time together has lessened to take away the intensity and slow it down, the sex aspect hasn't. I've informed him that I've had past dating scenarios where I've been used, and because I'm serious about seeing what happens with us I don't want it to be just about sex. He agrees but the pace for sex is still at the same level as before, which is a lot. For myself I'm at a point in the relationship where I'd like to explore a bit more exclusively and he's aware. He doesn't feel we are there yet and needs more tim...

I've slept with a total of 20 people. I'm 20 female Is it bad to sleep with a 18 year old virgin? Submitted August 29, 2021 at 11:59PM I've slept with a total of 20 people. I'm 20 female Is it bad to sleep with a 18 year old virgin?

Some background information to start with. I (33M) matched with this woman (35F) on OkCupid a few weeks ago. I was only there looking for new friends as romantic feelings doesn't come easy for me. She was looking for new friends and long-term dating and is a demisexual. We have only been texting online so far as both of us are the shy type and big introverts , plus the fact that she lives in another country. Recently however, I have been starting to get some romantic feelings towards her, but given she is demi, I am not sure if it's too early to tell her about it. I am very bad at reading into these things, so I'm hoping some of you on here could give your take on this situation. Based on the following, she does seem to be interested in me, but I'm not sure if it's just purely on a platonic level. We have been texting every single day for these past 4 weeks, and she quite often initiates these conversations and ask how my day is. She is always pretty quick t...

I was in a GC with him and then I left that GC because I felt distracted. I tried multiple times in his DMs to build convo but it was just awkward and I felt like he didn’t wanna continue. He helped me a bit. I soft blocked him on Twitter so I don’t think about him anymore and then he followed me. And then I soft blocked again and then I felt bad so I followed and then he followed me. When I looked at my Instagram, he unfollowed me on there right after. So I was like lemme soft block him on Twitter again cause I had a bit of an ego lol. A week later, I saw a tweet of his and I liked it because I felt like I don’t want to have hard feelings with him. He then followed me on Twitter and I followed back. I like few of his stuff and I retweet. I NEED HELP. I want to stop having a crush. Submitted August 30, 2021 at 12:02AM I was in a GC with him and then I left that GC because I felt distracted. I tried multiple times in his DMs to build convo but it was just awkward and I felt like ...

I’m female. This guy I was talking to randomly called me “bruv” on a text he sent so does that mean he only sees me as a friend? He usually doesn’t do that but my question is do u think he’s calling me that to show me he only sees me as a friend or am I tripping? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 12:07AM I’m female. This guy I was talking to randomly called me “bruv” on a text he sent so does that mean he only sees me as a friend? He usually doesn’t do that but my question is do u think he’s calling me that to show me he only sees me as a friend or am I tripping?

I (21F) just got on Hinge and I get some likes from guys that don’t really appeal to me but don’t totally turn me off either. Sometimes I just want to learn more about them and maybe get some more pictures, since sometimes the ones on their profile aren’t clear. It can be hard to tell with a basic profile about what someone is like. I’m worried that by matching with them I’ll give them a false sense of hope, when chances are I’m not going to pursue anything with them. Submitted August 30, 2021 at 12:10AM I (21F) just got on Hinge and I get some likes from guys that don’t really appeal to me but don’t totally turn me off either. Sometimes I just want to learn more about them and maybe get some more pictures, since sometimes the ones on their profile aren’t clear. It can be hard to tell with a basic profile about what someone is like. I’m worried that by matching with them I’ll give them a false sense of hope, when chances are I’m not going to pursue anything with them.

I'm a young guy and I am currently on a bit of a dry spell. However there's this chubby girl that I recently met at a friend's party. She's been hitting me up a lot and is really interested. I've been thinking about it, but not sure. What do you think? Submitted August 30, 2021 at 12:13AM I'm a young guy and I am currently on a bit of a dry spell. However there's this chubby girl that I recently met at a friend's party. She's been hitting me up a lot and is really interested. I've been thinking about it, but not sure. What do you think?

So I know a girl whom I went to school with almost 7 years ago. Back then I didn't think anything of her, because I was 12 - 16 (4 years in the same class) and maybe a bit childish. Saw her last year in a club before covid, and something just clicked in me. I've had those feelings more than once, especially when there's alcohol, but that time it was different. We talked a bit, were a bit touchy, complimented each other; it wasn't awkward. Then her friends decided to leave, so she went with them. I thought that it was nothing because I've felt that way before and thought that that feeling will probably go away, but here we are, 16 months later and I still feel "it". Through the years I've lost her phone number and I've been inactive on IG since 2012, so I really don't have a normal way to communicate with her. DMing her all of a sudden via IG is weird (especially with my dead profile) and you can't convince me otherwise lol. Anyway, I kno...

I'm a young adult, but people often tell me I look 15 or even as young as 12. There's been three separate occasions where middle school-aged boys talked to me in hopes of asking me out. (Fortunately, they got embarrassed and apologized when I told them I'm too old for them.) I've even had people, even close family members, tell me multiple times that any adult who'd want to date me would have to be some sort of creep. These comments have poisoned my self-image so much that I'm wary of guys my age who show interest in me. I feel unlovable in that sense. Is there a way to rationalize myself out of this mindset? It sucks for my self-esteem, and I don't want to miss out on a potentially awesome partner because of my insecurities and paranoia. Submitted August 30, 2021 at 12:14AM I'm a young adult, but people often tell me I look 15 or even as young as 12. There's been three separate occasions where middle school-aged boys talked to me in hopes of...

it sucks, i know, you know, but in the end, we were living before even met them so we can still live without them, and yes, i loved her, i still do, she is one of my bestfriends so its hard, i talk to ber daily, but life must go on you know, she is still her, and yes it was awkward at first, after i told her, but in the end, if you guys were really close, those things dont end a friendship Submitted August 30, 2021 at 12:16AM it sucks, i know, you know, but in the end, we were living before even met them so we can still live without them, and yes, i loved her, i still do, she is one of my bestfriends so its hard, i talk to ber daily, but life must go on you know, she is still her, and yes it was awkward at first, after i told her, but in the end, if you guys were really close, those things dont end a friendship